Originally posted by: an12345678
I mentioned that same in one of my posts. But, why cannot he have a clean slate and still be understanding and her equal. Or as Pooja said, why cannot two unequal people fall in love. They are both powerful in their own rights.
of course two uneual people can fall in love....but the question is can they sustain a relationship??....an unclean slate after a certain point will have doubts...no matter how good u are or no matter how pure ur intentions are....human beings always tend to think things in hindsight...so at some point one of them would bring this difference up.
its such a romantic notion to have a person with a clean slate be understanding...so beautiful...but not really realistic....i will still say that pity and sympathy becomes more pronounced as the time goes by.....if a partner in a relationship has gone through something devastating....they are bound to have emotional hang ups....certain things u cant do with them...u cant just wipe away the experience that has shaped u.....so if the other partner has never experienced something like that how can we expect them to be always understanding??.....always be there??...always willing to wait...for the rest of their lives??
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