Maan and Geet - Love/Ego Want/Need

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Posted: 14 years ago
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It all began with her dialogue to the media that she does not need help or "saath" in keeping Dev in jail and that she is not going to back out. He was taken aback that she does not need his "saath" and challenges her saying he'll see how she can survive without him being around. Whereas what she understood of it was that he thinks she needs his support "sahara" to survive. There is a vast difference between saath and sahara which she fails to understand.


Looking at what's happening this week, one thing is clear. Maan is hell bent on making Geet's life miserable. But why? Only because he wants her to stand against all odds and win every battle thrown at her. Here's what I think about today's episode:


Geet- Meera conversation

Geet says he thinks she needs his "sahara" and so she is determined to show him she doesn't need his support.


His time alone

He only remembers the dialogues that stung his heart, that she doesn't need his "saath". He knows she has misunderstood the 2 phrases and resolves to teach her a lesson. He knows she makes mistakes, he knows she is ignorant, arrogant and stubborn. Everyone needs to fall and rise for themselves in order to grow. But seeing her fall in front of strangers is something that he cannot take. So he makes a resolve to teach her the lessons she needs to learn in his own way. And hence, his mission is Miss Geet Handa. He knows she will never lose against him, so he challenges her to difficult tasks that will only make her stronger.


When he sees her sleeping on her desk

He melted for a moment remembering the time he had spent with her. That time, he had offered his shoulder (i.e. help) so that she could rest peacefully. This time, he wakes her up by instigating her so she can face the day with zeal.


Task

He gave her a very difficult task. He knows she is capable of doing it. But he instigates her yet again saying she might need his "help" i.e. "saath" which according to her is "support". Hence she retorts again and takes the challenge.



When Romeo hints at the clients list

He was listening to her conversations with the workers when she was asking for help. Until then, he was quiet. But as soon as he saw that someone (Romeo) was trying to step in to help her, he cut him off. Why? Because he does not want Geet to win this so-called war with anyone's help. He wants her to win their trust, and fight the battle. That's another lesson for her which will only make her stronger.


Mirror scene

He still cannot see her tears which is a sign of weakness. When his first attempt to rile her did not work, he tried another route. He taunts her about finding refuge in tears instead of finding a solution to her problems. This is another lesson for her - that tears are not a solution to any problem.


Wiping tears

He intentionally moves his hand such that she would think he is going to wipe her tears. As much as he wants to, he doesn't. Instead, he gives her tissue so she can do it herself. This is again saying that although she doesn't need help in wiping her tears, it's good to have someone do it for you once in a while. He wants her to realize the "want" as opposed to the "need". This is the next lesson for her.


Tripping and clutching

She clutches onto him to avoid falling and again he asks her to admit she needs his help (read sahara by her). This is to say that it's not bad to hold onto someone in case of need and this is another lesson for her.


Last scene

Although he is happy (internally) that she was successful in getting her work done, he is upset that she chose the wrong path...that of emotional blackmail and sympathy.


Maan has not doubts she does not need him. She is capable of leading her own life. He wants her to realize she wants him. And in teaching her the lessons of life, he is going to realize that he, in fact, needs her.


Coming to love and ego - it appears he has a huge ego and that's what makes him do such things - making her life difficult, give her tough tasks and taunting her. But in reality it's his love for her. He doesn't want her to get hurt and learn hard lessons at someone else's door. While she appears to think she is all strength, she is very egoistic. And it will be him who will bring her out of this illusion also.


He was right - only time will tell who needs whom and who wants whom.


