Maan is to be blamed....YES or NO

This is really irritating me......first he coaxes Geet to confess her feelings...poor girl tried so had not to fall into his charms but in vain.....a 'haan' slipped out of her ever denying lips....and this super arrogant, Maan stand there with a smile of satisfaction over his victory....He was so relieved that his reading about Geet was not wrong and finally he has brought her down to her knees...I do not understand..this is not how a lover, who is dying to hear the magical acceptance from his lover, should behave...why didn't he instantly reciprocate her feelings...why didn't he tell his side of the tale?....why couldn't he just flow with the beauty of the moment?

He got so puffed up with her 'Haan' and wasted full 20 seconds after which Geet modified her statement to "Haan main aapki mangetar banana ke liye tayaar hoon...". And BANG.... he is on ground again...Maan missed the golden opportunity...her guards were down and he could easily have capture her...but ....

when will he learn to open up and express his feeling...we understand Geets dilemma but don't you think Maan is to be blamed for his own misery (up to some extend)

Hey I love your post..and please dont get me wrong..im just gonna try to look at this whole dilemma in a different light..maybe my love for Maan is speaking HAHA..but I kind of think he was that passionate and romantic guy when he was speaking to her about his feelings outside of the club that night. If you go back and watch it, the way he speaks to her..so softly..so passionately..saying, the girl who's made a place in my heart is not pari, but its someone else..dont you want to know who that is..I honestly think that he was expressing his love..anyone else in that situation could have figured out that he loves geet..i mean..he had her pinned up against the wall..and dancing with her passionately..she wasnt drunk..and she could see..and she KNEW actually..that it was her..thats why she didnt want to hear it...because of what MAAN said today..you are afraid that you wont be able to control yourself around me, and that you love me..OH MAN i WAS BREATHLESS at that whole scene.

Going to the whole 20 seconds of victory...I think for a second he was relieved, and happy that she accepted his love..and felt the same way..but then got shattered after she polished her answer..But I mean...I completely agree with you about how he coaxed her into spilling out her feelings..and though it may seem wrong, or it may actually BE wrong..I think the fact that his past tortured and ruined him soo much, that same concept of being heartbroken got him bitter again.. I mean its like when something breaks for the first time, it hurts really badly, but then if that wound gets re-opened, then sometimes it hurts even more.. =( I feel really bad for Maan, because as he said earlier, he had been fighting with the concept of LOVE for a very long time..but just as much I feel bad for Maan, I feel EVEN WORSE for our precious GEET..because first of all..she is a tainted woman...and just like she told HIM TODAY, she doesnt want the burdens of her life to tie maan down..awww..it totally broke my heart today.. =( sorry for the long post..just wanted to get my feelings out about this whole situation..

True, If he can make her to agree to all his terms by hook or crook, why the hell he can not do teh same thing in getting her reasons for rejecting his proposal. More over never she said she doesn't like him, never she said he is nalaayakk to her, never she said she doesn't love him, never she said she doesn't care for him, never she said she hate him, never she said any such things. Why he can't understand she is having difficulty in expressing her reasons? Instead of shouting at her, instead of hurting her, instead of blaming her for every problem of his life, why he can't think of what could be the reason for her not to accept his love. He expects her to spell the words while he never said those words to her directly. Had he done that, instantly she would had burst her secret by I can't accept your proposal as I am already a mother to be. When he blames himself for her crying, wht can't he see the pain in those deep eyes. When she said , she doesn't want her past to hurt him, why could n't he see her expression. Why he had to make that constipated face and shout yet again? Why on the earth he had to made her remember that he saved her life and if not she wouldn't have been alive today? does that mean, since I saved your life, you will have to bend to all my needs and you don't have a self respect? Hours before he had declared that she has completed her job to find him a bride, so she can leave her job, and why suddenly he blames her for pari's exit and her work is half done? It is like if your wife asks for a divorce, you will blame the priest for matching their Khundali. Since you said she is good for me, I have gone ahead and married, now it is your responsibility to either get her back or find a new one. If he behaved like a lovesick puppy in front of Pari, what geet can do?

Sorry yaar, I will stop it here otherwise people will block me from the forum.

Jaya

Originally posted by: crazee4maan

Hey I love your post..and please dont get me wrong..im just gonna try to look at this whole dilemma in a different light..maybe my love for Maan is speaking HAHA..but I kind of think he was that passionate and romantic guy when he was speaking to her about his feelings outside of the club that night. If you go back and watch it, the way he speaks to her..so softly..so passionately..saying, the girl who's made a place in my heart is not pari, but its someone else..dont you want to know who that is..I honestly think that he was expressing his love..anyone else in that situation could have figured out that he loves geet..i mean..he had her pinned up against the wall..and dancing with her passionately..she wasnt drunk..and she could see..and she KNEW actually..that it was her..thats why she didnt want to hear it...because of what MAAN said today..you are afraid that you wont be able to control yourself around me, and that you love me..OH MAN i WAS BREATHLESS at that whole scene.

