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Posted: 10 years ago
After reading the update and all the comments I just have one question Jen... When is the next update? I need to know so I can figure out how to survive till then.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: canapoem


You know Kavi, here I want to share something with all the readers what I had read a few years ago.

We all know that Bollywood director/producer Boney Kapoor is married to actress Sridevi and she is his second wife.

When his first wife died of cancer a couple of months ago, I read a article about her on one of the news websites.

It was quoted that she had not signed the divorce papers yet and then she came to know that Sridevi is already pregnant with her husband's baby. Thats when she thought that what is the reason for prolonging her signing the divorce papers if the other woman is already pregnant with her husband's child.

What surprised me was according to her was, no one said a peep about the entire issue including their family members and today Boney Kapoor and Sridevi are quoted as a couple so much in love and so ideal etc.

But what if these people were some regular people, then everyone would have said and written a lot about them.

The point I want to make is, people's opinions about fidelity/infidelity are so different from couple to couple that I want to ask how do we judge what is wrong and what is right in everyday lives???



I think in this case and many cases social stature , power and money decides what is considered as fidelity / infidelity.


If Sridevi is some poor girl then all women organizations, celebrities and news channels might have claimed and shouted saying Boney Kapoor used her etc etc.


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: shyamidutt

After reading the update and all the comments I just have one question Jen... When is the next update? I need to know so I can figure out how to survive till then.

I will be able to tell in a couple of days :)
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: IPK007

I will be able to tell in a couple of days :)


Thank you :) I feel bad pressuring you but these chapters are so intense and the speculations and theories floating around so over the top I just can't wait to read the next few chapters that I'm sure will put us out of misery :) Your writing is so addictive that the more you give the more we crave :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
I read all four pages of comments about fidelity, infidelity, celebrity infidelity etc.. I think I am the right person (!!??) to give an opinion being single and quite conservative Indian..I have said this even in earlier chapters and again reiterating now..I would never ever even talk to a person for marriage or love or dating if he was in Arnav's situation..whether separated or almost divorced, it's a BIG NO..just bcos they are Arnav Kushi and Arnav was in very bad state, I rooted for them..as Kavi rightly said, our views are clouded..at least mine is..I sound like a hypocrite..damn..I am One !!
I read couple of old chapters and confident Arnav will not sleep with any other girls now even though they have broke up bcos for him dil ke rishte is more important than the ones in paper and he really loves Kushi..and he isn't a person who indulges in casual sex..he didn't even do it with La during college days or after separating from Lavanya before meeting Kushi..but in case he does which I am afraid to even think as per speculations going on, for me it is infidelity and highly unacceptable..
But still I am 99.99999% sure that those friends are visiting him and staying at his apt..if that blonde had answered his cell, then it's implied that she slept in his bedroom..home phone can have multiple extensions..

What an update Jen..sooopar...we will go on debating all night am sure

About celebrity infidelity, I still don't accept Hema Malini Dharmendra, Sridevi Boney, Shilpa Shetty Kundra and multiple other relationships..Arjun Kapoor and his sisters situation is very painful ...Boney left them when she was a kid..
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sman

I read all four pages of comments about fidelity, infidelity, celebrity infidelity etc.. I think I am the right person (!!??) to give an opinion being single and quite conservative Indian..I have said this even in earlier chapters and again reiterating now..I would never ever even talk to a person for marriage or love or dating if he was in Arnav's situation..whether separated or almost divorced, it's a BIG NO..just bcos they are Arnav Kushi and Arnav was in very bad state, I rooted for them..as Kavi rightly said, our views are clouded..at least mine is..I sound like a hypocrite..damn..I am One !!


I read couple of old chapters and confident Arnav will not sleep with any other girls now even though they have broke up bcos for him dil ke rishte is more important than the ones in paper and he really loves Kushi..and he isn't a person who indulges in casual sex..he didn't even do it with La during college days or after separating from Lavanya before meeting Kushi..but in case he does which I am afraid to even think as per speculations going on, for me it is infidelity and highly unacceptable..
But still I am 99.99999% sure that those friends are visiting him and staying at his apt..if that blonde had answered his cell, then it's implied that she slept in his bedroom..home phone can have multiple extensions..

What an update Jen..sooopar...we will go on debating all night am sure

About celebrity infidelity, I still don't accept Hema Malini Dharmendra, Sridevi Boney, Shilpa Shetty Kundra and multiple other relationships..Arjun Kapoor and his sisters situation is very painful ...Boney left them when she was a kid..



Shaila, love your comment. I agree, with everything you said, especially what you said about Arnav & Khushi's physical relationship. Yes, the ONLY reason we accepted that was b/c as you said, he was "almost" divorced & LEGALLY separated from his wife for more than a year and the fact that he was in a very bad state. What Khushi did that day was purely on compassionate grounds. One cannot be inflexible in life. One has to change & adapt to situations. The key thing is that Khushi did not sleep with him while he was still living with La, now that would have been a big no-no, then she would have been rightly classified as a home-wrecker!! Khushi had made sure, that he was really single as he had claimed himself to be.

