Maan is to be blamed....YES or NO - Page 2

He already tried to tell her how he feels 4 her but she refused to listen anything..Not his fault i guess :)

Originally posted by: piya2025

He already tried to tell her how he feels 4 her but she refused to listen anything..Not his fault i guess :)

When he can express all the other things in the world directly and when he expects Geet to express her feelings directly with exact words, why he can't do that. Istead of beating the bush by asking her " whether she not interested in knowing who has made her place in his heart" he could have directly said it in word, you are the one who won my heart. Finish. He clinches every thing and expects others to be fair & direct. If we say he is almost confessed, and Geet knew it, should we think Maan is so dumb that he can't understand her feelings for him? She had rushed to the Darga in that horrible weather just to ensure he is alright, while saying leave me alone, she was actually crying instead of anger? Come on yaar, even I like Maan very much that doesn't mean he is Mr. Right.

Jaya

Originally posted by: deejagi

When he can express all the other things in the world directly and when he expects Geet to express her feelings directly with exact words, why he can't do that. Istead of beating the bush by asking her " whether she not interested in knowing who has made her place in his heart" he could have directly said it in word, you are the one who won my heart. Finish. He clinches every thing and expects others to be fair & direct. If we say he is almost confessed, and Geet knew it, should we think Maan is so dumb that he can't understand her feelings for him? She had rushed to the Darga in that horrible weather just to ensure he is alright, while saying leave me alone, she was actually crying instead of anger? Come on yaar, even I like Maan very much that doesn't mean he is Mr. Right.

Jaya

Yaa...Mr. right is way too much complicated himself.

Originally posted by: whitepearl

This is really irritating me......first he coaxes Geet to confess her feelings...poor girl tried so had not to fall into his charms but in vain.....a 'haan' slipped out of her ever denying lips....and this super arrogant, Maan stand there with a smile of satisfaction over his victory....He was so relieved that his reading about Geet was not wrong and finally he has brought her down to her knees...I do not understand..this is not how a lover, who is dying to hear the magical acceptance from his lover, should behave...why didn't he instantly reciprocate her feelings...why didn't he tell his side of the tale?....why couldn't he just flow with the beauty of the moment?

He got so puffed up with her 'Haan' and wasted full 20 seconds after which Geet modified her statement to "Haan main aapki mangetar banana ke liye tayaar hoon...". And BANG.... he is on ground again...Maan missed the golden opportunity...her guards were down and he could easily have capture her...but ....

when will he learn to open up and express his feeling...we understand Geets dilemma but don't you think Maan is to be blamed for his own misery (up to some extend)

i too second u on this....suddenly he left her and she got time to think what she said... if he had kept holding her like that... she would have said haan 100 times and hugged him😳😆😉.. she was in that situaton...

Originally posted by: crazee4maan

Hey I love your post..and please dont get me wrong..im just gonna try to look at this whole dilemma in a different light..maybe my love for Maan is speaking HAHA..but I kind of think he was that passionate and romantic guy when he was speaking to her about his feelings outside of the club that night. If you go back and watch it, the way he speaks to her..so softly..so passionately..saying, the girl who's made a place in my heart is not pari, but its someone else..dont you want to know who that is..I honestly think that he was expressing his love..anyone else in that situation could have figured out that he loves geet..i mean..he had her pinned up against the wall..and dancing with her passionately..she wasnt drunk..and she could see..and she KNEW actually..that it was her..thats why she didnt want to hear it...because of what MAAN said today..you are afraid that you wont be able to control yourself around me, and that you love me..OH MAN i WAS BREATHLESS at that whole scene.

