Serious Problem.... Please help me

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Guys, KBS here... no not with any update but with my personal confusion.

Coming directly to the point:

There is a guys name Parth, who is my Dad's, brother-in-law's friend son... Gosh this is crazy!!! He is an IIT student... Enough intro.

He is just my friend, no feeling from my side... but my mom and masi are hell bent on poking me to like him... disgusting I know!!!!

I know, no one is perfect, it's not like I want a prince, riding a horse with a diamond ring and roses but I just feel he is not for me, but he is perfect, he is a dream guy of any girl...

Do the DHAK! Dhaks!! really happen when you we fall in love, can we really feel the person around us, like is it all true ya sirf fictional hai... ARSHINESS

I don't want to hurt him, he is the best guy, I tried to refuse him but he said that I should take time to think... What to do...

I am sure what I feel for him is not love... there is no symptoms of love...

He is my friend, I like talking to him, I can share everything with him... but what should I do?

Tell me, I don't know... but I thought when I will find my soul-mate, there will something special in it... I can't describe in words, I am hesitant right now!

What should I do?

I know many of you will be laughing... don't please... help me out...

He is all mushy like... always interrogating to me about this and that...

"did u ate?"
 "Sleep well"
"Why are you not talking?"


 and all this didn't suit well with me... its irritate me, is this love... hell

Gosh help me out, *face palming*

LOVE
KBS
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'll pm you later about my opinion sis 
got to go to work now.
xxx
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Posted: 10 years ago
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SORRY,I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THIS THINGS,
TOTALLY BLANK,
ANYWAYS,THANKS FOR CONSIDERING ME.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Give it a chance
If he ain't the one don't well then he aint
No harm in just being friends now
If you don't like him hen tell your parents
Am sure they won't force you or anything

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank you so much for considering me for openion...

 
But i dont know any thing about this 😕 but spend some time with him and then decide whether is a right person for you or not..😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i guess u r asking d wrong person😳
sowwie i couldnt help u😳
as of nw jus be friends wit him and decide whether he s d one for u or not😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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kya baat hai! Yaar abhi tak tu duppatte se sabjiwale ko pata rahi thi and now IITian is all over you..;P i can't stop laughing... *sorry*. But will think abt it, i gotta rush now!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i really don't know wat happens when we fell or feel in love but i can say that u can give it a try
as per interogation thing i can only say that he is trying to be ur friend i think
wat ever it is All the Best
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Posted: 10 years ago
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spend some time to get to know him ...best buddies make a best partner
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just saw your note on FF forum...

Oh, how I wish there were clear cut symptoms to decide if you are in love or not...

But that's not the case, you see!

  • Don't let his educational qualifications/ job/ parental pressures cloud you.
  • As a person, do u like him enough to spend your life with him?
  • As u said he is every guy's dream guy, why is he not yours? 
  • If you are ready for getting married, why don't you give him chance and know him better?
That's all I had to say. Don't mean to offend you. Sorry if I did.

Bye! Do let me know what u decide!



Yaar I dont have any slightest idea about all this... I am 19... They r not getting me married... but poking him to consider him as... ummm... something else