Originally posted by: Preethi-Premi
Geet! Awesome post! Perfect!
The questions Maan raised about Geet's Gairath can be hurting to an Woman persay. I mean any normal life woman like me. But Geet is way beyond all that. She was pregnent with someone else child. Maan gave her the confidence that he loves her and the child as his own. Maan indeed is her Asthithwa. He is her Saviour he is her confidence he is her everything.
Remember the room scene just beofre Manali... Where she says "Aapne mujhe mere ateeth ke saath apnaya.... Aaj aapki kushi se badhkar mere liye kuch nahi hai"
That clearly says she puts everything after Maan because Maan accepted her whole heartedly. As you mentioned the Tent scene. Where she talks about being pure... That very talk shows her insecurity. But MAan stood by her saying She is the epitome of purity for him. The glint of pride in her eyes... the thankfulness she had... Never ever can i forget that.
Tha Man that Maan is. A man of principles... A man of truth... If he says Sun rises from west she would believe that also! Proof - "It will snow in Delhi... If Maan says it will surely" Even from small things that was what Geet thought.
She for once, just for once took a decision for herself. For her future... For the beautiful life that she dreamt of with Maan. She forgave Dev. This was the first decision tat she took for herself after Maan stepped into her life.
But its not that she never wanted to talk it out with Maan. She tried not once but thrice... But Maan sir was sleeping, walking off, pretending to sleep... and then suddenly he pops up without listening to her fully and questions her Gairath?
I dont understand why geet should ask permission fomr Maan to forgive Dev. She is the one affected. In fact before Maan takes any decision pertaining to Dev he should ask Geet. Just because he has married her inspite of her past doesnot make him a mahan. He married her for the love that they shared. Then why should Geet behave like he has done some sacrifice for her?
Maan dint even inform Geet about letting Dev out on bail for 3 hours the very next day he was put in Jail. Maan dint ask Geet before letting Dev stay in the outhouse. Why the Heck he left Geet with Dev alone in the farmhouse? I still dont know the answer. Any man would have barged in and caught the collar of Dev and confronted them immediately. Even in Farmhouse Geet told Dev - "Do you know what Maan will do to you if he comes to know about this?" - That was the confidence she had on Maan. But that confidence was broken instantly by Maan because he just chose to walk out of the place rather than reacting the way Geet thought he would.
For a woman who has based herself and her judgements completely on the Man of her life Maan, when he questions her Gairath i dont know how she put up with it.
Maan was in anger. He never doubted Geet even once. He was angry on Dev. But as Geet said "Maan ke gusse ki aag mein unka pyar jal gaya"
Maan is a great Man. A Man has his flaws. But the one who realises it and rectifies it stands out of the rest of the aam adhmi crowd. I just bow before this Man Maan because he has realised his mistake... He is going to swallow his pride, his anger just to get forgiveness from his lady love... Just to win her back... KUDOS!
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