Virat vs Sai

I had posted this on a different topic but felt like it warranted a separate post. Would love to hear peoples thoughts.

I think the fundamental difference lies in how they respond to insults or confrontations.

Sai's style is to go full throttle. She says everything she feels, she doesn't hold herself back. She doesn't mince her words and yes she sometimes gets a little carried away in the anger and in the flow. She is loud and in your face when she gets confrontational. Yesterday when she handled those ladies i thought she was spot on though. Neither too loud but her stern tone ensured that she was "heard". But Sai runs the risk of becoming so loud that all people remember is how rude she was and not focus on WHAT she is saying. Thats definitely a problem because Sai drops truth bombs and shows the mirror like no one else can.

Whereas Virat is usually the polar opposite. Whether it is the not so important confrontations in GC about Sai's dads VRS or big things like his marriage and today this Shivani bua issue, he always says very little and is far too measured amd too "polite and civil"in his responses. Today there were many points when ninad, bk, sonali, pp were talking that he clearly didn't agree with their thought process. He kept flinching or shaking his head disappointedly. Especially when BK said ki uske taange tod ke ghar par bithana tha. And sonali said ek besharam dusre ka saath de rahi hai. Ninad also had said ki Sai ne dhoke se shaadi ki. But he didn't "directly" respond to any of these things. He kinda let it slide. I mean from his gestures abd demeanor its clear he didn't agree but he didnt counter them line for line. He made his overall stance clear that he supports both bua and Sai but he didnt counter every single allegation. Like he did NOT say, no Sai didn't do any dhokha. Or no, shes not besharam. But because hes so calm in his confrontations his words lose their "sting and power," which is sometimes needed. People dont take him seriously enough because he is too "nice" . So he needs to learn to speak UP- literally- show his intention in his tone and choice of words. Yes its great he is respectful even when he disagrees but sometimes a "little bite" is needed.

For example Sai contines to face a lot of taunts but NO one has ever repeated a word directly about her aabaa after the reception incident. Because she was pitch perfect in that confrontation.

But Virat has never been as "stern". In the course of all the scenes he had stated that even though the shaadi was a result of consequences, it was HE who decided to marry Sai, not the other way round. He has said its not an ehsaan. He has said ki meri binti hai ki Sai ke saath bhi parivaar ke sadasya jaisa vyavhar kiya jai. But none of these things are actually happening because he is SO polite in his tone that peoole dont think their bad behavior to Sai will have any consequences.

It doesn't help that everyone except PP is older than him and also to Sai so even when he takes a stand in support of Sai against the elders, he never tells them to apologize to Sai for speaking rudely to her. He doesn't ever say- thst kaku/baba, apne abhi jo Sai ke baare main kaha, voh bahut galat hai aur aapko uski maafi maangni chahiye. When an older person makes a mistake they should also "apologize". When BK literally flung Sai's certificates he looked shocked but he tried to "pacify" her afterwards. He didnt ask her to apologize.

I think thats because he just cant exercise those rights in front of them.

But whenever Sai makes a mistake even though Virat tries to be patient with her, he really goes off on her. Haq jata kar he forces her to apologize and rectify the errors. Whether it was manaofying kaku in the reception or bringing PP back home. And Sai is probably the only person he has completely lost his cool with where he actually "scolds her loudly". He has done that quite a few times already. Some more serious than others. I think until this precap his behavior was the worst with Sai when he thought he was losing his job and he flung the plate of food and lost it with Sai.

Virat only seems to feel that haq on Sai. Maybe its coz shes the youngest and she is his wife so he feels he can take that liberty with her. Hum khul kar gussa unhi se kar paate hai jinse hum pyaar karte hai. So even before he realizes his love, this liberty he takes to really take out his gussa on her shows the apnapan he feels. But obviously there is a limit to it. He cannot be actively confrontational only with Sai and so passive in confrontations with the rest of his family.

Some people are saying we are never rude to our parents. But thats not true. It depends on our equation and comfort level with them. In my own personal case, i can be a little short tempered, no where close to Sai. but i find it way easier to go off on my mom than my dad because my mom is more like the "friend and confidante" whereas theres more respect with dad. Sometimes when i look back i know i have been pretty loud and mean with her. Once even walked off and slammed a door. Ouch. I'm not proud of it but i know that a child can sometimes speak to the parent rudely. But eventually you love them and they love you.

