Originally posted by: Anvi2009
I do not agree with half the things Neil said as Virat as I guess I do not agree with Virat all the time. First of all, I am tired of characters comparing maturity level between Patralekha and Sai. When has Patraleka shown maturity? The only reason she respects the adults is because she is treated like a goddess in that house. Look at the way she talks back to Ashwini. She is all about lip service, superficialness. Not once did she show support toward Shivani. With Sai, you get what you see. She is as real as she can get. And when required, she shows her maturity in thinking, maybe not always in actions but I do not blame her. If Virat thinks that Sai is immature and Patralekha is mature then either Virat has no skill to judge people or he is still blindly in love with Patraleka. 😡 And when can we expect the elderlys in the house to show maturity. I am still waiting to see that. Elders' scolding is one thing, which is what Virat has faced. But Sai does not get scolding, what she gets is emotional torture via vile name-calling, taunts, no freedom, constant complaints, mountain-like responsibility as bahu, etc. So there is no comparison. And according to Kaku, lying is not a bad thing, but getting caught is. So sure, if this is what maturity means then I am happy to see Sai immature for life.
Sai's tit for tat may be wrong but what is she to do exactly. Be quiet, walk-off when she is emotionally tortured? Hasn't she tried all that? Has it worked? Virat is not always there to see or support Sai. Most of the time she is on her own. Has he tried to talk to Ashwini or Shivani to try to find out what goes on behind his back? Did he add 2+2 and come to 4 when it comes to his family's treatment of Sai, and mostly the different way Sai is treated from Patralekha? It has been weeks since she has come to the house and nonstop she is being tortured verbally. How much is she supposed to take? Neil as Virat in the interview still thinks that gharwalo ka dil acha hain. I guess Virat still thinks like that and it is his fault then to think like that, not Sai's. It was his responsibility to bring Sai to his house. He should have talked to his family before marrying Sai. Sai did not sign up for constant torture.
Lastly, Sai is not grateful to belong to the house and get his support? Like seriously. Does Virat not know Sai at all? And would Sai need Virat if her father was alive? Did the cvs and characters forget about her Aaba's sacrifice. Basically what Virat wants is for Sai to become like Ashwini, keep your mouth shut, listen to the adults, and do as they say. Virat knew Sai before marrying her, was she the type to accept injustice and not do anything about it? If he has that much problem with Sai's behaviour, why not let her stay in a hostel? His family will be happy and so will Sai. Virat, if your house is a constant war zone for Sai, how is she to grow and learn and become "mature" as you keep on saying. She lives in survival mode there, not knowing if she will get breakfast the next morning, and especially not knowing who will walk into her room without knocking. 😡
Lol, why am I so angry after watching the interview. It is like I feel Virat just does not understand what Sai is going through in his house.
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