Don't u think Sai is actually very adamant? Reality check? - Page 3

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

Honestly, day by day Sai's behaviour is going wrong and Virat is correct in taming her. In reality, such a daughter in law cannot survive in a joint family. There are times where things has to be handled maturedly and not the way she does everytime. I agree that the inlaws are not good but, having a war with them everyday will one day make her bad in the eyes of the ones who actually admire her. No one can tolerate this kind of behaviour even at the workplace, forget about the inlaws. I am surprised to see that this forum doesnt have any such post about her wrong behaviour. All the other daughter in laws like karishma and pakhi are bad at heart but they are shrewd to keep themselves in the good books of everyone. But, she being good at heart dont have the basic skills and manners to survive in a big joint family. Its not always necessary to fight and reply for everything. I mean i dont feel thats her tashan, it just shows her immaturity. And in reality people actually boycott such kind of people who never agrees on anything and always do whatever they want. This is just my opinion. I dont know why no one ever pointed this in the forum.

Ashwini is the living example of the result of tolerating everything in the name of maintaining peace in the family.. Look at how unhappy and frustrated she is.... Whatever sai is doing is only for her own survival.... She doesn't expect anyone to come and save her... She's doing it herself.... Surviving in a zoo like chavan niwas requires extraordinary courage and strength...we have plenty of fl's who tolerates every crap thats thrown at them... For once we have one fl who isnt a doormat.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

That’s what people are missing

Sai never had a chance

She was considered worthless from day 1

Not forgetting the stereotypical "jungli" which leaves a bad taste whenever it is said.

She was worthless because she was not their choice.

I don't know why people here are not getting.

It's not the matter of what is the way of talking of opposite side .

And I don't think a girl of 20 yrs is too younger to don't know way to talk

Ok agreed her in laws are so bad but what about virat is he also bad? Ok today he behaved badly about to say to go out house. But she never listen calmly to virat.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

U know support of husband goes a long way. If he is supportive a woman can tackle the family easily. She is considered worthless in their eyes or not that doesnt matter for Sai at all, she doesnt give a damn. So she can just ignore and all those people who dont like her. U know people tend to get bored of such people very fast. Clearly Viraat has started disliking her behaviour to an extent that they are having fights. And this is television, so definately he will love him after all her flaws. But, no husband will actually tolerate a wife who keeps on arguing everytime whether it is about inlaws or other things.

No she does give a damn

It hurts every time they call her names and say shit to her

In real life most inlaws wouldn’t behave like jungli animals either

So it goes both ways

Originally posted by: lonelyyyy

I don't know why people here are not getting.

It's not the matter of what is the way of talking of opposite side .

And I don't think a girl of 20 yrs is too younger to don't know way to talk

Ok agreed her in laws are so bad but what about virat is he also bad? Ok today he behaved badly about to say to go out house. But she never listen calmly to virat.

I replied your previous reply also. Thanks for agreeing again. I am glad someone here is getting my point.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

Thanks for agreeing. Well u know the serial showing these kind of behaviour actually spoils the minds of so many girls. They feel that this is the correct way to live after marriage. They feel that if they will adjust they will become a doormat. Everyone should keep their self respect but at the same time, life is about adjustment and it goes for both men and women.

You mean woman should adjust to being called jungli, badtamiz, begairat, not worth her husband, ehsaan faramosh, to being tortured because she wants to study😲

I know marriage is all about adjustments, but hell this type of adjustment - no thank you.

Adjustments should be done to a healthy level not at the detriment of one's self-respect.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

U know support of husband goes a long way. If he is supportive a woman can tackle the family easily. She is considered worthless in their eyes or not that doesnt matter for Sai at all, she doesnt give a damn. So she can just ignore and all those people who dont like her. U know people tend to get bored of such people very fast. Clearly Viraat has started disliking her behaviour to an extent that they are having fights. And this is television, so definately he will love him after all her flaws. But, no husband will actually tolerate a wife who keeps on arguing everytime whether it is about inlaws or other things.

In real life, who can tolerate a husband or in - laws who have these kind of expectations.Sorry, if i am being rude, but why woman needs the stamp of approval from anyone about who she is?

Isn't marriage about adjusting and loving the other half with their flaws.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

No she does give a damn

It hurts every time they call her names and say shit to her

In real life most inlaws wouldn’t behave like jungli animals either

So it goes both ways

Lol, they tell her jungli bcoz she is ever ready to fight. Imagine Patralekha who also speaks a lot but she knows how and where she has to speak so she is considered as 'matured' though her intentions are always bad. If Sai also remains calm why will they call her 'jungli'

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

You mean woman should adjust to being called jungli, badtamiz, begairat, not worth her husband, ehsaan faramosh, to being tortured because she wants to study😲

I know marriage is all about adjustments, but hell this type of adjustment - no thank you.

Adjustments should be done to a healthy level not at the detriment of one's self-respect.

Agreed to your point this is wrong to call someone like this

Here I would like to add that here virat is also wrong he is not seeing both sides of coin He should point out that this is wrong

Here sai should point out this that calling her like this wrong but she is also lowering her standard to their level only.

Originally posted by: kashishrocks

Lol, they tell her jungli bcoz she is ever ready to fight. Imagine Patralekha who also speaks a lot but she knows how and where she has to speak so she is considered as 'matured' though her intentions are always bad. If Sai also remains calm why will they call her 'jungli'

They called her jungli from the first day she arrived, because she is from a forestial area. That is negative stereotyping and should never be normalised.

Even if she is loud or whatever, grouping someone in a category is not done. It is never okay.