Originally posted by: aditi123_78
nice post...ur post has given me hope after watching the horrible epi ystrdy....
one thing let me add here...many here r fussing over the fact that maan has said sorry twice to anwesha...a man who never apologises how can he say sorry....
let me say here that apology is a very strong word....in this case maan's sorry is not an apology....but mere succumbing to his baby sister's silly tantrums whom she met maybe after a long time....i guess after years...
and as for her permission to marry geet....that is never my cause of worry....it is incomprehensible that he will let go of geet widout whom he cant live just for a spoit sis...
but of course he wants that his sis and wud be wife be on gud terms and for that he will go to any lengths....as for supporting anwesha (as per promos)...this is very common in real life....
let me give examples from my own life...i hv a elder sis...since i am the younger one i am very much pampered....at times wen we used to fight or argue...my mom to bring peace between us always used to support me....the reason behind this is that i being the younger one was also a stubborn one...and also my understanding level was much less than my sis....
at those times even if i were wrong my mom used to support me because she knew that my sis wud understnd that this is just a tactics on my mom's part to bring peace....of course at heart mom knows i was wrong....and later on wen everything got settled my mom used to point out my mistake so that i cud rectify myself....
this worked so well that after i recognised my fault...i used to go up to my sis to befriend her again....
another thing let me tell here....maturity of a person depends not on his/her age but on his/her experiences in life....
anwesha though of same age as geet...but she led a pampered life with a golden spoon....she did not hv to face the atrocities of life that geet went thru....therefore anwesha is a spoiled and immature brat...
while geet is a strong, independent and mature girl since she went thru very difficult phases in life....
therefore wen geet and anwesha will be hving arguments or clash of egos...maan wud side with anwesha just because he will know that geet wud understand since she is the mature one...later on maan can always go to geet and pamper her by saying that he sided with anwesha only to bring peace....
but of course maan has been portrayed as one who cannot bear insult of geet...so if things go overboard and anwesha humiliates geet then maan will show his true self....he will know how to show anwesha her place...and protect geet's dignity....
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