One thing i understand from today... - Page 4

Originally posted by: ria_sengupta

well, couldn't stop myself from commenting once-saw the epi just a few mins ago....couldn't watch the entire thing,stopped after lstening to geet's conversation with dev-maine kitna saha hai, is gunah ko maaf nahi kar sakti................just hv to say one thing.........i had stopped relating to geet since long,but today she is officially dead for me...........i hv stopped watching the show anyways, watch sm parts on youtube only............if the cvs feel that by reuniting maan and geet, all will be well,they r in for a rude shock-people hv stopped relating to geet-most of them hv,and her behaviour can never be forgotten,nor can she be respected!

I dont get affected by what CVs show anymore but I am surprised at how they are continuing with this stupidity..if they were so willing to show this track of Geet leaving Maan and not forgiving Geet,they should have made Maan say some horrible things to her in anger..that would not have ruined Maan's character because we all know that he is angry young man..but showing Geet not forgiving her husband for some few rude words he said in anger and seeing him get insulted is deteriorating her character..all Geet does now is shed tears!!todayz dialogues were amusing where she was saying how she can never forgive Maan and Dev cannot understand how much pain she has suffered..I felt like laughing..OK Geet discussing pain of some rude words said by Maan to her in anger to Dev-a person who changed her life upside down and made her suffer like hell..Wasn't it weird enough to see her forgiving Dev,that CVs are showing Dev-Geet-Maan behaving with each-other so casually like they had no past..I agree they decided to let the past and Dev's sins go,but it is TOO much for me to take..Cherry on the cake is the thought of Dev coming into the house as Maan Singh Khurana,Geet's husband!..🤣..can it get any more pathetic?..I was so against the idea of Dev being forgiven but still because of CVs consistent tries I somehow accepted it BUT if they are going to show Dev being mistook as Maan,it would become highly intolerable!..I think I might have to do with written updates for few days till that non-sense is over!..Geet being ignorant and unreasonable is something I can still digest,but Dev being thought as MSK is something which is impossible to digest!..imagine Dev-Geet faking husband-wife in front of all-I will KILL myself..lol..my head is getting crazy thoughts!!!

PS-hayee hayye hayye..mein kitna sochti hoon ki ab aur nahi sochungi itna is show ke bare mein par 😡..

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

'Gairat nahi hai' & 'Safeed khoon'..Two words...

That Maan said in his emotional outburst that was result at seeing his wife forgive her rapist & not count his opinion about same, at seeing his wife accept Dev as family when he himself dint coz Dev ruined her life.
That failed to convey to Geet that his anger masked his fear, disappointment, love & fight for her.
That made Geet break all her ties with him & end their relationship for forever.
That she refuses to forgive even when she sees him grovel infront of her not holding any grudge that its her actions that triggered his reaction.
That makes her unashamed hear her family bad mouth the man who never allowed anyone at all to raise their voice at her.
That lets a wife sleep in peace after seeing her husband's humiliation.
That affect her deep but not his pain & plight
That makes her allow the man who initiated her murder & now leave her at the mercy of others question her savior's principle.
That she tells her rapist she cannot forgive & forget of the man who alone has always held her self respect above his own.
That made her forget that her self respect, honor, confidence, pride & life all she owes only to him.
Two words indeed are bigger humiliation to a woman than seeing her loved ones come to kill her, than being stripped of her innocence in the name of marriage.
Yes Maan's mistake is bigger & unforgivable compared to Darji's crime & Dev's sins.

Originally posted by: virgo24

Thank You!!! I am tired of seeing the blame go on Geet. Geet has every right to be upset with Maan. Now Maan must work hard to win our Geet.Win her trust, love and respect!!!! Now do not get me wrong, I love both Maan and Geet. They are the heart and soul of this serial. I only watch because of them. And their love will conquer! It is so pure, innocent, mature and great! They went through so much it has to win again. This is another test for them. C'mon Maneet! You can do this!

Originally posted by: Bul3

sorry I think you didn't quite understand what Nandita is saying!..

Originally posted by: virgo24

Hi Bul3,

I do understand. Maybe it's not the exact thinking or wordings. But it is similar. From what I interpreted Maan is at fault. He said Geet's blood does not have depth or self respect. Ghairat and Safeed Khoon. These words hurt Geet more then what Dev and her family did to her in Hoshiapur. This Maan, who put Geet before everything. Held Geet so high in status, could not see anybody point a finger at her pureness, character and what not said those two words. He contradicted himself. All that Geet and him went through lost meaning because of that. She was willing to forgive Dev and what her family did just for Maan. Maan could not contemplate why. He only thought of Geet's respect and honour and felt that this was wrong and out of anger said all this. The man who could not care less about his life in front of Geet said this and it was mre pain then everything that Geet went though. She felt humiliated, and it broke her heart. She had faith in Maan and in a second it was shaken. Is this wrong what I am saying. If I misunderstood Nandita, please do correct me. Please forgive me if I have offended you two in any way. I do enjoy reading what everyone has to say. :)

Originally posted by: Bul3

well I dont agree with your view but than everyone has their own point of views and I respect that😊 ..what I meant is that Nandita doesn't think its Maan fault at all!..she was being sarcastic in her post!..I have read a lot of her posts so I know that even she thinks that Geet has been highly unreasonable!

Originally posted by: virgo24

Thanks for letting me know. I was unable to catch that hint of sarcasm in her post. And I had no intentions to distort her thoughts. If I were more involved in the forum and read more of her posts I guess I'd understand her then. I am glad that I did not upset you or offend you in any way! :)