I can understand ur opinion but i still feel the same. i can give many reasons for that but it would only create more debate. for me she is wrong and she would remain so.
i never said that vicky should not know his parents. it is his right, but it is absolutely not necessary when he is only 9yrs old. let him grow up, enjoy his childhood without a scar in his heart that his parents are dead.
whatever i said above , if u notice , i have used these words" if i adopt someone", so this scenario only involves me and not any other person, what i would have done. different people will take different decisions .where there is laasya on one side there is also maan.yes here its a matter of best friends but sadly the truth remains the same, his parents are dead. he is adopted. he would never be able to feel them, touch them, see them again. my mother, my father, my brother, the way we can lay a claim on our dear people will he able to lay that claim on laasya and maan? in every step he would be hesitant whether he should do this or not, say something or not? is it his right to take decision in this family? ek baccha apne apko boj samajne lagta hai, may be not vicky but many others would.
yes true sarani and daman deserve it but parents always want what is best for their kids and they both would be happy if their son is truly happy.
i never really thought that my simple comment would create such a big issue. i thought i have a right to give honest opinion but i guess i am wrong. if any one else has a problem with my comment then plz send me a pm. lets not discuss it here and sabotage maggie's thread.
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for me, past just doesn't matter to me at all. i am like maan, bit possessive about the people who are very near to me and i would go to any extent to protect them as far as i can. - maine kaha ki the past doesn't matter to me but i never said that i would never reveal the truth. i would do it only when the right time comes, as far as i can go, when i will see that my son is capable enough to handle the truth, understands the difference between memories and realty, death and life. no matter how much he tries to know them it will only give him pain because they are not going to come back. never.
Edited by maanugeetu - 12 years ago
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