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Cousins coming to stay reason being studies, tutions, job have seen evrything...some it will be a pleasure to hav them because they realise and adjust to our way of living and do not expect special privileges...but some will be a nuisance and sometimes their parents to. It may put us in a bind or uncomfortable situation sometimes but saying yes should depend on the circumstances. It will be better if th relatives themslves understand the situation and put / not put forth the request.
And in this another circumstance is husbands side vs wife's side being taken...both may accuse each other that u always say yes to ur relatives and I have to suffer.
But here in Vandu's case...Bala should really grow spine and say no or the middle way will be to say she can stay for a week or so by which she can find a working womens hostel. Amma is right in saying it will be a burden on Vandu. She has to speak to her husband herself or speak to her in-laws.
And Vandu feeling a bit envious of II...after all we are human...but this is never going to affect their bond for sure. II herself feels guilty that she has so much and her sister so less and tries to help in different ways.
Shravu feeling jealous of baldie...absolutely natural...have faced it with my son and there is only 2.9 yrs difference b/w them age wise...here once the parents notice any behavioural change they can speak to him as he is old enough that he will understand but its natural and expected since he has been pampered by all for 10yrs and now he has to share.
II has always been jealous of dude...be it the ease with he handles Lasya, or how much butter ball loves her mama, and now she is envious of Dude for the ease in which he does his own thing
Superbly crafted out Nisha...loved the update👏
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