Serious Problem.... Please help me - Page 5

Wo kya haina abhi tak mujhe payar to hua nahi, to ye dhak dhak ke bare mein kuch pata nahi hain :/

Baato se to lagta hain he's totally opposite of you.. But opposite attraction naam ka bhi kuch exist karta hain.. I think abhi k liye just be friend with him.. Agar kuch feel hua to ok nahi to just friend hi rahna..

omg i am rolling on the floor🤣

and hope soon, you will get you one and only :D

if you so clear in your mind then make this person to understand your point of view that he is not the person for you and you don't love him.. be clear with him.. also tell him that you wants to be only friend with him and pursuing you further he is only gonna hurt himself and you in process.. if he is not ready to listen then take a harsh step of creating distance from him.. also make this clear with people around you that you don't share of any thoughts of them and you wish to be left alone on this matter also don't be harsh be polite and do mention him that he shouldn't take your politeness as your weakness.. you are being friendly and human and ask him to move on.. hope he listens to you.. best wishes dear.. 😊

Let me tell you about a guy who I reckoned of when I read your post.

I was 16, chatting on Facebook and he was just a mutual friend. I had broken off from my first bf.

So this guy, who I was chatting with, was 18 when I was 16..and we talked and talked and he said he found me funny and more such stuff and that "I have feelings for you..yeh jaan le, okay?' and I said.."Okay...what did you eat?!" :P and he would still come back on this topic whenever we'd talk.. and I said "You told me we'd be friends, right?" and he'll say "Yeah, I'm sorry.." and then he became bitter and we never talked. He just might have felt hurt, I dunno..I felt wrong as well. I didn't blow him off, not at all. I just did not know how to deal with it. So I un-friended him :P and he sent me a request again and said why did you do that? I told him you don't wanna be friends anymore and you're talking rubbish so that's it. And he said "I'm a guy and I feel this way towards girls and all this becomes crucial at times."

So there. He felt hurt, and I came to know that guys are more sensitive than you think. And it takes a LOT OF COURAGE for them to propose a girl. We just became normal friends - nothing special, just friends. I never really knew if he still had feelings for me and I *sorry for sounding rude* did not care, 'cos I knew I didn't feel that way about him.

You cannot be forced to feel what you don't wanna feel. And it's your life, you should deny, say NO if you don't want to be with someone. And first of all, you're too young and you should have fun now. Not to forget, focus on your studies. Don't over think all this - just be strong in your decisions if you utterly and thoroughly feel it.

And you should enjoy the pampering and care you get ;P I know some girls don't like attention but oh well, it's always good and cherishing when you get it from close ones :)

Originally posted by: kajribarunsobti

aree siso tuje itna pta hai, I dont even know that much

I am 19

I dont love him... he is just a friend. Period.

But he is not listening

try to convince ur parents that u r still young & u r not interested now

even i'm 19 & i'm getting proposals, but i've talked to my parents & they understood my point of view

try the same

tell same that a forced relationship will not stay for a long period

& at the same time, talk to the boy & tell him that give u some time to think

tell him that u consider him nly as a friend

hope that this advice may help you