@ Bold, I agree totally. Arnav may not follow all societal rules when it comes to his views on marriage, but one thing he does not prescribe to, is infidelity. In his mind, I don't think he is divorced from Khushi like he was from La, he still loves her at some deep level. So, it would be hard for him to be with another woman (I think. 😉)

About these celebrities, less said about them the better... 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: kclovearshi


I do not think the question of infidelity and people's opinions's about it change based on the couple. The example you quoted is clearly an example of infidelity and it was hushed by Power & Money of the celebrity couple. Why the family didn't talk about it? I guess they are ashamed and the first wife's side of family may not have been successful even if they went to press..

Same thing happened with Shilpa Shetty & her husband too (his first wife did not want to give him divorce).. it is all because of their celebrity status..

Even if people talk they will forget it after couple of days..its not something people remember indefinitely and it does not mean there was no infidelity..


Kavi, just for one moment imagine Boney Kapoor being replaced by Arnav, Mona by La and Sridevi by Khushi. It is totally hypothetical and I know both the cases are totally different. But lets just imagine for some time the above situation.

Boney says that his marriage is left only on a piece of paper and he is no longer emotionally connected to Mona in anyway and his was arranged marriage with Mona and he never knew what was love until he met Sridevi.

He feels he is connected in every way with Sridevi, so does not feel guilty about his physical relation with Sridevi. Then how do you judge Boney Kapoor and Sridevi????

In such cases how do you define infidelity???


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sman

I read all four pages of comments about fidelity, infidelity, celebrity infidelity etc.. I think I am the right person (!!??) to give an opinion being single and quite conservative Indian..I have said this even in earlier chapters and again reiterating now..I would never ever even talk to a person for marriage or love or dating if he was in Arnav's situation..whether separated or almost divorced, it's a BIG NO..just bcos they are Arnav Kushi and Arnav was in very bad state, I rooted for them..as Kavi rightly said, our views are clouded..at least mine is..I sound like a hypocrite..damn..I am One !!

I read couple of old chapters and confident Arnav will not sleep with any other girls now even though they have broke up bcos for him dil ke rishte is more important than the ones in paper and he really loves Kushi..and he isn't a person who indulges in casual sex..he didn't even do it with La during college days or after separating from Lavanya before meeting Kushi..but in case he does which I am afraid to even think as per speculations going on, for me it is infidelity and highly unacceptable..
But still I am 99.99999% sure that those friends are visiting him and staying at his apt..if that blonde had answered his cell, then it's implied that she slept in his bedroom..home phone can have multiple extensions..

What an update Jen..sooopar...we will go on debating all night am sure

About celebrity infidelity, I still don't accept Hema Malini Dharmendra, Sridevi Boney, Shilpa Shetty Kundra and multiple other relationships..Arjun Kapoor and his sisters situation is very painful ...Boney left them when she was a kid..

Looks like Devdaas was your favorite film 😉😆

(I liked it too actually 😛)
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Posted: 10 years ago
Love u Jenny & thank u tons for dedicating this update to me... 🤗 🤗

I am on cloud 9 [:D/]

Ok coming back to update, the update post time leap is thrilling...

First part of update is beautiful... Khushi & her gang are reminiscing their childhood memories... It always happens when cousins meet after a long time gap... The new characters seem to be totally nice people...

Coming back to later part, Arnav's reaction on seeing Khushi is justified... The way Khushi time & again asked him to wait, he is totally heart broken... He strongly believed that Khushi is unsure about their relation like her parents... He is totally destroyed because once again he did not get true love in relation...

I have full faith in you & Arnav...I feel they all must be Arnav's friends... They might be staying at Arnav's place... But it seems Khushi has drawn conclusions... Khushi should just once think from Arnav's POV & have faith in Arnav's love...

Please update quickly...

PS: Going for holidays from 18th April for 15 days... Will catch up & comment on your updates once I return...
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: canapoem


Kavi, just for one moment imagine Boney Kapoor being replaced by Arnav, Mona by La and Sridevi by Khushi. It is totally hypothetical and I know both the cases are totally different. But lets just imagine for some time the above situation.

Boney says that his marriage is left only on a piece of paper and he is no longer emotionally connected to Mona in anyway and his was arranged marriage with Mona and he never knew what was love until he met Sridevi.

He feels he is connected in every way with Sridevi, so does not feel guilty about his physical relation with Sridevi. Then how do you judge Boney Kapoor and Sridevi????

In such cases how do you define infidelity???



Sorry for intruding here...But if every arranged marriage (even in love marriage... one fine morning spouse may say that he/she is not emotionally connected) couple goes in this direction saying they are not emotionally connected and starts having affairs with people do we accept them all?. Where are the ethics and loyalties? For me Boney - Sridevi relationship is infidelity. Boney didn't even take / files for divorce with first wife.

If I substitute Arnav-Kushi for Boney-Sridevi also for me its infidelity as long as there is legal binding.



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