Originally posted by: -Rati-
Thankyou.
Maan has humbled himself in love as Nandita pointed out & this unconditional love of his makes him overlook everything with only focus on winning her back for not his alone sake but their sake.
Were as she wants to crib only of her grief and fails to see that she is hurting everyone else by doing so. Sad again that Maan is blamed for his anger though even in his anger he never loses him main focus that is his love. Were as Geet's anger gets so prolonged that she puts not just herself but all who love her through the grief phase.
geet is stubborn..........agreed.....she is not realizing her mistake..........agreed.....maan humbled himself.........agreed......but......is geet getting any space/time to realize her mistake....no.......
When others are hurt by us......the first thing needed is some space and time for them....to think normally...to analyze the situation.....to know the importance of lost things...
Maan...though his intentions are genuine....he is doing a mistake by repeatedly going before her.........
here also geet need some space to think...to analyse....but it is not happening
if we are hurt by anyone...we normally want to stay away from them for sometime...that is human psychology.........in case of beloved ones...this feeling will be tenfold more.....now geet is in a state of anger,hurt and pain......and top of all this.....she thinks maan is responsible for her state......in such situation if maan comes before her.....again and again ....the condition becomes still worse ....
Yes she is not thinking about anyone....at the same time she is not thinking about herself also.....she is drowned in her own pain and hurt .....and in that she is unable to realize and see what maan had done and is doing for her right now.
The best solution is time and space....which will make her to think normally and properly......once she realizes her mistake she will be with maan forever
this is making geet blind to his emotions.....
Coming to the point geet responding to maan's proximity.........she is in love with him.....but her own emotions are masking her love...in such situation a touch from her husband will make her to respond......but there also we can see geet struggling to maximum extent to stay away from him.....suggesting she needs some time and space to realize what she wants and what she lost.....geet is melting with maan words..at the same time thinking that this pain is because of maan....she is only 18 and most of the girls at this stage and situation probably behave the same way
Edited by jwalamukhi - 14 years ago
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