And he cannot expect that Sai will undergo a U turn in her personality to approach all confrontations the way he expects or the way virat himself would. Her core nature and attitude cannot be completely replaced. Just like he wants her to tone it down, he should tone it up to compensate.

So basically virat and Sai need to borrow some pages from each others approaches to confrontation.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

I had posted this on a different topic but felt like it warranted a separate post. Would love to hear peoples thoughts.

I think the fundamental difference lies in how they respond to insults or confrontations.

Sai's style is to go full throttle. She says everything she feels, she doesn't hold herself back. She doesn't mince her words and yes she sometimes gets a little carried away in the anger and in the flow. She is loud and in your face when she gets confrontational. Yesterday when she handled those ladies i thought she was spot on though. Neither too loud but her stern tone ensured that she was "heard". But Sai runs the risk of becoming so loud that all people remember is how rude she was and not focus on WHAT she is saying. Thats definitely a problem because Sai drops truth bombs and shows the mirror like no one else can.

Whereas Virat is usually the polar opposite. Whether it is the not so important confrontations in GC about Sai's dads VRS or big things like his marriage and today this Shivani bua issue, he always says very little and is far too measured amd too "polite and civil"in his responses. Today there were many points when ninad, bk, sonali, pp were talking that he clearly didn't agree with their thought process. He kept flinching or shaking his head disappointedly. Especially when BK said ki uske taange tod ke ghar par bithana tha. And sonali said ek besharam dusre ka saath de rahi hai. Ninad also had said ki Sai ne dhoke se shaadi ki. But he didn't "directly" respond to any of these things. He kinda let it slide. I mean from his gestures abd demeanor its clear he didn't agree but he didnt counter them line for line. He made his overall stance clear that he supports both bua and Sai but he didnt counter every single allegation. Like he did NOT say, no Sai didn't do any dhokha. Or no, shes not besharam. But because hes so calm in his confrontations his words lose their "sting and power," which is sometimes needed. People dont take him seriously enough because he is too "nice" . So he needs to learn to speak UP- literally- show his intention in his tone and choice of words. Yes its great he is respectful even when he disagrees but sometimes a "little bite" is needed.

For example Sai contines to face a lot of taunts but NO one has ever repeated a word directly about her aabaa after the reception incident. Because she was pitch perfect in that confrontation.

But Virat has never been as "stern". In the course of all the scenes he had stated that even though the shaadi was a result of consequences, it was HE who decided to marry Sai, not the other way round. He has said its not an ehsaan. He has said ki meri binti hai ki Sai ke saath bhi parivaar ke sadasya jaisa vyavhar kiya jai. But none of these things are actually happening because he is SO polite in his tone that peoole dont think their bad behavior to Sai will have any consequences.

It doesn't help that everyone except PP is older than him and also to Sai so even when he takes a stand in support of Sai against the elders, he never tells them to apologize to Sai for speaking rudely to her. He doesn't ever say- thst kaku/baba, apne abhi jo Sai ke baare main kaha, voh bahut galat hai aur aapko uski maafi maangni chahiye. When an older person makes a mistake they should also "apologize". When BK literally flung Sai's certificates he looked shocked but he tried to "pacify" her afterwards. He didnt ask her to apologize.

I think thats because he just cant exercise those rights in front of them.

But whenever Sai makes a mistake even though Virat tries to be patient with her, he really goes off on her. Haq jata kar he forces her to apologize and rectify the errors. Whether it was manaofying kaku in the reception or bringing PP back home. And Sai is probably the only person he has completely lost his cool with where he actually "scolds her loudly". He has done that quite a few times already. Some more serious than others. I think until this precap his behavior was the worst with Sai when he thought he was losing his job and he flung the plate of food and lost it with Sai.

Virat only seems to feel that haq on Sai. Maybe its coz shes the youngest and she is his wife so he feels he can take that liberty with her. Hum khul kar gussa unhi se kar paate hai jinse hum pyaar karte hai. So even before he realizes his love, this liberty he takes to really take out his gussa on her shows the apnapan he feels. But obviously there is a limit to it. He cannot be actively confrontational only with Sai and so passive in confrontations with the rest of his family.

Some people are saying we are never rude to our parents. But thats not true. It depends on our equation and comfort level with them. In my own personal case, i can be a little short tempered, no where close to Sai. but i find it way easier to go off on my mom than my dad because my mom is more like the "friend and confidante" whereas theres more respect with dad. Sometimes when i look back i know i have been pretty loud and mean with her. Once even walked off and slammed a door. Ouch. I'm not proud of it but i know that a child can sot rudely. But eventually you love them and they love you.

