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--Nargis--

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Posted: 14 years ago

#41

Maan was also wrong....he should not phrased the words as he did....and hurt the one person for who, he would die. This is his flaw....woh itna JAZBAATI woh jaata hia...ke e looses his grip on his anger...and in anger he says hurtful things. Maan's has the typical SHAKESPEAREAN Hero flaw...one that he he does not control....will lead to is demise...emotionally, mentally and physically.

He should have tried to understand Geet's perspective too.

Geet's mistake was her inability to make MAAN listen to her reasoning for forgiveness.....her FORVINESS had nothing to to with DEV AT ALL except that he was the receiving party of it. Her forgiveness....like her entire world revolves only around Maan.....and her decision to forgive was solely based on her need and her want to make a fresh start with Maan.

In her want and need to make MAAN happy and have a happy life with him, she has sacrifices even her core....she has chosen to forgive Dev....the ULTIMATE of all sacrifices.....because she has come to understand that until she breaks free from her past...she cannot have a clean untangled begining with Maan.

The difference here is that Maan has not reached this point at all. And if left to his own vices...he never will...because that is his personality. It has always taken Geet to convince him to change and see and accept things differently.....and so even with this issue...until Geet tells Maan on why she has decided to forgive Dev....Maan will not realize nor will he accept her decision.

Hope this made some sense....😕

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@lovetheserial

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Posted: 14 years ago

#42

LAVZ

yet again another similar situation has arrivd only diffnz is here Maan is da main reason fr da MU'..back den it was Geet n her ego''now its Maan n his ego....der we get da closure fr da fight!! and I am happy to see dat Maan n Geet r potryad as just humans unlike da common Telly soaps where da leads r shown as self sacrifcin devtas!!😛

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Ha, Ha😆 I agree with that last line and the line you applauded the CV's with. So with these common people, will come all the fragile words that creates all the possible misunderstandings. Both of them come from families with strange perceptions of honor, pride and self-understanding of KHANDAN.

She tried to run away from these too, the strong fixations of honor and pride and Maan carried the weight of pride and honor with him. She broke free from things that bound and he is still bound to the pride that stands tall in the family.

But one great act was that Maan gave Geet respect and pride of the Khurana family against all odds and she became respected and loved because of that. She was honored as a Khurana.

We need to see how we maintain these in our lives and then perhaps battle or not battle these issues. We can sympathise with both Maan and Geet.

Edited by lovetheserial - 14 years ago

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mysterygurl1427

@mysterygurl1427

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#43

Well i do not think maan was wrong in what he said.....i thought those words fit Geet perfectly after what they showed her doing today.

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-RushTrip-

@-RushTrip-

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#44

hi all

my comp was on a blink..

techie hubby sorted it out..

yet to see the epi...as usual..now looks like..

had guests at the time..to see papa...!!

bimar ko dekhne log aate hain..aur..achche achcho ko bimar kar jaate hai..

anyway....

just popped in to say hi and good night..time to hit the sack
catch up with you all tomorrow..!!

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@roseinbloom

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#45

Nagz: Yep, it all made sense. And I really liked how you put together the real situation that they both are in. Neither one is right nor wrong. Both have had their flaws in understandings, hence the MISunderstanding.

Maan's main flaw is his anger. Yes, he gets angry and his anger is justified .. but his possessive love .. and the intensity of his love sometimes gets the better of him and he ends up uttering words he would later regret.

Geet's main flaw is not letting Maan know about her doings right away. Yes, she thought this would be the outcome of her forgiving .. but she didn't know it would go to the extent it did.

Both have their flaws .. but are also right at the same time in their own terms .. and both need to get a grip on the situation and their feelings and understand and then communicate. Only then will they learn from their mistakes and reunite!

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mysterygurl1427

@mysterygurl1427

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#46

I said it once and will say it again...in my opinion.....and no one has to agree with me

exactly, where did Geet's "so called self respect" go when she allowed the man that ruined her to apply colors on her? In fact she applied colors on him as well?

At that very moment it shows she has no self respect, as she is giving respect to the man that took AWAY her respect in society...insulting her as a woman....using her...ruinin her izzat and leaving her to rot....

which was why i feel the dialogs maan uttered at that moment were perfectly apt.

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@roseinbloom

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#47

Guys, I'll be back in a bit after breakfast! Perhaps have to cook again!

Be back later :)

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427
Well i do not think maan was wrong in what he said.....i thought those words fit Geet perfectly after what they showed her doing today.

While they may not have been wrong...they were HARSH and HURTFUL. And Wrong and right form whose perspective...Maan's....and not Geet's??

Geet has decided to forgive and hopefully in time forget too.....so from that perspective...it was not wrong.

As humans...and as debaters here on this forum, we need to open our selves to understand that there are perspectives out there that are different than ours...different...not necessarily right or wrong.

For what is the fun of debating of r discussions if all think alike, and have the same set of rights and wrongs??

The color spectrum is full of shades.....as in life there are no perfect demarcations!!!

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@rickks

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#49

And Today after Continuous efforts, ENDMOLS AND 4LIONS or should i say the channel STARONE has finally attained its GOAL of Butchering the once fine Show Geet Hui Sab Se Parayi....

They Have Finally, established
GEET (Read the Show) HUI SAB SE PARAYI

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: Mk.Gh
Nagz: Yep, it all made sense. And I really liked how you put together the real situation that they both are in. Neither one is right nor wrong. Both have had their flaws in understandings, hence the MISunderstanding.

Maan's main flaw is his anger. Yes, he gets angry and his anger is justified .. but his possessive love .. and the intensity of his love sometimes gets the better of him and he ends up uttering words he would later regret.

Geet's main flaw is not letting Maan know about her doings right away. Yes, she thought this would be the outcome of her forgiving .. but she didn't know it would go to the extent it did.

Both have their flaws .. but are also right at the same time in their own terms .. and both need to get a grip on the situation and their feelings and understand and then communicate. Only then will they learn from their mistakes and reunite!

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