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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oh Varsa how I loved your post!
Uno what beside reading his char again so well you have clearly explained how we feel the situation being lady so well.
I'm sick of seeing ppl accusing that being lady/gal how can you support Maan.Here I so much agree with pov.Even I'm a feminist who blivs in women's rights n dignity strongly.But does that mean that we wont value the most precious human values???
Yes in several of my posts I wished him to be no longer a part of her life.Coz I strongly feel that the poor soul needs someone who can understand him first of all and love him unconditionally n selflessly.
I dont mind if Geet too can get a man who wholeheartedly accept her and her unborn baby !
But Maan defintely needs to come out of the illusion of love now.Its high time he understands that it was nt love from both the sides.It was an one sided affair always.So he better stop proving that she needs him and here I wanna make it clear that he is being a man of golden heart but iron gut should move ahead so that he can never get this kinda illusion once again.
Varsa uno one thing when she insulted him in front of media I still wish that she will apologise and make up the relation but after tuesday her apologize doesnt matter at all.Now it wont make any diff.
And even you described it so well the way she said like yes you deserved that slap but am the saint and you are the devil.Anyways dont wanna discuss abt that anymore.One thing I must tell you ,ppl who have shouted like anything that she is preg so he should have not asked her to dance ......perhaps they forgot that innumerable time he's the very man sho reminded her of her preg even after the preg revealation case where she was running after the car.Though he was so hurt but still he didnt forget to take care of her.And for tuesday epi if she was so concerned then she would have nt given her hand to him which he didnt held and went with that party gal.I think everyone forgot that she was giving her hand to dance with him.And this made him understand that she wanted a dance with him and all those things happened!
And well explained who crossed the limit?My dear Geet have you ever thought if he really wanted to cross the limits then what he could have done to you?Nothing more to say coz if I'll start counting that my post will take another page making it difficult to read.
If still he cant understand that it was his illusion then I'll say this one will be the limit of foolishness which I dont expect from a man like him.I hope he understood already and thats why said those Last Promise thing!
Love is to share a life forever.Those who are unfortunate who could nt get with circumstances are understandable but what to say in this case?I still expected her to understand this after friday epi of media bash but she ruined everything in her own hand and I too wish for her to go ahead with her no need of help attitude other than maan coz she does mind it taking help from others.Good luck gal!Now I'm convinced that you can live without him and he must learn this from you!So let him get a chance to do so!
Edited by Rituparnaa - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: svijaya77

You've said it all, Varsha!

I have nothing more to add. The pain in Maan today and every single day since that friday has been more than what any ordinary man could have borne.

He needs to gather the shattered pieces of his heart and just leave!! Give Geet her precious freedom. And leave!!

IF she remembers ANY of the promises SHE made, let her fight tooth and nail to win him back!

Viji


Oh yes viji...I begin to watch yesterday's episode with a +ve attitude but end up feeling miserable again...I too think now Maan should not run after her anymore....Sometimes only distances make you realise what you have lost...I am not sure if i want a 'Break ke Baad' or not. But for the time being Geet is not matured enough to handle the responsibilities of a marriage or a relationship.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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THANX varsha 4 tis lovely n wonderful post!!! i hve been really moved by urs n skgs 2.... after yesterday epsde MAANs pain, guilt was so evident , the way he culdnt meet her eyes ,the regret was shattering..i had tears watching him behaving like tis....n the last bit wen he say mujhe bi...i thought geet wud realize he meant sorry bt she also wanted 2 hear him apologise i guess. ... ..the last bit of his final vaada.. like it wen he said galtiyon ko sudhrna hai...he is a man of words n principles, n mst probaly while he handsover the compny 2 her, he will apologize wid MORE than wat geet has told him yesterday n walk off...i wud really wnt 2 see aleap of 2 to 3 mnths, hes gone on a silent vacation to mend his broken heart ... n later on geet waiting n longing 4 his return ..probaply i wud like 2 c her tummy out...
TRUST is imp in a relationship n wat hurts mre is tat geet nevr trusted maan...tats the main thng of tis lovestry..the day she bursted in office MAAN jus culdnt believe geet wud really say all...the times he stud n supported her...she 4gt in one go....i wud really wwant 2 c distance between them n let geet realize wat MAAN holds /stands in her life...let her win MAAN back ....i dnt want any seperations bt then its necesary 4 them 2 understand ......distance makes a heart grow fonder ...i wud definately wnt 2 see tis track.
ur post always bring a ray of hope...i feel positive n refreshed as i was feeling low as 2 wat will happen..thanx!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: whitepearl

I too hope a day will come when their trust on each other would grow to the hights where misunderstandings ever dare to touch them.😍


Me too awaiting for the same day yaar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🤗☺️
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rituparnaa

Oh Varsa how I loved your post!

