My few reasons for Geet's adamancy..

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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Yea their heart to heart talk is absolutely necessary to fill the gape in their misunderstanding..

As the miscommunication is there major issue all the time...

Maan thinks with head and Geet with heart so they need to come to the point where they both can understand others POV..

But then this MU takes the story further... So may be they may not elaborate it too much..

But let's hope...

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ukdesigirl

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

hey Eva, totally agree with you, well said 👏

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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

Thanks for your input.. Yea I can understand your frustration as Geet's POV are not shown by any means..

But I think CVs just wanted to create a diversion in the story and they brought this track in different environment and different location and this was only possible of Geet walking away and lend in the house of her relatives and Maan going after her..

So they tried to cover is with some logic but then stretched it farther making Geet adamant and then not showing her inner turmoil or inner thoughts to audience to justify her actions..

after many days they brought this word "Gunah" concerning Maan's behavior and her reason for unforgiveness..

But one word is not enough... They need to elaborate it little further..

So let's see if they bring that eye opener convo or just touch it lightly..

I think they will open it up..

Edited by evasumi - 14 years ago

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DMKJ_VB

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: evasumi

Absolutely loved your POV about how a person remembering the most shattering moments given by the most beloved person. and in that hurt all the love all the good times all the times when only Maan was with her gets wash away. The situation is like the broken glass... though one try to mend but it does not mend the scars remains as the reminder...

When during the time of their engagemnet when Geet left Maan and there were some volatile moments as Maan dragging her out of the office and they both go their separate way.. at that time also there was not a question of love between them it was the question of misunderstanding of one's behavior and when Geet was asking the forgiveness she told aapko maine galat samza. Maine Suraj per andhera ka ilzam lagaya.. (i misunderstood you. I made misjudgement of and thought you as the darkness but you were bright like sun) That time also there was not the question about one's love and Maan understood her perfectly saying that itne dhokhe khane ke bad to koi bhi galti kar sakta hai (after deceving so manytime any one can make mistake) and I also did not try to correct your misunderstanding...

So it was alwasy misunderstanding between them and not the question of one's love or integrity..

But here the allegation from Maan has totally different view. When he separated himself from her there was a contempt and disgust in his manner and action and he did not feel at all feel that he did anything wrong even when he saw cupboards empty of Geet stuff... even when Dev was forcing him to listen to him... He told Dev... you being of all people would teach me what is love???? and Dev had to stand firm and said yes I will as I know being the most unlucky person the value of true love and you do not...

Those harsh jolts from the man like Dev who has no moral values in eyes of Maan opened up Maan's eyes until then he had no idea that why in the world Geet had to leave him as he never thought that with those words he has condemn Geet of her loyalty.

i hv to say,i disagree with every word both of u said! sorry, but thats how i ,and frankly speaking most feel.maan never questioned geet's loyalty,never!when he realised geet had gone away, he was sad and blamed dev, yes,it took him time to realise he was wrong in saying those words,but wouldn't a man who was angry feel that way!it was geet's actions which angered him, but sadly, the defenders of geet choose to turn a blind eye to her faults everytime, unlike those who support maan.i am not saying that maan was not wrong,he was, but the moment he realised it, he repented, and not silently, he took all the trouble in the world to covince and apologize to geet!

Geet on the other hand has absolutely no realisation that it was her applying tilak on dev with a huge smile on her face which triggered maan's anger, and sorry, but her action was extremely objectionable- fine,she chose to forgive dev, but there was no need of playing holi with him,that too with a huge smile.anyways,i know u will argue that she did it for maan-though i fail to understand why?becoz maan never asked her to do that!anyways,even if i leave that point,what geet said yesterday to dev about never forgiving maan and what she has tolerated- the dialogues were disgusting-yes,i hv no other word for those dialogues, especially after she was busy hugging Daarji who had actually wanted to murder her!she can't think beyond her pain-and thats been always true-during the previous misunderstanding,she realised she was wrong after ahe heard maan talking to naintara, so how is that any different to maan's realization after talking to dev?she was the one who first pushed maan in front of the staff, she humiliated him in front of the media,she blamed him of disloyalty-Unlike Maan!!even when meera told her dev was in jail, she said it was becoz of her,not maan! that was the reward she gave maan for his unconditional love! and now, she has suffered so much, o yes, only she.is always,'I.Me.Myself' for her! maan's sufferings-o, nothing in front of her-after all she is 18yr old, has suffered a lot, so it gives her the license to be adamant,selfish.and becoz we r women,we have to side with her becoz she belongs to the same sex!!!!

anyways..........the fact is that many people hv stopped respecting her and she won't gain it back after their reunion.she is officially dead after yesterday's dialogue! her character is ruined beyond redemption!!

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AR_ArShi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

yh eva ur right i understand y geet is adamant i dont blame her...she just lost her baby and the person she trusted most said that to her so i dont blame her i can understand her reaction especially after everything she has been through

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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Blaming Geet for adamancy is not going to help

We have to think as her perspective too..