And he cannot expect that Sai will undergo a U turn in her personality to approach all confrontations the way he expects or the way virat himself would. Her core nature and attitude cannot be completely replaced. Just like he wants her to tone it down, he should tone it up to compensate.

So basically virat and Sai need to borrow some pages from each others approaches to confrontation.

@green and bold..spot on...even I have had those incidents with my daughter, but we settle end of day itself..The person whom we love the most are the one we hurt the most as well. Thats because there are expectations from each other..Even though Virat and Sai say they dont have any, they are bound in each and every single action they do, before or after marriage..Virat always expected a sorry, thank you, bye or some sign from Sai..Same from Sai's monologues, didnt come to discharge me, he must have gone to Nagpur, why am I thinking of him.

Virat's style is to bottle it up and escape or postpone the conflict for as long as he can. He is very composed, too much for my liking, during any confrontation with his family. You'll see him sigh, close his eyes, press his forehead, roll his eyes but he does not go beyond that.

Edited for a personal anecdote: when I first started my job, there was this colleague that used to dump all her works on me. Since I was new, I hesitated to speak and say anything. I bottled everything up, until one day, this one very nice colleague asked me help her in her work and I errupted. The second colleague was not the cause of my frustration, but she riled up me when I was at my boiling point. So, sara gussa uspe nikal di. I was angry with a different person, but because she triggered me at that point, she bore the brunt. That's what happens when you keep things inside you for long.

And bottling it all up will only lead to an explosion later. And one of 2 people will bear the brunt- Sai and his aai. Mainly Sai because she is younger and his wife. Because he can only take that liberty with her. But that doesn't mske it right. Hes bottling up his frustration about these daily fights and finally only taking it out on Sai. Haan badtameez hai par kyun hai? He knows that his family members dont like Sai but he still doesn't get how much they "hurt" her with their words and actions. He thinks shes only screaming and yelling because shes badtameez but its also an expression of her hurt. Sai does not know how to stay quiet and bear it all in silence like Virat. Ab se pahle Umar aur rishte ka lihaaz usko kabhi karne ki zarurat nahi padi. She only ever had 2 people in her family- aabaa and maushi. Un donon ke liye bhi usne apna pyaar bhi gusse se jatayaa hai. When she used to scold her dad about his medicines and health or his eating habits.and jo bhi dusre adults uske life mein aaye hai like milind, kale, GC people, teachers - no one has ever made her feel like CM folks. And its tough to learn to have that lihaaz for these people only because of their age when they just dont stop with their taunts. Sai is seeing her stay as short term and doesn't care to build a relationship with them either. And after having seen how shivani, devi, ashwini and virat himself is treated by this family, she probably just doesn't care. But Virat wants her to care atleast for his sake because these people are his family and now he considers Sai as family too.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

I had posted this on a different topic but felt like it warranted a separate post. Would love to hear peoples thoughts.

I think the fundamental difference lies in how they respond to insults or confrontations.

Sai's style is to go full throttle. She says everything she feels, she doesn't hold herself back. She doesn't mince her words and yes she sometimes gets a little carried away in the anger and in the flow. She is loud and in your face when she gets confrontational. Yesterday when she handled those ladies i thought she was spot on though. Neither too loud but her stern tone ensured that she was "heard". But Sai runs the risk of becoming so loud that all people remember is how rude she was and not focus on WHAT she is saying. Thats definitely a problem because Sai drops truth bombs and shows the mirror like no one else can.

Whereas Virat is usually the polar opposite. Whether it is the not so important confrontations in GC about Sai's dads VRS or big things like his marriage and today this Shivani bua issue, he always says very little and is far too measured amd too "polite and civil"in his responses. Today there were many points when ninad, bk, sonali, pp were talking that he clearly didn't agree with their thought process. He kept flinching or shaking his head disappointedly. Especially when BK said ki uske taange tod ke ghar par bithana tha. And sonali said ek besharam dusre ka saath de rahi hai. Ninad also had said ki Sai ne dhoke se shaadi ki. But he didn't "directly" respond to any of these things. He kinda let it slide. I mean from his gestures abd demeanor its clear he didn't agree but he didnt counter them line for line. He made his overall stance clear that he supports both bua and Sai but he didnt counter every single allegation. Like he did NOT say, no Sai didn't do any dhokha. Or no, shes not besharam. But because hes so calm in his confrontations his words lose their "sting and power," which is sometimes needed. People dont take him seriously enough because he is too "nice" . So he needs to learn to speak UP- literally- show his intention in his tone and choice of words. Yes its great he is respectful even when he disagrees but sometimes a "little bite" is needed.