Uno what beside reading his char again so well you have clearly explained how we feel the situation being lady so well.
Thanks Ritu...I came online last night just for 5min and I saw your reply....I liked it so much so I mentioned your name...I know you won't mind...
I'm sick of seeing ppl accusing that being lady/gal how can you support Maan.Here I so much agree with pov.Even I'm a feminist who blivs in women's rights n dignity strongly.But does that mean that we wont value the most precious human values???
We are feminist but not inhuman.... We are not stones who can't feel a man's POV....Right !!!
Yes in several of my posts I wished him to be no longer a part of her life.Coz I strongly feel that the poor soul needs someone who can understand him first of all and love him unconditionally n selflessly.
I dont mind if Geet too can get a man who wholeheartedly accept her and her unborn baby !
If Maan and Geet go on seperate ways....that would be the saddest thing for me too...
par kum se kum ek doosare ko hurt to nahin karenge.
But Maan defintely needs to come out of the illusion of love now.Its high time he understands that it was nt love from both the sides.It was an one sided affair always.So he better stop proving that she needs him and here I wanna make it clear that he is being a man of golden heart but iron gut should move ahead so that he can never get this kinda illusion once again.
Yes he is the one who first realised his love and expressed it too through his promises but Geet never spoke untill the camp...I was hoping now there will be no stoping for this girl who has finaly found her love her destination...but she proved me wrong.
Varsa uno one thing when she insulted him in front of media I still wish that she will apologise and make up the relation but after tuesday her apologize doesnt matter at all.Now it wont make any diff.
U R right ritu....
And even you described it so well the way she said like yes you deserved that slap but am the saint and you are the devil.Anyways dont wanna discuss abt that anymore.One thing I must tell you ,ppl who have shouted like anything that she is preg so he should have not asked her to dance ......perhaps they forgot that innumerable time he's the very man sho reminded her of her preg even after the preg revealation case where she was running after the car.Though he was so hurt but still he didnt forget to take care of her.
Well said dear.....Yes he is the one who took her to hospital...
And for tuesday epi if she was so concerned then she would have nt given her hand to him which he didnt held and went with that party gal.I think everyone forgot that she was giving her hand to dance with him.And this made him understand that she wanted a dance with him and all those things happened!
What a valid point...👏👏👏👏👏👏.it should be highlighted...How can anybody missed it...She does wanted to dance with him....
And well explained who crossed the limit?My dear Geet have you ever thought if he really wanted to cross the limits then what he could have done to you?Nothing more to say coz if I'll start counting that my post will take another page making it difficult to read.
I can understand.
If still he cant understand that it was his illusion then I'll say this one will be the limit of foolishness which I dont expect from a man like him.I hope he understood already and thats why said those Last Promise thing!
Love is to share a life forever.Those who are unfortunate who could nt get with circumstances are understandable but what to say in this case?I still expected her to understand this after friday epi of media bash but she runied everything in her own hand and I too wish for her to go ahead with her no need of help attitude other than maan coz she does mind it taking help from others.Good luck gal!Now I'm convinced that you can live without him and he must learn this from you!So let him get a chance to do so!

Ritu your reply made be moved with tears again.....We do not want their seperation...but we also do not want Maan to get hurt all the time...because of her...She has been hurt and she is hurting him more.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Pearl,
Very emotional write up..some of the comments I don't agree .. but i respect your view points...
One thing which you mentioned and I also felt same.... Maan maturedly thought about what has gone wrong in their relationship.. a wholistic view.. and Geet only thought about slap.. She didn't analyzed Maan behaviour.. why he has gone extreme.. That why part was missing.. If she had thought then probably she would have realized Maan's hurt and reasons for him being out of his character.. and then she said sorry for the slap only.. So she has to go miles to understand relationship depth and I guess that she will do soon.. its her journey..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mehraan

THANX varsha 4 tis lovely n wonderful post!!! i hve been really moved by urs n skgs 2.... after yesterday epsde MAANs pain, guilt was so evident , the way he culdnt meet her eyes ,the regret was shattering..i had tears watching him behaving like tis....n the last bit wen he say mujhe bi...i thought geet wud realize he meant sorry bt she also wanted 2 hear him apologise i guess. ... ..the last bit of his final vaada.. like it wen he said galtiyon ko sudhrna hai...he is a man of words n principles, n mst probaly while he handsover the compny 2 her, he will apologize wid MORE than wat geet has told him yesterday n walk off...i wud really wnt 2 see aleap of 2 to 3 mnths, hes gone on a silent vacation to mend his broken heart ... n later on geet waiting n longing 4 his return ..probaply i wud like 2 c her tummy out...

