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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: rickks

And Today after Continuous efforts, ENDMOLS AND 4LIONS or should i say the channel STARONE has finally attained its GOAL of Butchering the once fine Show Geet Hui Sab Se Parayi....

They Have Finally, established
GEET (Read the Show) HUI SAB SE PARAYI

Viju....its not all that bad.....just think about it. At the end of the episode...i too was in this same despair....but as i types all of my responses today...i have come to a better understanding what the issues are ...and they in their core are not that big.

Come on Skype...would love to talk to you!!

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mechantefille

@mechantefille

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: --Nargis--
Kabhi socha na tha hum per aise bhi din aanyenge
Apna banana chahenge, per kisi ko bana nahi panyenge
Suna tha ghair toh namak chhidaka hi karte hai zakhamon par
Per pata nahi tha ke kabhi apne bhi itna tadpanyenge!!😭

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The only thing that is crystal clear form today's episode....is that they all have made mistakes, and that they all need to learn from them.

Geet's mistake was her inability to make MAAN listen to her reasoning for forgiveness.....her FORVINESS had nothing to to with DEV AT ALL except that he was the receiving party of it. Her forgiveness....like her entire world revolves only around Maan.....and her decision to forgive was solely based on her need and her want to make a fresh start with Maan.

In her want and need to make MAAN happy and have a happy life with him, she has sacrifices even her core....she has chosen to forgive Dev....the ULTIMATE of all sacrifices.....because she has come to understand that until she breaks free from her past...she cannot have a clean untangled begining with Maan.

The difference here is that Maan has not reached this point at all. And if left to his own vices...he never will...because that is his personality. It has always taken Geet to convince him to change and see and accept things differently.....and so even with this issue...until Geet tells Maan on why she has decided to forgive Dev....Maan will not realize nor will he accept her decision.

Maan was wrong....he should not phrased the words as he did....and hurt the one person for who, he would die. This is his flaw....woh itna JAZBAATI woh jaata hia...ke e looses his grip on his anger...and in anger he says hurtful things. Maan's has the typical SHAKESPEAREAN Hero flaw...one that he he does not control....will lead to is demise...emotionally, mentally and physically.

He should have tried to understand Geet's perspective too.

Hope this made some sense....😕

OMG Nargis....awwesome post...wonderfully expressed....I just hope all the ppl bashing Geet on diff threads read ur post.

Forgiveness is the most difficult thing...and to forgive means too truly forget.......wipe out and have a clean slate!!

Geet with her pure heart did that humongous act....I have a lot of respect for it...but yes...she should have woken Maan up if thats what it took to explain things to him!

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#53

oooooppppppsss...IF is freezing on me...so i got a double post!! Sorry!!

Edited by --Nargis-- - 14 years ago

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Lavz

@LavZ

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#54

Maan n his POV:

Maan is well known for his anger……n ven angry he wd neva think abt wat he is talkin its human nature to giv in to ur anger……He had been holdin onto dis fr SO long…..he was quiet for long….he let it go fr Geet 's happinz but he is a man who is very insecure n possesv……if he burstd out seein Geet wid Dev its jst normal….I dnt blame him fr da same…….he has provd dat Maan Singh Khurana is just a human n not God!! He is right at his place coz No man wd b hav been able to see his wife wid da person who is da reason fr her pain…..

bt again wateva he said is not sumthin ny woman wd take in….its his mistake dat he questnd her love fr him, her character and her khandhan……he shdnt hav said wateva he said.....he has talkd abt da most sensitv part of her lyf – her family....his mistake is dat he didn't talk n clarify wid Geet….yet again he has allowd his instcts to do da talkin n dnt gv Geet a chance to explain herself! He shdnt hav let his doubt kill his love fr her……he shd hav talkd wid her....

Geets POV:

Geet has decides to move on for a prospruz n happinz filled lyf……bt y did she let go of her pain n agony? So dat she cd see Maan happy……A girl who faught wid everyone be it da society or her own family fr savin her baby…..has frgetn her pain fr da man she loves! She had onz said dat she loves him bt she wd love her baby mor coz motherhood is da feelin she felt befor fallin in love…..if she is forget da pain dat she is goin thru after loosin da most precious thing fr da man she loves hw is she at fault?! She has learnt to frget n forgiv....And if she has to let go of her past she has to forgv n frget wat Dev did to her…….Dat doesn't mean she doesn't love Maan or she has any feelin towards Dev….it simply means she wants a happy lyf widot any dark shadow of her past…..hadnt she frgivn Dev she wd hav to move on wid dat one pain…now she is relevd frm dat past….she has allowd her future to step on her past……she did dis for whom?! For Maan……Y coz she wnts to be his wife n lead a happy lyf lik any odr girl…….If she has forgvn Dev n tried to move on wid lyf leavin behind her hatred n pain fr dat one person who has alwas givn her his support n love How is she at fault?!

