"There is a very thin line between confidence and arrogance"
Confidence is a very good trait for people to have, especially women. It lets us attempt things that scare us, it gives a sense of accomplishment, helps give a sense of self worth, makes us strong. A lot of good things. Arrogance on the other hand is not good. It blinds us to our abilities, gives us over confidence, puts others who trust us who may not be as strong as we are in danger. So how do we differentiate between confidence and arrogance. People around us warn us or our inbuilt stupid meter sends an alarm when we attempt something risky, but we must first listen. We must be humble.
Anami was a very confident girl in Benaras. That made her cocky which was periodically checked by Panditayen. When she landed in LM with no one to correct her, she became arrogant. So much so that people she supposedly trusts like Gayathri and Adhi warnings to her fall on deaf years. She is a horse running wild, she will throw herself and those who ride on her like Ladoo and Poonam in harm's way.
Parents are the guides especially when we are young to hold us back or let us fly, teach us how to choose when to do so. Anami has been flying blind for a few months. No one to really correct her. I will never forget the way she cut the tutors hair. Satrupa should have given her a zor se thapad for that alone. Instead she was proud of her tevar. I want Satrupa to push the hurt, stop begging for Anami's love and be the mother she says she is. Scold her, correct her. That will be the best thing for any child. No one wants an arrogant know it all. Especially someone who they want to be a future leader. Anami may never love her, but if anything of Panitayen's bashans she keeps giving as gyans for others have really penetrated that jadathari hair she will finally change if read the riot act I feel. Someone needs to pull no punches and show Anami the mirror. She is putting Poonam and Ladoo in danger. I will not add Adhi to this list. Love is making him do foolish things. He should bear the consequences if he does that.
I am really not sure about Adhi and Anami. I like how they are handling it so far personally, professionally I want to shake Adhi and say, think. Where is Dheeru ? Murari Pathak ? Someone needs to give a good talking to, scolding something to Adhi and Anami to set them straight. Very annoying.
Edited by Mangothyme - 7 years ago
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