For example Sai contines to face a lot of taunts but NO one has ever repeated a word directly about her aabaa after the reception incident. Because she was pitch perfect in that confrontation.

But Virat has never been as "stern". In the course of all the scenes he had stated that even though the shaadi was a result of consequences, it was HE who decided to marry Sai, not the other way round. He has said its not an ehsaan. He has said ki meri binti hai ki Sai ke saath bhi parivaar ke sadasya jaisa vyavhar kiya jai. But none of these things are actually happening because he is SO polite in his tone that peoole dont think their bad behavior to Sai will have any consequences.

It doesn't help that everyone except PP is older than him and also to Sai so even when he takes a stand in support of Sai against the elders, he never tells them to apologize to Sai for speaking rudely to her. He doesn't ever say- thst kaku/baba, apne abhi jo Sai ke baare main kaha, voh bahut galat hai aur aapko uski maafi maangni chahiye. When an older person makes a mistake they should also "apologize". When BK literally flung Sai's certificates he looked shocked but he tried to "pacify" her afterwards. He didnt ask her to apologize.

I think thats because he just cant exercise those rights in front of them.

But whenever Sai makes a mistake even though Virat tries to be patient with her, he really goes off on her. Haq jata kar he forces her to apologize and rectify the errors. Whether it was manaofying kaku in the reception or bringing PP back home. And Sai is probably the only person he has completely lost his cool with where he actually "scolds her loudly". He has done that quite a few times already. Some more serious than others. I think until this precap his behavior was the worst with Sai when he thought he was losing his job and he flung the plate of food and lost it with Sai.

Virat only seems to feel that haq on Sai. Maybe its coz shes the youngest and she is his wife so he feels he can take that liberty with her. Hum khul kar gussa unhi se kar paate hai jinse hum pyaar karte hai. So even before he realizes his love, this liberty he takes to really take out his gussa on her shows the apnapan he feels. But obviously there is a limit to it. He cannot be actively confrontational only with Sai and so passive in confrontations with the rest of his family.

Some people are saying we are never rude to our parents. But thats not true. It depends on our equation and comfort level with them. In my own personal case, i can be a little short tempered, no where close to Sai. but i find it way easier to go off on my mom than my dad because my mom is more like the "friend and confidante" whereas theres more respect with dad. Sometimes when i look back i know i have been pretty loud and mean with her. Once even walked off and slammed a door. Ouch. I'm not proud of it but i know that a child can sometimes speak to the parent rudely. But eventually you love them and they love you.

And he cannot expect that Sai will undergo a U turn in her personality to approach all confrontations the way he expects or the way virat himself would. Her core nature and attitude cannot be completely replaced. Just like he wants her to tone it down, he should tone it up to compensate.

So basically virat and Sai need to borrow some pages from each others approaches to confrontation.

Want to write a long one and I will come back later this evening if I can but just want to say: both their approach mechanisms are flawed. They can only be perfect when they deal with it together. I have a problem with Virat's conditioning to escape from confrontation so much that he pushes her to say sorry when it is not needed , as you pointed out. And it kind of totally contradicts his own stand about issues. So if you think you will flip, then don't take a stand. But when he is convinced about something, he won't budge for anything -- for example Kaku walking away this morning or even during the day of the medical college admission.

Sai, on the other hand, is impulsive, brash and does not give a damn about how she sounds. She will introspect but not change her stand. However, it is a fact that she is a public relations disaster. We all have one person in our family who will be like that and one person trying to balance. And this PR disaster person can actually make the one supporting her/him sweat because they are such loose canons that can turn and fire at their own team when left uncontrolled. I don't think Sai is perfect. Her ideals are in the right place and they essentially match with Virat's but they have to be on the same team to win. When she says he doesn't call out his family for saying hasty things to her I agree but very often he enters the scene when she has already started reacting and he doesn't know the complete picture and begins chastising her for her words. Similarly, Sai, she knows he doesn't want her to bear everything silently but she does cross the line very often. He was very clear when he armed her that you don't need to reply in the same tone as the elders speak to you. But Sai has this compulsion for tit-for-tat. It doesn't work aways because she fails to see how the so-called instigators turn the tables on her because of the sheer number and 'position' they enjoy. Also, it is not as easy as we feel to be in a situation like that from both ends. A family that is disapproving of your marriage is difficult to live with and the best option is to move out but if there is a compulsion to live together, then somewhere you have to sign ceasefire agreement. And it has to be both ways.

