Is MSK still insecure about Dev???

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Posted: 14 years ago

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it wouldn't feel right if maan didn't feel a little prick of insecurity over dev having been geet's first and, to date, only partner in bed...and that too having been the man that left her pregnant with a baby that even he became atached to...there are a lot of layers there

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: undisclosed
it wouldn't feel right if maan didn't feel a little prick of insecurity over dev having been geet's first and, to date, only partner in bed...and that too having been the man that left her pregnant with a baby that even he became atached to...there are a lot of layers there

Especially when their own relationship is yet to reach that stage due to (unbelievable) circumstances😛. He is a very earthy being...lets not forget that...

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_Invincible_

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: -pixie-

I think I am going to have to write and stop being so lazy...just to get my point across..

Why would you be possessive about someone? As I understand the word possessive- it means a desire to own or control another human being. Its only when I am insecure and I feel that I may lose him/her will I lay claim to another being. What kind of love would prompt someone to lay siege on another beings identity?

btw: She also told him on their almost SR, that she cant believe that she is married to him or that she is lying in his arms!

i guess if human emotions could have been easily defined by wiki's or dictionary den dere would not have been mess at all...............
just see d reaction of person and jump to google.............😆😆😆😆
human emotions r d most complex thing to understand and dey hold diff. value for diff. people..................
just like pammi accepts husband's dominance as a part of her duty as a wife same is not d case 4 geet.....................4 geet its a matter of her self respect and dats 100% right

Possessiveness is something that makes you to feel ,the right to have an ownership over someone you love.I haven't given the correct definition but this will be good enough to give a glimpse of what possessiveness is. If Maan is possessive GEet herself agreed she feel same for him.....So its both love for each other which force them being possessive about each other.....

wen a mom wants his kid to stay away from bad company den she is being possessive not insecure dat she will lose her child....................
wen we go out shopping wid hubby and even if a gal crosses his line of eye and we pinch him den we r being possessive not insecure dat we will lose our hubby.......

so possessiveness is a mutual affair ,not a single partner can b tagged as insecure..............

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Posted: 14 years ago

#64

@Pooja: Has something given you the impression that I think only Maan is the insecure one in this relationship? I tried explaining earlier as well- how both of them are dealing with their own demons.

You will have to excuse my habit of referencing and analysing based on research- put it down to my profession. We have a saying "In God we trust, everyone else bring data". Hence, this constant need to back-up what I say with external data sources.😆

Edited by -pixie- - 14 years ago

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@49erFan

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Google uncle gave me this!

Two studies of the correlates of self-reported courtship persistence, stalking-like behaviors following a relationship break-up, and psychological maltreatment of partners were conducted in samples of male (N = 46 and 93) and female (N = 123 and 110) college students. Approximately 40% (38.5% and 44.6%) engaged in at least one stalking behavior following a break-up. A total of 10.7% (study 1) and 7.6% (study 2) engaged in 6 or more stalking behaviors. Stalking was significantly related to psychological maltreatment of the partner (PMP) prior to the break-up. Being the recipient of the breakup was associated with feelings of anger, jealousy and obsessiveness and with higher levels of courtship persistence, and stalking. A replicated path model showed that anxious attachment and need for control were related to PMP and that need for control had a direct contribution to stalking. For anxious attachment, its connection to stalking was indirect, mediated by the degree of anger-jealousy over the break-up.

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serialwatcher16

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Insecurity is the fear of losing someone.

the fear of losing someone makes people do stupid things and act in stupid ways.

this act of doing stupid things is how they become possessive

they either become too clingy by keeping track of everything that person is doing

or they try to do everything for that person so that that person does not look at anybody else or does not need anybody else.

but a man or woman is a social animal and needs different people to suit theit different needs and it is humanly impossible for one person to be that all encompassing person for the other.

is it because it is 1.30 that i am rambling, good night

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@49erFan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#67

For me bottom line is insecurity stems from jealousy and that's when possessiveness starts! I've been thru this with a friend not too long ago!

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Posted: 14 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: -pixie-

Especially when their own relationship is yet to reach that stage due to (unbelievable) circumstances😛. He is a very earthy being...lets not forget that...

yes....not consumating the marriage...can drive any human insane...and maan is quite the specimen...now i still have not watched that gesture in question to see if it was insecurity or hurt...but i am rooting for insecurity...i need that whole ordeal to be talked out....

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nandita singh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: -pixie-
@Nandita: Well those 3 are intricately related....

Lets take the tailor incident- there seems to be a consensus on this thread itself (will wonders ever cease) that that was Maan being possessive. How did we garner that, because he was jealous of tailor touching his mate! Possessiveness and jealousy- very much related! Thats why most of the viewers mocked the episode, since under no condition would one expect a man of Maan's bearing to be jealous of an old tailor.

Maan's one line uttered a long time ago- "Mujhe to laga tum sirf meri ho" to me very elouqently captures his possessiveness and insecurity(sirf meri ho part)

These three words are as related as day & night....not day & light.

The tailor incidence well again I guess its case of perspective ....

For example the Shimla pool scene I read many comments that Geet was acting jealous when she was trying to hide Maan from the sight of the girls.

But to me it was not her being Insecure of them nor Jealous. But only being possessive about her husband.
A husband/wife can be possessive since its more a case of 'belonging to me'......

As to the dialogue "Mujhe to laga tum sirf meri ho" - Well my first line of my first comment on this thread was Maan is Possessive.
This dialogue & mention of tailor scene also reminds me the moment Geet says '..main iss baat ka mazak kaisai udasakti hun jab mujhai bhi yahi lagta hai kai aap bas merai ho'
He said 'sirf' she said 'bas' more like the end to it you are mine.

Edited by nanditasingh - 14 years ago

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_Invincible_

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: -pixie-
@Pooja: Has something given you the impression that I think only Maan is the insecure one in this relationship? I tried explaining earlier as well- how both of them are dealing with their own demons.

You will have to excuse my habit of referencing and analysing based on research- put it down to my profession. We have a saying "In God we trust, everyone else bring data". Hence, this constant need to back-up what I say with external data sources.😆

its ok buddy..........
u r lucky enough dat u r related to research and facts and I can google too about facts and data but point is according to human behavior is way complex than its few written meaning across net. All I am saying is on real experience from life...To each to its own For me human behavior is too complex to understand through few numbers therefore I am trying to justify psychology behind it....

moreover inn T.V. industry dey dont go by research or facts .................dey show watever brings dem TRP no matter how illogical or nonsensible it is.......................

u r lucky enough dat u r related to research and facts coz in my case i cant apply my business stats and figures here.................😆😆😆😆😆😆

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