What Geet really thinks and what she wants ;-)

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-pixie-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Really wonderful post, Jhan....

I'll come back and post later!

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-Divine-

@-Divine-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

hi jhan

awesome post..u have really clarified wats going on with Geet...

The pity is till today we want the woman to obey her husband come what may

if she raises voice,ex presses her opinion or takes her own decision..she is called cultureless ..

just becuase maan helped her.does she have no right to express her view point, stand for her self respect ?...

so jhan this post was highly needed especially for those audience who are still living in some 17th century or may be earlier

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spshastr

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

😊Jhan.. Wonderful...

Geet is not an ordinary girl . She has been betrayed by her family by Dev.. She loved maan and trusted him so much that if he said it will snow in Delhi she believed him..

Such was her trust.. She was always insecure that she is not worth him . In an attempt to make him happy and leave the past she forgave Dev.

We viewers think of MSK all the time.. but she forgave Dev for him.

and when in return she got those words she lost her trust.

She lost her baby, she lost her man and now she is like a zinda laash.. She knows she loves him, she knows he will make her melt but she does not want that why?

She knows only he can hurt her and she does not want to be hurt... she knows she loves him the most and for him she can do anything.

So coming back to maan .. we blame geet for maan being driver?? why? did she ask him to be one? He is doing all this to prove something to her..

ZIDD where does that come from? that comes when u refuse to bare ur soul to that person u love because u are scared to be hurt.. she does not want to get hurt again... and do I blame her ?

No.. we can say he did all for her but then she trusted him a lot and when u trust a person so much even a small thing the person does hurts u.. and thats what she is going thru..

She is so connected that she feels his kiss when he kisses the photo and she refuses to acknowledge her love..

But she will.. when she realises she needs him inspite of the hurt, inspite of the fact that he said all that.. she will

Right now she is trying to protect him from her family and he knows that ..

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serialwatcher16

@serialwatcher16

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Dear Jhan

You have written an awesome post. Why did you think i had not read the whole post. I read it and loved it. I quoted that portion only to serve as a reminder to myself when i came back as to what i had thought at that particular point in time and what i wanted to share with you.

I love the way you have empathised with geet and feel very jealous that you found words and said it the way i would have wanted to.

Geet as a character is a good person with a clean heart. She has all her life been told to think about others. Her baby gave her the courage to move forward and find a path for herself. And she tried and did well. she found love but that too a difficult and complicated and good person but not an easy person to live with. She is 18 years old.

She had had a miscarriage and had undergone a lot of physical and mental trauma. She was in depression and needed counselling and at that point in time she was not knowing which way to go. The only relationship she had actually was that with her husband and their communication skills are legendary.

My personal POV is the same human being reacts differently in different situations. In any argument between husband and wife, there is nothing right and nothing wrong. it is their understanding with each other and it is usually personal.

when my husband and me argue, I agree ten times to what my husband says however illogical it maybe, but by the eleventh time, I feel really hurt and i react in a much more harsher way than the situation maybe warrants. To the bystander standing on judgement who does not understand our history, I would be in the wrong and if my husband is interested in our relationship, he will allow the bystanders to think what they want and think why i reacted the way i did and that is what is love. It takes time for the batti to jallofy but he eventually does that it is all pent up.

Now in the same way geet is in depression, her self-esteem is low, she has lost her baby, she thinks she is doing the right thing by letting go and taking a big step for the relationship that means a lot to her, and in her state of mind she goes down even further when maan talks to her the way he does. Now in another frame of mind she might have stomached it and said chaddo and thought of other brighter things happening but in the frame of mind that she is in presently which is that of depression, she has gone down even further.

And they are showing this beautifully. And I am happy to see the love surfacing as well. I would have been very disappointed if the love from Maan's side had not surfaced in this way.

Thanks for writing such an awesome post Jhan

Edited by serialwatcher16 - 14 years ago

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liv2laugh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: serialwatcher16

Jhan 👍🏼

I was hurrying out and stopped to read your post. 👏

I loved the above lines that you have written and have meaning for me in another context.

Reserved for vishesh tippani

Usha

Please read the whole post before you give your vishesh tippani - just a request.

And yes this girl forgives too easy - who in their right mind would forgive a man like Dev but she did. 😆 but yeah she was not in herr right mind either ..... she was depressed

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winona

@winona

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Jhan 🤗 what a beautiful take 👏

The whole situation reminds me of this Jagjit Singh gazal ...

Pyar ka pehla khat likhne mein waqt to lagta hai,
Naye parindo ko udne mein waqt to lagta hai...

Jism ki baat nahi thi un ki, dil tak jana tha,
Lambi duri tai karne me, waqt to lagta hai..

Gaanth agar lag jaye to phir, rishte ye dori,
Lakh kare koshish khulne me, waqt to lagta hai..

Hamne ilaaz jokhme dil ko, dhar liya lekin,
Gahre zakhmo ko bharne me, waqt to lagta hai.

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Uthra

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

To be very honest, I was a bit upset that Geet is so stubborn in not forgiving Maan this time. But I certainly do not fall in the category of blind love for Maan and have always defended Geet in many an occasion. But this time it was difficult. Probably along with Maan, the viewers (mostly females working in favor of Maan) have also got used to Maan getting away with his arrogance so easily and Geet forgiving him so easily. But your post has really cleared a lot of my confusions and the visit to the past in you post has helped a lot in this. Thanks a lot for this post.

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Geekgod

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Jhan...simply awesome. I loved,loved what you have written. 🤗 🤗

Once bitten,twice shy....for someone bitten a lot of times, who does cry??😊😊

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priyachand

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

wonderful and sensible post! ppl here have knee jerk reaction. Even for a daily soap to proceed u need such drama and extended sequences. Geet's pov is much appreciated. her reaction to Maan's angry comment is much severe becoz she values him the most. Naturally only he has the power to hurt her the most. Her trust in him has taken a beating. Maan has to earn his trust back.

One thing i couldn't understand is that this serial has predominantly female viewers. so why was there such a negative reaction to Geet. Can't we see from the female point of view. May be age factor is responsbile. what i feel is younger group feels Geet is over reacting but little older are able to understand. i don't know i may be wrong.

But still enjoyed ur analysis

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@roseinbloom

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

@Priyachand: Idk about age factor bcz I'm 18 and I understand her completely! :) .. I don't get why some people are failing to understand it and are adamant to say MSK is always right. When the man himself says he is a human and he has the ability to err.. why are some people not able to understand that fact?