Now her only fault is dat she could make Maan understand her POV….she shd hav made him understand her POV….bt it by shoutin,yellin or cryin……its her incapability dat she cdnt handle her husband…..she shdnt run away…she shdnt move out….she shd stay back n make her relationship wrk n make him realize his mistake!!!

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Rakhi Sunil Kumar

@goldenball

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#55

Today's episode they have buthchered Geet's character...Geet whom I love so much...but they have just made her.....shit....

Maan rightly said ...she has no self respect...and I fully support him...only thing....i don't support...saying in front of third person.....

Also, she is just walking out....she knows him so well...then also.......Geet..then u don't deserve his love...and I know CVs will make Maan run after her.....but here I support Maan completely.

GHSP...team is ruining the show....or already ruined.....new team...has no logics ...no understanding about human nature/emotions ....New CVs 😡- Marriage track and now this track...both are very poorly handled

I am very upset...

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@roseinbloom

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#56

To come to terms with what exactly happened today and to read someone's brilliant POV read this post .. it sheds light on why today's episode works!!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/geet-hui-sabse-parayee/1645882/why-todays-episode-works

Do read!

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Bibi K-Villa

@lovetheserial

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#57

NAGS😛

Nags: I liked the episode because it gave a perspective of Maan who is still holding on to all the past very strongly. Its certainly not his weakness, its his strength.

Finally all this talk of self respect and honor and khandan izzat, would find him seeking Geet out because she is his breath. she will be more defiant. Maan's basic problem thru these encounters with Dev, were his quite posessive jealousy for Geet. Not any thing that ruined his family name. I am sure that Geet in her bubbly nature never realized these feelings that Maan was slowing coming into.

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: mechantefille

OMG Nargis....awwesome post...wonderfully expressed....I just hope all the ppl bashing Geet on diff threads read ur post.

Forgiveness is the most difficult thing...and to forgive means too truly forget.......wipe out and have a clean slate!!

Geet with her pure heart did that humongous act....I have a lot of respect for it...but yes...she should have woken Maan up if thats what it took to explain things to him!

Thanks so much....

Even Geet....being selfless enough to forgive...was very selfish....she forgave for her and Maan's relationship. Like i said...the forgiveness was not about DEV at all...it was all about Maan and Geet!!

This is a very PROFOUND point....does anyone else understand that...or am I just crazy!!??

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@rickks

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: --Nargis--
Kabhi socha na tha hum per aise bhi din aanyenge
Apna banana chahenge, per kisi ko bana nahi panyenge
Suna tha ghair toh namak chhidaka hi karte hai zakhamon par
Per pata nahi tha ke kabhi apne bhi itna tadpanyenge!!😭

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The only thing that is crystal clear form today's episode....is that they all have made mistakes, and that they all need to learn from them.

Geet's mistake was her inability to make MAAN listen to her reasoning for forgiveness.....her FORVINESS had nothing to to with DEV AT ALL except that he was the receiving party of it. Her forgiveness....like her entire world revolves only around Maan.....and her decision to forgive was solely based on her need and her want to make a fresh start with Maan.

In her want and need to make MAAN happy and have a happy life with him, she has sacrifices even her core....she has chosen to forgive Dev....the ULTIMATE of all sacrifices.....because she has come to understand that until she breaks free from her past...she cannot have a clean untangled begining with Maan.

The difference here is that Maan has not reached this point at all. And if left to his own vices...he never will...because that is his personality. It has always taken Geet to convince him to change and see and accept things differently.....and so even with this issue...until Geet tells Maan on why she has decided to forgive Dev....Maan will not realize nor will he accept her decision.

Maan was wrong....he should not phrased the words as he did....and hurt the one person for who, he would die. This is his flaw....woh itna JAZBAATI woh jaata hia...ke e looses his grip on his anger...and in anger he says hurtful things. Maan's has the typical SHAKESPEAREAN Hero flaw...one that he he does not control....will lead to is demise...emotionally, mentally and physically.

He should have tried to understand Geet's perspective too.

Hope this made some sense....😕

BANG on Nags👏 👏 👏.......I agree on the same.......Maan's Words were Bitter, Rude, Harsh and Heart Piercing, Nobody can tolerate such words and here its the love of his life to whom he said all this.....And for her, she did all this for him......To have a life with him...UNTANGLEd as u said....But Maan Acts and Then thinks....