#Devil's Den#:Pyaar Ki Nishaani(Index PG1)

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Taiyo

@Taiyo

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Posted: 15 years ago

#811

Originally posted by: deniac
Pingu - u can sympathise with someone ... but to really understand the depth of the pain..u need to feel it.... n in absolute depth u can feel the pain onyl if u hv had gone thru it.... else u always just think u r able to understand the depth of the pain a person is goin thru.... empathy comes only if u hv really felt the pain too......

Gouri: Understanding is the key not empathy or sympathy. Most people do not listen or understand and that is why the crack in relationship, not because they do not have similar experiences.

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geet.a

@geet.a

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Posted: 15 years ago

#812

Hi Di, doods,Ann,an, lana and everyone I missed!! Big hugs

Oh yeah- I agree with the PkN theory. And I agree with Di that maan ka confession would be complete when he asks geet asks geet to accept him as father for child

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vivacious_gurl

@vivacious_gurl

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Posted: 15 years ago

#813

Originally posted by: an12345678

Gouri never been one. 😊 But, I can understand both sides. 😊

Pingu .... i disagree here.... u dont really understand ... u only think that u understand.... u hvnt experienced it so u cant really know what it is.... u can only believe u know what it is.....

thats exactly the difference between 2 ppl with dissimilar pasts..... they just think they understand the other person's pain, Happiness, POV.... but they really dont get the depth of it.... if they hv similar pasts, the chances of understanding truly r higher....

Edited by deniac - 15 years ago

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Doodle

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Posted: 15 years ago

#814

Originally posted by: an12345678
@Sin:

Love is not only about realization and beginning ... Love begins after you commit and decide to walk together. Making the relationship work despite all the differences. If doubts are gonna surface later then why make this story special.

Mann is a special character and not the usual one. So, why make him go through the same cliched route. It should not be: Your baggage is as heavy as mine: Let's dump them in one baggage and walk together. According to me, it should be, I may not understand the depth of your pain but I'll be there with you always and try my best to understand. If I flounder, please make me understand and share. I'll do the same.

😆 Tanu will be 😲😲😲 An giving love fundas.

Hello Gouri and Doodle. 😊

WOW An:- What a thought??? I loved it.... 👏

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#815

🤣 D that's what u r upset about 🤗 don't get mad... Parineeta theory is still pristine... thing is even wit that theory things have to happen twice... Parineeta if i am not mistaken is supposed to be "unconscious choice" but, wit every subconscious choice, their must be a conscious one to adhere or non-comform to the subconscious choice. I.E. Shekkar at the end has to marry his girl in an official capacity na? Similarly, Maaneet after every unconscious choice must confirm with voice!

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BgblZoolander69

@BgblZoolander69

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Posted: 15 years ago

#816

oh my goodness!! I don't know what to think anymore. Everyone is coming up with logical theories and arguments. I'm going to have to rethink this Maan with a baggage thing.

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

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Posted: 15 years ago

#817

Originally posted by: deniac
@lana - doodie is upset n thinks that they ruined the parineeta metaphor as she thinks the stars witnessed their togetherness n hence the sagai was complete..... but she fails to understand that the ring ceremony was needed coz maan had put the ring on her finger without really wanting to do it.... he just got carried away..... but if he had done it with intension then the second ring ceremony wasnt needed.... 2nd ring ceremony was needed even for the metaphor to complete.... for him to realise that he put the ring on her finger coz he wanted to let her know that there is a hum......

Perfectly explained & I can understand & totally relate to it! But why is Doodle upset about this that is what I don't get!!

Oh too many plausible theories going around, my brain is simply not working, am going at snail pace!

Is she mad because after the divine blessing of y'day they kind of did a social ritual today? She thinks that spiritual essence got lost in the 2nd ring ceremony? Union of souls doesn't need social stamp kind of thing?

But today the difference from y'day was Maan consciously & deliberately understanding what he is doing puts the ring on her finger. He did it y'day as well but y'day he was emotionally carried away but today he kind of felt it from within with the HUM concept!

I am blabbering away I think!

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Jaded

@Jaded

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Posted: 15 years ago

#818

Originally posted by: an12345678
@Sin:

Love is not only about realization and beginning ... Love begins after you commit and decide to walk together. Making the relationship work despite all the differences. If doubts are gonna surface later then why make this story special.

Mann is a special character and not the usual one. So, why make him go through the same cliched route. It should not be: Your baggage is as heavy as mine: Let's dump them in one baggage and walk together. According to me, it should be, I may not understand the depth of your pain but I'll be there with you always and try my best to understand. If I flounder, please make me understand and share. I'll do the same.

😆 Tanu will be 😲😲😲 An giving love fundas.

Hello Gouri and Doodle. 😊

@bold....very true.....for me Love is all about making things work in a relationship...not using blame games...not having doubts most of the times.....and for me the story is special becoz....its extremely difficult and all consuming for two people who have royally messed up life try to give life another chance...to fall in love again...to rise above the issues surrounding them....in comparison, its easier for people who do not have alot of issues and messed up life to be in a relationship.

i have not really watched a lot serials...so i dunno if its cliche to have a hero with a tortured soul so cant really say much about it....but once again @red...the idea is beautiful...extremely romantic....but people cant take "make me understand part" not even Maan....wouldnt be able to handle this criticism....coz thats what u always percieve it as...thats human nature

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campbellii

@campbellii

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Posted: 15 years ago

#819

I think quantum physics is much easier to study than the theories and predictions going on here😆😆
Ok girls the invisible me is off to sleep.. 😊 I need to catch up on some sleep..