Originally posted by: Anvi2009
@Eva, even if she cant speak up in front of her family FOR Maan, and I dont know why, because she did make her point clear regarding Adi, there is absolutely no reason for her to behave rudely with MSK (after she saw his humiliation and his tadap and repentance) when they are alone and tell him, "I will never forgive you and I wont go the house with you." No matter how big a crime MSK did by insulting her on that day, he has done more than enough and shown enough repentance. If now her heart is not melting, then what more can MSK do. She already told to her self on Saturday that MSK did all this in anger and he did not mean those words, so why is she behaving rudely with him now. Does she even realize the amt of sacrifices this man is making just to please her. Does she realize that this man is hurting more than she is to see her so depressed. Does she realize anything at all. Least she can do is forgive MSK, and show her concern of him being around her hitler family. What sort of self-respect is this where to save your self-respect, you let your family walk all over your husband's self-respect. She was in depression, hurt and in pain, but today by remaining silent in front of her family and hurting MSK in private, she has crossed all limits. So much of self-pity has really destroyed her character. Until MSK was not in front of her, self-pity was fine, but after he came in front of her, she still has not moved an inch towards forgiveness..........this is wrong.
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