Why did Sai and Virat nail it when they returned from their outing after the medical college admission? Because Sai gave it in a way that was decent. It did not cross the line of manners. Even when the family pointed out about 'badtameezi', Virat said he cannot see any. Kaku told him to 'biwi ko samjhao'. He didn't say anything to her except joining her in a laughing about how she ended up bursting all the balloons they had bought. That is the tact he wants her to use.

Basically, they need to do some energy transfusion -- Sai needs one part of his calmness and he needs two parts of her grit in calling out people in their faces.

And again, despite all this -- they can be wrong on bad days. All couples go through ugly fights. It's what they do after a fight that makes a difference.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Virat's style is to bottle it up and escape or postpone the conflict for as long as he can. He is very composed, too much for my liking, during any confrontation with his family. You'll see him sigh, close his eyes, press his forehead, roll his eyes but he does not go beyond that.

Edited for a personal anecdote: when I first started my job, there was this colleague that used to dump all her works on me. Since I was new, I hesitated to speak and say anything. I bottled everything up, until one day, this one very nice colleague asked me help her in her work and I errupted. The second colleague was not the cause of my frustration, but she riled up me when I was at my boiling point. So, sara gussa uspe nikal di. I was angry with a different person, but because she triggered me at that point, she bore the brunt. That's what happens when you keep things inside you for long.

I totally agree with this about Virat. Ashwini and Virat are both going to blow off at some point and unfortunately it will be at someone who didn't really deserve it but ended up being the trigger. Unfortunately, with Virat it will be Sai because she's the only one he actually shows this side too. But I hope that he actually releases that pressure at the ones who deserve it. May be it will come one at a time.

That personal anecdote sounds like such a true story. And honestly we often bleed on those who don't cut us.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

I had posted this on a different topic but felt like it warranted a separate post. Would love to hear peoples thoughts.

I think the fundamental difference lies in how they respond to insults or confrontations.

Sai's style is to go full throttle. She says everything she feels, she doesn't hold herself back. She doesn't mince her words and yes she sometimes gets a little carried away in the anger and in the flow. She is loud and in your face when she gets confrontational. Yesterday when she handled those ladies i thought she was spot on though. Neither too loud but her stern tone ensured that she was "heard". But Sai runs the risk of becoming so loud that all people remember is how rude she was and not focus on WHAT she is saying. Thats definitely a problem because Sai drops truth bombs and shows the mirror like no one else can.

Whereas Virat is usually the polar opposite. Whether it is the not so important confrontations in GC about Sai's dads VRS or big things like his marriage and today this Shivani bua issue, he always says very little and is far too measured amd too "polite and civil"in his responses. Today there were many points when ninad, bk, sonali, pp were talking that he clearly didn't agree with their thought process. He kept flinching or shaking his head disappointedly. Especially when BK said ki uske taange tod ke ghar par bithana tha. And sonali said ek besharam dusre ka saath de rahi hai. Ninad also had said ki Sai ne dhoke se shaadi ki. But he didn't "directly" respond to any of these things. He kinda let it slide. I mean from his gestures abd demeanor its clear he didn't agree but he didnt counter them line for line. He made his overall stance clear that he supports both bua and Sai but he didnt counter every single allegation. Like he did NOT say, no Sai didn't do any dhokha. Or no, shes not besharam. But because hes so calm in his confrontations his words lose their "sting and power," which is sometimes needed. People dont take him seriously enough because he is too "nice" . So he needs to learn to speak UP- literally- show his intention in his tone and choice of words. Yes its great he is respectful even when he disagrees but sometimes a "little bite" is needed.

For example Sai contines to face a lot of taunts but NO one has ever repeated a word directly about her aabaa after the reception incident. Because she was pitch perfect in that confrontation.

But Virat has never been as "stern". In the course of all the scenes he had stated that even though the shaadi was a result of consequences, it was HE who decided to marry Sai, not the other way round. He has said its not an ehsaan. He has said ki meri binti hai ki Sai ke saath bhi parivaar ke sadasya jaisa vyavhar kiya jai. But none of these things are actually happening because he is SO polite in his tone that peoole dont think their bad behavior to Sai will have any consequences.