She has gone through such turmoil in life..

First she lost her baby on which her life was hagging..

Then her husband misundersood her..

Then he did not listen to her and then he got angry at her and called her names and separated himself from her..

So in short period of time she lost the most dear 2 people in her life on which she existed..

So now how in the world she can come out of that shock so easily..

We see Maan being so lowly and being insulted but Geet does not see it that way... She trusted Maan to save her from all and he hurt her to core so even though she sees and gets upset but her self preservation does not allow her to trust Maan so easily and go back to him..

This kind of deep hurt takes time... and it is up to Maan to prove to her over and over again that what he did to her was simply horrible but he has to bring that trust factor back in thier relationship and then only Geet would trust him again with all her being until then I do not think she may feel pain and sorrow at his treatment but would not get that feeling of trust to forget and go back with him..

Maan will have to prove himself now...

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mechantefille

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: evasumi
Blaming Geet for adamancy is not going to help

We have to think as her perspective too..

She has gone through such turmoil in life..

First she lost her baby on which her life was hagging..

Then her husband misundersood her..

Then he did not listen to her and then he got angry at her and called her names and separated himself from her..

So in short period of time she lost the most dear 2 people in her life on which she existed..

So now how in the world she can come out of that shock so easily..

We see Maan being so lowly and being insulted but Geet does not see it that way... She trusted Maan to save her from all and he hurt her to core so even though she sees and gets upset but her self preservation does not allow her to trust Maan so easily and go back to him..

This kind of deep hurt takes time... and it is up to Maan to prove to her over and over again that what he did to her was simply horrible but he has to bring that trust factor back in thier relationship and then only Geet would trust him again with all her being until then I do not think she may feel pain and sorrow at his treatment but would not get that feeling of trust to forget and go back with him..

Maan will have to prove himself now...

Hey Evu,

You know I so get what your saying and I agree with you too.....but isn't he already proving himself?

I have no problem with Gee forgiving Dev and playing holi, etc.

I totally get Maan's anger and His hurt

I also get Geet's anger and hurt. Both are at fault here......

Par ahi bas naa...he's done enuf for her. How many times is she gonna repeat the same old dialogue. me getting annoyed with the script's layout.

An I so agree with Z (Mk.Gh) ....what are they thinking in their heads? Why aren't they broaching the main topic of conflict. it's like they're brushing it all under the carpet. Communication...or the lack of it caused all of this in the ist place...so this should be the main focus na.

I hope today's epi shows a little more sane stuff. Puhhhlease!

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undisclosed

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

i'm actualy liking geet's stance...i think that until they talk about what exactly made her leave...then she realy can't move on...btw....what is the english translation for "gunha"? ...it would really help me a lot..

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mechantefille

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: undisclosed
i'm actualy liking geet's stance...i think that until they talk about what exactly made her leave...then she realy can't move on...btw....what is the english translation for "gunha"? ...it would really help me a lot..

Yeah Sylvie sooo true...I hope the CVs look into that. Talk/communicate/critically appreciate the topics to bits if thats what it takes to get things clear.

Gunah is ''the biggest sin!''

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evasumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: mechantefille
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Hey Evu,

You know I so get what your saying and I agree with you too.....but isn't he already proving himself?

I have no problem with Gee forgiving Dev and playing holi, etc.

I totally get Maan's anger and His hurt

I also get Geet's anger and hurt. Both are at fault here......

Par ahi bas naa...he's done enuf for her. How many times is she gonna repeat the same old dialogue. me getting annoyed with the script's layout.

An I so agree with Z (Mk.Gh) ....what are they thinking in their heads? Why aren't they broaching the main topic of conflict. it's like they're brushing it all under the carpet. Communication...or the lack of it caused all of this in the ist place...so this should be the main focus na.

I hope today's epi shows a little more sane stuff. Puhhhlease!

Acutally if you see the story time line there were only 3-4 days passed...

Yea Maan is doing enough. He is ready to be a driver take all the insults as driver and do all the lowly work and is being ordered around...

When she sees this it does affect her.. and when she is with him it does affect her.. his nearness makes her melt but at this moment she is not trusting her feelings or her heart as it has been shattered like glass frame which hardly gets it's original phase.

So now her self preservation is making her adamant and she wants to fight that feeling of being drawn and being over powered by his love... cause Maan needs to bring that "trust" factor back so that she her blind trust in him and his decision is restored..

See dialogues of Maan.... when he saved her from being caught with him... He said Geet ab to tum apne Maan ko turst kar sakti ho na... Then her attitude changed and she went back on her self preservation mode...

Yesterday also alfter the wrestling... Maan said no one can say a word to my Geet in my presence... but what about the word he has spoken..

So Maan is trying to bring that trust back in her vulnerable heart which is now afraid to trust him blindly because it is wounded deeply..

So that is why Maan is trying over and over again.... He knows that she loves him but he knows that he has lost that trust and he just does not want her to come him out of obligation that he is being treated badly but he wants her to come to him on her own accord with full trust..