Why do people love to bash Geet? Read on! - Page 8

Originally posted by: -sum-

Absolutely loved your post!...word to everything you've stated!👍🏼....Whenever I venture to Geet Forum all I can see are posts that bash Geet and her actions....this is something that I really fail to understand especially when it's concerning Geet as a character since she's a female and the majority of the members on this forum are also female😕...I would have thought it would be easier for a woman to empathise with another woman's pain.....I guess I was wrong.....having said that though, if you look at the situation objectively you can surmise that both Maan and Geet are at fault....not just one party....I won't go into where each one of them have gone wrong because others have already done that in this thread and worded it much more eloquently than I ever could....but I just wished people would look at the situation objectively before declaring themselves Judge, Jury and Executioner

Originally posted by: eveline

Maan was her hero...yup...she worshipped him..respected him..adored him..for all that he stood for...he fought for her every step of the way and gifted her something so beautiful that no woman can question....respect and dignity....in the eyes of the world he gave her honour...and then to shred it by such hard words...that too in front of that person who destroyed her life...

time n again i have heard this argument...she can forgive a rapist like Dev n not a loving husband like Maan...there is a huge difference here...she loves Maan...her hero...the reason for her existence...she respects him...her soulmate....and when he says this...it is unbearable n intolerable....its not physical violence...for her this scars her soul...the one man who understood her totally ...simply turns around and says something like this....brings her whole world crashing down...Dev can do this....he was never her love...a decision that was made for her...but not her man...nope never..but Maan cannot say this...not ever...she cannot hear these words from the one man she always has looked up to...

And she forgave him coz of Maan....coz she loves him more than she hates Dev...her hatred for Dev is not her mainstay..but her love for Maan is...and she wants to drag her love out of the bitter shadow of hatred...the corrosive acid of fury that was eating Maan up..had to be cleared...she wanted to finally release herself and her husband from the shadow of past miseries...and look forward..and she is blamed???!!.

And one more point that annoys me...ppl say he has given her soo much...so...does that make her obliged...she needs to return the favor by taking everything from him....is this how we perceive love n a marriage...she should be grateful to him...n take whatever he dishes out....what kind of relationship does that make...and that is what Maan precisely said....he always had pride...too much of it...and he cleary implied that she was inferior...while he was a Khurana..!!

There is no place for pride in love...no place for superior or inferior...for gratefulness n gratitude...this will eventually kill any relationship....

Love is not the most important thing in a marriage..nope ...it is trust and more than that...respect...which was given by Geet but not by Maan...she always knew that she had won his heart but not his respect...

Originally posted by: -Honeybee-

Well, wat u told is true...........BUT i think she did understud him from his POV.....................But, then think if she forgives him so easily everytime........den he will say even greater words in anger dat may hurt even more deeply in d name of anger...............Its ok...........I am not tellin dat Maan meant d words he told or told it purposely.........OTHerwise he may just keep on saying insulting words in d name of anger..... he does need sum anger management or else..........there may cum a time wen he may say something so deep dat his realization & her forgiveness may not b of any use & may not even heal d wounds of his words for both of them..........My POV............😃

Originally posted by: Maaneet-is-best

Thank you for this post and thanks to each and everyone's positive response🤗


Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.
~Antoine de Saint-Exupry, Wind, Sand and Stars, 1939, translated from French by Lewis Galantire

Originally posted by: LuvScooby

Very well said...........

I'm just sad to see that even in 21st century, there are people out there who believes that man can treat woman whichever way he prefers, just b/c he is her husband........I love MSK, but he was wrong, he degraded her and that too in front of another person