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Annie to Arjun: ( posting from mobile)

Oye Mystery you are mysteriously missing!!!! Anyway - since you won't go back to yesterday's thread I figured I would respond to you here. So to summarize what you said yesterday:

Originally posted by: Mk.Gh

Res~

I hope I'll be able to write a lot today .. got an essay to finish as well.. but I shall come and chat for a while :)!

Hello to everyone: Shivz, Emmz, Dhwanz, Munni, Halwa, Viji, Nihu, Preeto, Lavz, Nagz, G, Vru, Vinu, and anyone else here :) 🤗

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So i have really been trying to come to terms with this whole forgiveness thing....and i know and can understand that forgiving Dev will set Geet free to renew her life with Maan...free of the past shadows, and ghosts....but I feel that this freedom comes with such a high price.

So had Geet not met Maan...Dev's brother, and fallen in love with him, would she she this willing to forgive and forget all that Dev has done to her??

Is it her relationship with Maan, that is driving Geet to forgive Dev? Is the BROTHER relationship such a burden and strain on Maan and Geet's relationship, that she is feeling cornered and naively forgiving Dev?

If this is the case, then what are the CVs trying to show, that Maan is not strong enough to separate his relationship with his wife from the one with his brother? We all have FUNKY dynamic in our extended relations, but why should it force Geet to take such a drastic step?

No wonder Maan is feeling the guilt and anger as a result of this...I would too!!

They say that...

"The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget."

What does this mean in Geet's instance. As I said yesterday, if the coming track shows that after this complication, Geet and Dev will have a normal Bahbhi-Devar relationship....and all is good, then i think it will be truly stupid.

If it is shown that Maan and Geet both totally IGNORE Dev, give him absolutely no say in their lives, and have a totally INDIFFERENT attitude towards him, then I think that it will be more realistic. This is the perfect way of showing how WISE Geet is is...no?

Anyhow, no matter how much i try to come to terms with this forgiveness, i think It will take some time. What Dev did was so HUGE and such a big SIN, that I simply cannot accept forgiveness...not that fast anyway!!😕

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I too liked today's episode!! Very well executed, and GC's absence was not felt at all. Today's was a very logical and impactful episode...and much necessary to close the loop on the Arjun-Dev-Anne Track. Finally Arjun has come face to face with the true reality....a reality that his sister was not an innocent by-standard in this whole fiasco, but instead she was the EVIL DRIVER and MASTERMIND of it.

I liked, that Arjun remembered Anne's attempt to tell him the truth, and his rejection of it, in the face of his love and belief of his sister.

Sorry..Nitya...i think its time for you to go home....or maybe we hook her up with Romeo??!!??😕

Now I am interested in how Arjun will approach Anne....how will he apologize for his disgusting behavior?? Think BIG Arjun....because I cannot easily EXCUSE or FORGIVE what you did to an innocent GIRL either.....Granted, you did not go as far as Dev....but know that you did WRONG big time too!!!😡

Now to the Precap..................I want to TEAR Dev's head off.....come on...bring on the BHAI-CHI!!!😆

res Awwwwe DD said Hori today....that is a gujju way of sayin Holi😛😆

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

So i have really been trying to come to terms with this whole forgiveness thing....and i know and can understand that forgiving Dev will set Geet free to renew her life with Maan...free of the past shadows, and ghosts....but I feel that this freedom comes with such a high price.

So had Geet not met Maan...Dev's brother, and fallen in love with him, would she she this willing to forgive and forget all that Dev has done to her??

Is it her relationship with Maan, that is driving Geet to forgive Dev? Is the BROTHER relationship such a burden and strain on Maan and Geet's relationship, that she is feeling cornered and naively forgiving Dev?

If this is the case, then what are the CVs trying to show, that Maan is not strong enough to separate his relationship with his wife from the one with his brother? We all have FUNKY dynamic in our extended relations, but why should it force Geet to take such a drastic step?

No wonder Maan is feeling the guilt and anger as a result of this...I would too!!

They say that...

"The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget."

What does this mean in Geet's instance. As I said yesterday, if the coming track shows that after this complication, Geet and Dev will have a normal Bahbhi-Devar relationship....and all is good, then i think it will be truly stupid.

If it is shown that Maan and Geet both totally IGNORE Dev, give him absolutely no say in their lives, and have a totally INDIFFERENT attitude towards him, then I think that it will be more realistic. This is the perfect way of showing how WISE Geet is is...no?

Anyhow, no matter how much i try to come to terms with this forgiveness, i think It will take some time. What Dev did was so HUGE and such a big SIN, that I simply cannot accept forgiveness...not that fast anyway!!😕

Originally posted by: dtri

Yes Dear - BUT BUT... The way this was shown, this forgiveness was soo half hearted... you know Dev didn't really get her forgiveness.. it was just her way of saying, get out of my life and leave me alone... and if me saying "I forgive you" is what it takes, then be it!!! That's the way I took it... Now let's wait and watch which way the story actually shapes!!

I know...i too hope it was only on a superficial level....

fantastic episode.....I was super duper happy with it

Originally posted by: dtri

Yes Dear - BUT BUT... The way this was shown, this forgiveness was soo half hearted... you know Dev didn't really get her forgiveness.. it was just her way of saying, get out of my life and leave me alone... and if me saying "I forgive you" is what it takes, then be it!!! That's the way I took it... Now let's wait and watch which way the story actually shapes!!

Originally posted by: dtri

Oye Mystery you are mysteriously missing!!!! Anyway - since you won't go back to yesterday's thread I figured I would respond to you here. So to summarize what you said yesterday:

Geet: The overexpressive bubby gal, but afraid to open up because of past suppression. However when she felt comfortable in Maan she started confiding in him with everything, no matter how big or small. As was her inherent nature. It was just a matter of opening her up to it and encouraging her.

Maan: Was and is still the "letting your feelings out shows your weekness" kinda chap and he continues to be that way!!!

My two cents:

First let me get this one off my chest - YOU ARE SOOO RIGHT HONEY! The fact that Maan opened his weakness and Geet spoke to him about her feelings BOTH happened on the same night. Beautifully portrayed! So Subtle yet so impactful. Love your observation.

As for character progression, I believe that just as Geet progressed her character and grew her personality SLOWLY through Maan's help and encouragement, Maan grew and progressed through Geet's. He may still be the quite bottled up kinda guy but over the months, he went from being AYM to soft and sober maan. He opens up to her a lot more than he ever did with anyone else other than Dadima. Not only that, he told her a few times how he felt. At the club when he told her "mere dil mein jo ladki jaga bana rahi ha..." Then after RTM he said "...Is ehsaas ko mein to nahi jhuthla sakta"... and then after Khoon bhari maang he said... "Pehle tum meri aadat thi ab zaroorat ho" then... his heart felt apology when he chose Geet over baby at the hospital. You think he would ever be able to express that had it not been for Geet's influence? He does feel the need to express himself to Geet more than he ever did before... He needs that to loosen his heart... all though in many instances he does find it difficult due to his nature, he still eventually lets himself out to Geet.

So to summarize - I love how they grew stronger and better TOGETHER, and how they helped each other thru their weaknesses and became each other's underlined strength!!!