P.S. - most of the times what I think is wrong and rubbish. So if I have managed to get your attention this far, thank you for reading my gibber :-)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dol, Thanks for this take. It gives a completely new perspective on the situation. I liked how you differentiated between help and support. 👏👏👏👏👏
Edited by sksg - 14 years ago
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wow dol
its awesome
pin pointed every action of maan so well....................agree wid every word
amazing
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Perfect DOl...I never thought...Maan in this prospective......I loved it DOL I lvoed it
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Posted: 14 years ago
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uhhh...uhhhhh...uhhhhh....uhhhhhh....ummmmmm....uh um...errr....errr...ummmmm uh....dol....this is not fair....not fair i tell u!!! not fair at all.....before i am able to write my comment on ur last post...u make another one......

sigh......

ummmmmmmmmmmmm
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
u call this gibber?? r u sure that this is gibber?? r u sure that this does not make sense to u when u read it??? r u ummmm how do i say this...out of ur mind?? R u in the right state of mind right now???? looks to me that u spend sooo much time in writing this so called "gibber" which i think is like beautiful....awesome....kick ass....brilliant......amazing.....just wow.....wow....wow that i can't say anything ummmm...what do u want me to say.....

what can i say after this?? i am just ummmmm chup bilcool chup?? Maybe that is all i can say?? just chup bilcool chup...

ok so me chup bilcool chup...i promise....no more talking...either way u have shut me up completely that i can't even described how much i agree with what u have said...agree with what u have written....all i can do is put my finger on my lips and say chup bilcool chup in my mind...while my eyes pop out of my face.
thank u dol...for ummm popping my eyes out....and for not warning me
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Posted: 14 years ago
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DOLL..Love u🤗All posts whatever i've read today made kachra of my brain but..
That was such a impartial n unbiased post..Loved it👍🏼

Edit add-
& wanna say how u write down d real Maan-Self its just beyond amazing,what every1 over here not really interested to see coz dey r more into proving der point🥱..Dey dont understand dat behind his every mood,each action, der is a reason n dats not coz of any Ego (gimme a break),Its coz of his concern towards Geet n Love😊In his every action it shows he's deeply hrts.I Know Geet is hurt as well but He tried to explaine,she refused to listen.

Plz buddy make such post as soon as d epi air coz untill u make a post like dis ppl like me face a lot of non-sensical-biased-Girl v/s guyz-Girl power (d new in thing) v/s Maan's Ego -Geet supporter v/s Maan supporter argumental post..😆

Again what a post👏
Edited by piya2025 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dol:

Thank you for explaining MSK lesson one on one for dummies ..I mean for Geet😉.
Just kidding ..😆

How the hell did Miss.Geet Handa CEO 😎 miss interpret sahara for saath and its leading to so much drama in her life 🤔 and my life 😲. I need to ship her a hindi dictionary for dummies

Now, on a serious note ! Brilliant post love it ! 👏 👏 👏

After doing my homework today I am brain washed 😉 decided I should just run away and never come back ..

just when I was going to count 3 that I saw that I missed this last page of my homework 😉 thank god I can get a good night sleep now 😊

Going back to what Geet said when Maan asked her what love means to her she says " zindagi bhar ka saath" . Maan is hell bent on proving her that she wants his "zindagi bhar ka saath" and I hope the story is heading that way ! 😛

Thanks for the sharing your thoughts and your detail analysis on saath vs sahara

Have a good night !


-R 😵
Edited by radev2010 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Can someone call 911 ?
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Originally posted by: piya2025

DOLL..Love u🤗All posts whatever i've read today made kachra of my brain but..
That was such a impartial n unbiased post..Loved it👍🏼

Edit add-
& wanna say how u write down d real Maan-Self,what every1 over here not really interested to see..dat behind his every mood,each action der is a reason n dats not coz of any Ego (gimme a break) coz of his concern towards Geet n Love😊

Plz buddy make such post as soon as d epi air coz untill u make a post like dis ppl like me face a lot of non-sensical-biased-Girl v/s guyz-Girl power (d new in thing) v/s Maan's Ego -Geet supporter v/s Maan supporter argumental post..😆 I know Piya..



Yu are right Piya...Inst she is great.....I never thought with that mindset...Its all love....but never dissected his every action in such beautiful logical manner..

LOve U DOL
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: radev2010


Can someone call 911 ?



yes can someone? 😎
i am dead....and i can't come back!!

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