Going to the whole 20 seconds of victory...I think for a second he was relieved, and happy that she accepted his love..and felt the same way..but then got shattered after she polished her answer..But I mean...I completely agree with you about how he coaxed her into spilling out her feelings..and though it may seem wrong, or it may actually BE wrong..I think the fact that his past tortured and ruined him soo much, that same concept of being heartbroken got him bitter again.. I mean its like when something breaks for the first time, it hurts really badly, but then if that wound gets re-opened, then sometimes it hurts even more.. =( I feel really bad for Maan, because as he said earlier, he had been fighting with the concept of LOVE for a very long time..but just as much I feel bad for Maan, I feel EVEN WORSE for our precious GEET..because first of all..she is a tainted woman...and just like she told HIM TODAY, she doesnt want the burdens of her life to tie maan down..awww..it totally broke my heart today.. =( sorry for the long post..just wanted to get my feelings out about this whole situation..

I agree with your analysis Maan did tried to tell her about the girl in his heart but she refused..... today, when he has made all the moves to corner the queen why can't he check mate her...she was guardless , completely vulnerable at that moment.

No i really can't blame...he has almost confessed his love n it's Geet's turn now..n wen yest she confessed for a moment..he was almost blown away...n his heart was full of joy...mesmerizing da moment ...so he glared at her for a while..." At last my Geet confessed " but alas...she shocked him by taking back those words...that moment almost killed mee..🤢 ...n keeping him waiting for that 3 lill words....my poor Maan kept saying " Kya main tumhare layak nahi huun " pls dont say that Maan....i m hurt 😭
Well Maan n we just have to wait wait n wait for that moment to cum....🥺

my ans would be NO.......

i agree to crazee4maan....i had d same questions.....the smile he had after geet said yes was nt coz of ego......he was happy dat she also loves him.....it was very simple.....ya u r right dat he culd have pushed her a lil more and culd have said dat he loves her......

c he loves her dats very evident to her......he knws dat she knws abt his feelings......dats y now he just wants her to confess......he almost confessed dat day......bt geet pushed him......i feel bad for both of dem bt as i love maan m lil biased towards him......bt yaha biased hone ki zarurat nahi hai......i knw he is nt wrong.........its my POV........

Originally posted by: deejagi

....... Why he can't understand she is having difficulty in expressing her reasons? Instead of shouting at her, instead of hurting her, instead of blaming her for every problem of his life, why he can't think of what could be the reason for her not to accept his love. He expects her to spell the words while he never said those words to her directly. ........... Why he had to make that constipated face and shout yet again? Why on the earth he had to made her remember that he saved her life and if not she wouldn't have been alive today? does that mean, since I saved your life, you will have to bend to all my needs and you don't have a self respect? Hours before he had declared that she has completed her job to find him a bride, so she can leave her job, and why suddenly he blames her for pari's exit and her work is half done? It is like if your wife asks for a divorce, you will blame the priest for matching their Khundali. Since you said she is good for me, I have gone ahead and married, now it is your responsibility to either get her back or find a new one. If he behaved like a lovesick puppy in front of Pari, what geet can do?

Sorry yaar, I will stop it here otherwise people will block me from the forum.

Jaya

Hey jaya you ar too good...I love the way you shot back at Maan...Yes we all love him but sometime he is so dumb....is Maan ko samajhana mushkil hai.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

my ans would be NO.......

i agree to crazee4maan....i had d same questions.....the smile he had after geet said yes was nt coz of ego......he was happy dat she also loves him.....it was very simple.....ya u r right dat he culd have pushed her a lil more and culd have said dat he loves her......

c he loves her dats very evident to her......he knws dat she knws abt his feelings......dats y now he just wants her to confess......he almost confessed dat day......bt geet pushed him......i feel bad for both of dem bt as i love maan m lil biased towards him......bt yaha biased hone ki zarurat nahi hai......i knw he is nt wrong.........its my POV........

Originally posted by: mymeet

No i really can't blame...he has almost confessed his love n it's Geet's turn now..n wen yest she confessed for a moment..he was almost blown away...n his heart was full of joy...mesmerizing da moment ...so he glared at her for a while..." At last my Geet confessed " but alas...she shocked him by taking back those words...that moment almost killed mee..🤢 ...n keeping him waiting for that 3 lill words....my poor Maan kept saying " Kya main tumhare layak nahi huun " pls dont say that Maan....i m hurt 😭
Well Maan n we just have to wait wait n wait for that moment to cum....🥺

Maan has never actually siad that he loves her...though he has been suggestive and so has Geet......She is sure that Maan loves her and that's why she is pushing him away..But Maan he is just not sure about her...Open the eyes of your brains ..I know LUvV is blind but please don't be blind to LUV.

Originally posted by: mymeet

No i really can't blame...he has almost confessed his love n it's Geet's turn now..n wen yest she confessed for a moment..he was almost blown away...n his heart was full of joy...mesmerizing da moment ...so he glared at her for a while..." At last my Geet confessed " but alas...she shocked him by taking back those words...that moment almost killed mee..🤢 ...n keeping him waiting for that 3 lill words....my poor Maan kept saying " Kya main tumhare layak nahi huun " pls dont say that Maan....i m hurt 😭
Well Maan n we just have to wait wait n wait for that moment to cum....🥺