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Originally posted by: -Rati-

Hi! Nandita Hope you are done with your exams.

Exactly my point. It seemed creatives are counting only on girls reacting to shirtless Maan rather than in getting Geet to react to her husband's love

[MAY BE SHE IS AFFECTED BUT DOES NOT WANT TO SHOW IN FRONT OF HIM, SO GUYS I THINK WE SHOULD WAIT TILL TOMORROW TILL WE GET A SELF TALK FROM HER WHICH WOULD SHOW HER STATE OF MIND N HER THINKING RATHER THAN JUST RUNNING INTO CONCLUSIONS..............

GUESS AM BEEN TOO POSITIVE...................LOL

Edited by sollypnj - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Murlal

Hey guys, this is so sad. Why are we getting so upset. Rati's post was NOT an attack on anyone or their views. She was stating her perspective on the events of today's episode .I for one fully share her views, but that does not mean that either of us thinks that there can be no other views and perspectives on the episode.
Why are we doing this-? Simple reason- we all, for some strange unknown, mad reason have begun to love the characters in this show. I'm still trying to work out whether that is because of the lead actors, GC and DD, and their acting skills or the way the original CVs of the show sketched out the characters of M and G. Or have the two become one and same for us. I'm sure you will be able ot anaylse and explain this better, Rati.
The long and short of all this is that, whatever our perspectives, we love the actors and the characters they are portraying and it is this love that bind us.

So please, please let us not get upset over each other's views.
Both of us, at least I can speak for myself, want logic and consistency in the show- if Geet loves M so much then his declaration of his love through words and deeds should at some time have found their way to her heart, should they not have? That is all we are asking. Most important, we are NOT blaming or accusing Geet of anything, not in the least. Both M and G are beloved to me.

So please put in your views and ideas, it is always a pleasure to read them, I, for one, have learned so much from reading all your posts.

Originally posted by: sollypnj

If I am not wrong then writing in caps is equal to yelling or shouting and that sure is rude. I don't say its your intention though.

If you see in comments above I have mentioned we are talking only about today in context to past what future holds none of us sure know, we may again may not get the moment you mentioned. But today it was not there and thats what we are mentioning here

Originally posted by: -Rati-

No two people think alike, best example is our forum itself. A girl like Geet well to talk about her we need to step into her shoes and then speak and doing so again will give it tint of our pov not hers. For me if I were her I could have not forgiven Dev without talking to Maan as to me he being my companion in life and more in my fight holds equal right to be part of it both as a husband and a brother who broke his blood bonds for my sake. Again I could not have welcomed the man as family until Maan who is his brother does it first. When spoken to so harshly by Maan I could have confronted him may be had slapped him but never have left him knowing that whatever said or done by him was not over his personal anger with Dev but cause of what Dev did to me.

This could be my view of the situation as Geet. Sure yours wouln't be same. That makes all the difference so only thing I am asking is the creatives to show her come out of that shell if not infront of him at least when she is alone.

Originally posted by: jwalamukhi

agreed with each and every point of urs.... i was replying back only to have good interaction with u because some where i heard that talking/interacting with ppl like u is similar to that of reading a good book.....the way u justified ur point was very nice...........it was my pleasure to have a discussion with a psychologist like u ........thank u very much for ur replies.......

Originally posted by: Murlal

So, so well said, Rati. This is EXACTLY what I feel about Geet and her actions. I love her to bits, but she does exasperate me, that girl and her mulishness. I've never understood what the Cvs intended when they created her-she is so full of contradictions.

Originally posted by: -Rati-

Thankyou.

Her very making has been full of contrasts, agreed one grows with time and experience but they also learn from it.

Sad but everytime they have had differences she jumps to conclusion either its trust lost as happened in October or its love lost as happened post marriage and now its love dead.

I am not counting what Maan has done for her, but only let she remind herself what she has been through with him and without him there she will find an answer what she did was right or wrong and also if giving her love and marriage a chance is worth it or not.

Originally posted by: Murlal

Actually, I'm beginning to wonder what will happen if M calls her bluff and leaves! I don't mean leave in a spirit of 'Right if that's how you feel, then get lost' , but genuinely in the spirit of ' I love you so much, I will do as you ask me- leave you alone; if my words have become indelibly stamped themselves in your mind, then I will respect your wishes and leave you' . Would be the basis for a real story then. Because at the rate at which they're going- what story will there be left after this famous SR that so many people in this forum are lusting after?
I'm puzzled how her mind keeps replaying the 'begairiyat' word in her head, what about all her unfounded baseless accusations in October? Functional amnesia is a wonderful thing, more so if it is selective!

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA

Very very VERY good observation. I'd say excellent. How can a woman not be moved to see her husband move around as a mere servant and still act stubborn? How can a woman put her so called self respect above her husband's dignity? Doesn't she know that him being a servant makes her a servant's wife? Is that what her so called self respect is all about?

I have noticed that Geet has got things in life too easily. I know she has suffered a lot....but she also got everything in life easily. Be it shelter in uncle Manchanda's home, or a job due to Pinky and Adi's recommendation, or 2nd job + home because of dadima, or Meera's home as shelter, or job at IP, and now this far relative's home as shelter. Because she has gotten everything so easily, I'm inclined to say she has no value for anything in life...no value for a family she stepped on, no value for the reputation of her family to which she now belongs after marriage, no value for her husband.....his love...his care and concern. I would die for a man like him...who, because of her, changed from someone who never said sorry to anyone...to a man who is reduced to a mere servant of a house to please his lady love. It hurts