TRUST is imp in a relationship n wat hurts mre is tat geet nevr trusted maan...tats the main thng of tis lovestry..the day she bursted in office MAAN jus culdnt believe geet wud really say all...the times he stud n supported her...she 4gt in one go....i wud really wwant 2 c distance between them n let geet realize wat MAAN holds /stands in her life...let her win MAAN back ....
ur post always bring a ray of hope...i feel positive n refreshed as i was feeling low as 2 wat will happen..thanx!

Thanks Mehr....
Yes his pain was evident...his regret was shattering but....he is not the person who will hide his face of guilt...He is a maan who can face his guilt too...and rectify his mistake....He is sorry that he go overboard with Geet and he will make sure he will make win again..but when will Geet realise her wrong doings when will she rectfy her mistake.....Maan is imposing this distance on himself atleastshe will be happy for her freedom.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: goldenball

Pearl,

Very emotional write up..some of the comments I don't agree .. but i respect your view points...
One thing which you mentioned and I also felt same.... Maan maturedly thought about what has gone wrong in their relationship.. a wholistic view.. and Geet only thought about slap.. She didn't analyzed Maan behaviour.. why he has gone extreme.. That why part was missing.. If she had thought then probably she would have realized Maan's hurt and reasons for him being out of his character.. and then she said sorry for the slap only.. So she has to go miles to understand relationship depth and I guess that she will do soon.. its her journey..

dear GB...I would love to know the points where you disagree. Its always good to know others' POV About Geet ...You are right....I hope she will broaden her horizon of thinking and analyse the whole situation from the point it started going wrong.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks Varsa!
You wont bliv that how I felt his pain yday.(I dont think its wise to write it here coz I've seen how ppl make fun of others sentiments here.)
Anyways am still wondering whether CVs have forgotten that media bash epi completely???She still only thinks abt that he forced her to dance but why he did so and what was the root cause she still nt bothered to know.Or after seeing Dev with Meera it'll take some turn?
Dont know!
Yes Varsa it'll be so sad to see them parting way but i dont want him to suffer anymore so I wished him to let go.And I know being a man of principles and having a golden heart his repentant action will be more clear n louder!Wish Geet could have been shown at least a little understanding like Meera.My admiration n respect for her (Meera)grown after seeing yday epi.She's really a female which we can truly say a stronger but having a woman heart of perception!Sorry if I hurt anyone here for my feelings for Meera.This is the way I feel for her now!
Edited by Rituparnaa - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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sorry 2 defer wid u guys bt i personally think tat love z always both sided n also mn.he mu her n she mu him.so tit 4 tat.geet z confused n so z maan.he ws trying 2 throw the curtains tat reminded him of her out of the house.remember??n then he takes over the company n forces her 2 b his secretary.he z trying 2 hurt her ego by saying ill c how many days u survive in tis city widout ma help n wen she hurts his ego,she is culprit.i wont take any 1 s side.both of them r guilty n both shud b ashamed of their behavior.i personally think wen he said 2 her in the outhouse tat u want money,take it blah balh she shud hav slapped him tight n gone out of his oh unless he has apologised n tis time 2 she did right.wen ur lover tries 2 impress upon u,its nt right.
even in roop tera mastana she ws moving back n he ws moving 4ward,tats how i perceived it.then wen she totally subdued,he moved back.tat ws really gr8 of a man nt 2 touch a woman wen she has totally subdued bt again it wsnt rite.
he changed her clothes coz she wud hav died otherwise.she ws pregnant,wet n had fever n he switched off the lights b4 doing so,so she wont ever think he crossed his limits.infact she shud b gr8ful 2 him.
wenever we do something good,its nt gentlemanly 2 remind tat 2 our beloved one again n again like he always do.i did tis n i did tat 4 u.eevn wen he ws asking her 2 b his false fiance he said tat u r alive here only bcoz of me.if under these circumstances does she refuses 2 marry him alongwid other mu s,she is justified coz that wud b under the pressure of his acts(good deeds)upon her n nt love.

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