Going to the whole 20 seconds of victory...I think for a second he was relieved, and happy that she accepted his love..and felt the same way..but then got shattered after she polished her answer..But I mean...I completely agree with you about how he coaxed her into spilling out her feelings..and though it may seem wrong, or it may actually BE wrong..I think the fact that his past tortured and ruined him soo much, that same concept of being heartbroken got him bitter again.. I mean its like when something breaks for the first time, it hurts really badly, but then if that wound gets re-opened, then sometimes it hurts even more.. =( I feel really bad for Maan, because as he said earlier, he had been fighting with the concept of LOVE for a very long time..but just as much I feel bad for Maan, I feel EVEN WORSE for our precious GEET..because first of all..she is a tainted woman...and just like she told HIM TODAY, she doesnt want the burdens of her life to tie maan down..awww..it totally broke my heart today.. =( sorry for the long post..just wanted to get my feelings out about this whole situation..

Originally posted by: whitepearl

Yaa...Mr. right is way too much complicated himself.

I agree wid whitepearl though but

@deejagi-Yaar i like Maan too but its not like im taking his side n all..😆Yes he's too much complicated to understand when it comes abt his inner feelings.. He's feeling 4 some1 dis way after so long..He almost stoped talking to girls in d right manner after what happened b2in him n his EX.Inspite of dat he tried to tell geet,d girl name who made a spacial place in his heart.. n it was very much direct but Geet totally refused to listen it coz she already understood by his expressive way whom he's talking abt😃So cant really blame Maan here 4 not being direct to Geet abt his side feelings..He played mind game wid him but he himself lost so much dat he wanted to speak up dat spacial girl name but when d girl pushed him away saying i dont want to listen.. stay away 4m me but still giving mix signal😆What can d guy do.😆

i wud have to go with no..many already vocalized the reasons

i guess we can blame either maan or geet or we can blame noone....the situation is really very sensitive...its very easy to talk wen we r not in geet or maan's shoes....

i earlier created a post putting all the blame on geet....but then that was my blind love for maan speaking....from now on i will post my comments a day after the epi is telecasted so that i can cool down and think rationally....

at the moment i think actually noone is to blame....maan and geet both r in love and therefore this much we can admit that the last thing they want to do is hurt each other....but apparently that is wat they r doing....

i think although they r so deeply in love, a level of understanding between them is missing....i hardly remember a scene where they had any sort of conversation like two normal ppl....they r either fighing like cats and dogs, or getting into passionate eyelocks, or maan trying to corner her to make her confess and geet trying to resist him....
this lack of understanding is making them do things which r hurting both of them.....maan is confident that geet loves him but refuses to believe that there can be a strong reason behind her rejection....and geet thinks that by going away from his life maan will find another girl in his life....both r hving a wrong picture of each other....

in the present scenario things r out of control and neither maan nor geet knows the means of bringing their relatuonship in proper track.....maan doesnt want to confess because of his ego.....geet doent want to confess because of her past....but sadly confession is the only solution....if one of them confesses then the other one will open up too...and once geet starts sharing her past with maan....then everything will fall into place....
therefore i think the CVs r going in the right track....only in hoshiyarpur everything will be sorted out....maan will get to know more about geet and her pain....only then maan will know what to do about his love life....

Originally posted by: aditi123_78

i think although they r so deeply in love, a level of understanding between them is missing....i hardly remember a scene where they had any sort of conversation like two normal ppl....they r either fighing like cats and dogs, or getting into passionate eyelocks, or maan trying to corner her to make her confess and geet trying to resist him....
this lack of understanding is making them do things which r hurting both of them.....maan is confident that geet loves him but refuses to believe that there can be a strong reason behind her rejection....and geet thinks that by going away from his life maan will find another girl in his life....both r hving a wrong picture of each other....

Kind of agree but i guess dats d beauty of der relationship..Dey dont really understand each other but yet understand/Care so much Dat can do anything 4each other😳

@aditi123_78 - I completely agree. Even I was actually blaming maan for missing the opportunity to confess his own feelings and just standing there giving us his victorious smile(even though it was the sweetest smile i have ever seen in my life, no kidding).
But I gotta agree with every part of your comment!