It doesn't help that everyone except PP is older than him and also to Sai so even when he takes a stand in support of Sai against the elders, he never tells them to apologize to Sai for speaking rudely to her. He doesn't ever say- thst kaku/baba, apne abhi jo Sai ke baare main kaha, voh bahut galat hai aur aapko uski maafi maangni chahiye. When an older person makes a mistake they should also "apologize". When BK literally flung Sai's certificates he looked shocked but he tried to "pacify" her afterwards. He didnt ask her to apologize.

I think thats because he just cant exercise those rights in front of them.

But whenever Sai makes a mistake even though Virat tries to be patient with her, he really goes off on her. Haq jata kar he forces her to apologize and rectify the errors. Whether it was manaofying kaku in the reception or bringing PP back home. And Sai is probably the only person he has completely lost his cool with where he actually "scolds her loudly". He has done that quite a few times already. Some more serious than others. I think until this precap his behavior was the worst with Sai when he thought he was losing his job and he flung the plate of food and lost it with Sai.

Virat only seems to feel that haq on Sai. Maybe its coz shes the youngest and she is his wife so he feels he can take that liberty with her. Hum khul kar gussa unhi se kar paate hai jinse hum pyaar karte hai. So even before he realizes his love, this liberty he takes to really take out his gussa on her shows the apnapan he feels. But obviously there is a limit to it. He cannot be actively confrontational only with Sai and so passive in confrontations with the rest of his family.

Some people are saying we are never rude to our parents. But thats not true. It depends on our equation and comfort level with them. In my own personal case, i can be a little short tempered, no where close to Sai. but i find it way easier to go off on my mom than my dad because my mom is more like the "friend and confidante" whereas theres more respect with dad. Sometimes when i look back i know i have been pretty loud and mean with her. Once even walked off and slammed a door. Ouch. I'm not proud of it but i know that a child can sometimes speak to the parent rudely. But eventually you love them and they love you.

And he cannot expect that Sai will undergo a U turn in her personality to approach all confrontations the way he expects or the way virat himself would. Her core nature and attitude cannot be completely replaced. Just like he wants her to tone it down, he should tone it up to compensate.

So basically virat and Sai need to borrow some pages from each others approaches to confrontation.

I really hope that after this Sairat face off where Virat blasts Sai there is a scene where they both reflect and feel bad. Like the PP going to maayka time. Virat looked back and felt bad that he didnt even listen to Sai just because of PP and Sai just keot thinking about hiw upset Virat is and wanted to fix it.

So after this scene also i want Virat to introspect about everything Sai did and how he never told her how proud he is or appreciated her for standing by his bua but held on to this badtameezi thing and maybe went overboard himself. To show her that lihaaz and tameez was important he crossed those lines himself.

And Sai can reflect on how much Virat has stood by her against thd vultures in this house and how his only request of her has been to be a little mindful of "pesh aana".

I really want a great making up scene.

Bengali mein toh nahi tha but hopefully iss mein they can add a making up scene.

Originally posted by: neeraja91

I really hope that after this Sairat face off where Virat blasts Sai there is a scene where they both reflect and feel bad. Like the PP going to maayka time. Virat looked back and felt bad that he didnt even listen to Sai just because of PP and Sai just keot thinking about hiw upset Virat is and wanted to fix it.

So after this scene also i want Virat to introspect about everything Sai did and how he never told her how proud he is or appreciated her for standing by his bua but held on to this badtameezi thing and maybe went overboard himself. To show her that lihaaz and tameez was important he crossed those lines himself.

And Sai can reflect on how much Virat has stood by her against thd vultures in this house and how his only request of her has been to be a little mindful of "pesh aana".

I really want a great making up scene.

Bengali mein toh nahi tha but hopefully iss mein they can add a making up scene.

Can you tell how they patched up after this blasting scene and especially after amey drama, because when this showdown happens sai is waiting for amey to arrive at the house right?

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I totally agree with this about Virat. Ashwini and Virat are both going to blow off at some point and unfortunately it will be at someone who didn't really deserve it but ended up being the trigger. Unfortunately, with Virat it will be Sai because she's the only one he actually shows this side too. But I hope that he actually releases that pressure at the ones who deserve it. May be it will come one at a time.

That personal anecdote sounds like such a true story. And honestly we often bleed on those who don't cut us.

Now that he's learnt how to blow up, he better direct it to the right person as well😆

When I restrospected on what I did after the anger subsided, I realised how wrong I was, but the damage was already done! A word once spoken cannot be taken back.