SS 57 Common Love - Page 21

Luck, truly plays a very important role. From the day we are born till will live our last breath.
Periappa, was unlucky to have to life is disability but lucky that someone did take care and not abandon him. There are ppl to mourn for him.
Have seen such instances in real world. Also seen brother abondo get his brother for disability just to take his share of property.
In this regard Appa stands very high on my pedestal. And Amma for allowing Appa to do what he did. Alone Appa couldn't do everything. Amma might cringe but never shun her responsibility.
Your story is dedication in a way to many Amma's who have not t been appreciated.
She is one of most real people in the tale.

Originally posted by: NSB7

i wonder if life can have one happy year ever swa..one happy day is a rare thing too

One can only hope

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Our notes crossed paths... yes... u accurately described Bala, so true... he is a deeply caring man
How can we hate him
The jealousy that he feels is so relate-able to many of us. he is not a bad man... he is very human

i agree...our muscles happen to twist in our gut and we sense the helplessness to cure that pain...but we still dont blame the person by looking at home we felt it...we keep trying to beat ourselves up to be better?

Pritee
Very true many women are unwilling when such a demand is placed on them, many men are unwilling too.

It would be interesting to see if Appa would have shown the same care and concern if the brother happened to be AMMA'S

I know of many many families in Delhi where a mentally challenged relative lives with the family, male, female both, but dont know of too many families where the wife's sibling of different ability lives with them though...

Swathi:Absolutely true, when Thatha Paati pass away Ambala Anna will make a trip to "understand whats left of the estate and how it will be divvied up" and what THEIR share will be

We can hate such people all we want but they do exist
And then we have Ranjan who pines for one normal conversation from his son, or a greeting or a spontaneous endearment...
Yes LUCK is supreme, Chachu has FOUR sons and he didnt stray, or even if he did his wife is not offended... he is a crook in every other arena, but a faithful man?

Ranjan is almost a perfect gentleman except for this

Yeh luck nahi to aur kya hai

Originally posted by: swathi1990

I just said it in a collective sense NSB...The indivudual days are different...if we get up half an hour late in the mrng, the day is screwed...it is as simple as that...but turning back u dont remember that day...rather u remeber key events/happenings and hope that it has been good overall...

so true...we can remember good things and that alone helps us live through the rest of the stressful moments

Originally posted by: PriteeMisra

Luck, truly plays a very important role. From the day we are born till will live our last breath.
Periappa, was unlucky to have to life is disability but lucky that someone did take care and not abandon him. There are ppl to mourn for him.
Have seen such instances in real world. Also seen brother abondo get his brother for disability just to take his share of property.
In this regard Appa stands very high on my pedestal. And Amma for allowing Appa to do what he did. Alone Appa couldn't do everything. Amma might cringe but never shun her responsibility.
Your story is dedication in a way to many Amma's who have not t been appreciated.
She is one of most real people in the tale.

Very well written

I have often wondered if words luck and fate mean the same

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Nams, cheers 😛

cheers and hugs 😃

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

I have often wondered if words luck and fate mean the same

Great question Kalpana
I DONT know😕

There are many well read women AND VIKAS😃 here so I will let them answer that one

I observe people a lot, I follow the lives of famous, I wonder too
I was thinking about Joe Biden recently, he lost his wife and a child and refused to join any political office he was forced to 40 years ago? Then he lost Bo last year, hes the VP now, he was strongly speculated as becoming a Democratic candidate for 2016... but he declined two days ago

The rich, the famous, the wealthy, NONE of us are immune u know... its not like he could save Bo from brain cancer... he had access to the best health care in the universe
Just when we think "he has suffered enough already" he lost Bo so tragically

Such a mystery

Waqt se pehle aur kismat se zyaada kabhi kuch nahi milta they say

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

I have often wondered if words luck and fate mean the same

Don't know what to say...
If things are happening as we wish then we call it luck if not then we call it fate...

Both are two faces of the same coin...