Maslow's hierarchy of needs (AR FF) Pt 23 pg 153 - Page 88

Created

Last reply

Replies

1.2k

Views

156k

Users

81

Likes

404

Frequent Posters

bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: sea_nyx

Ooh I smell something burning?looks like Mr. "she's just a dear friend" Armaan might have to have to do a bit of soul-searching. I really felt horrible for Angie though, there's nothing as horrible as unrequited love?especially when you know in a secret corner of your heart (as I suspect she does) that the one you love can never be yours. In fact the over-riding emotion on reading the part for me was pity rather than anger or irritation?ridz has armaan, rahul, muskaan to comfort her but what of angie and having to cope with the agony of seeing the one you love slowly move away from you into someone else's arms? Ankit's comment about misdirected explosions however tactless was nevertheless true. Hope Atul can help sooth her a little. But I fear he's right?this is just the beginning?

I'm so sorry for not replying to the last part but sometimes I just can't ignore the fact that I'm meant (meant being the operative word here) to be a research scholar despite putting all my efforts into the age-old student tradition of slacking off (and believe me when I say age old?there's a letter dating back to the 14th or 15th century at one of the old European universities lamenting the laziness of the writer's current crop of students 😆)?anyway getting back to my explanation, I was finalising my thesis chapterization, (course there's still some fine tuning but overall it's almost finished taking shape ) and hence didn't even have a minute's free time to spare. Btw, I've been reading some of the comments and have to say I personally loved Armaan's recollection of the evening. The third person narrative in no way took away any of its charm?and as for the Convenient Marriage, I have to confess I myself forgot all about it what with the recent workload?
I loved your analysis of romance through the ages?too true, in fact the whole idea of chivalry was built around the concept of Courtly Love where the parfait knight or the preux chevalier would perform feats of chivalry for the glory of his love?always a noble born woman either married or betrothed to another. The Le Roman de la Rose was considered the ideal?the template so to speak. Eleanor of Aquitaine (she who offered her rival poison, a fascinating story?but I'm sure you know about it?) was the one who popularised it in the English Court. What is so fascinating to be is that the rather than a triumphant love it is unattainability and what we in India call viraha that is the core of this ideal.
Ah Athos, Porthos, Aramis and d'Artagnan..."One for all, and all for One", god I loved those four and of course The Man in the Iron Mask. I loved the whole premise that the Roi Soleil might have been Loius XIV's twin brother and d'Artagnan's son?too good. Course I always loved a good conspiracy which is why I loved The Da Vinci Code though I couldn't stand the movie. And such a horrendous bit of miscasting; when Robert was specifically described by Brown himself as "a Harrison Ford in Tweeds".
p.s. the "language Timothy" reference is giving me a hell of an itch?I HATE it when I can't immediately recognize the source of a particular ref.

Hi there! Have typed out a looong response till the silly explorer decided to close on me so love's labour lost!

Hope your chapterisation is complete and you are all set to crack your thesis! The letter I guess captures the eternal truth and one of the joys of being a student…as my other half keeps telling me, thank God for last minutes, otherwise you would not end up getting anything done at all, lol!

I loved The Da Vinci code, as in the book, as well, and I agree with you, the movie did not do anything for me…much of the essence and the mystery was lost in the movie…to be fair, the kind of story it is, this was bound to have happened…. Though I must admit, I am biased! I am of the firm opinion that movies very rarely if ever do justice to a book! Though having said, that I do end up watching the movies! Talk about being a glutton for punishment, lol!

The only Eleanor that I know of the mother of Richard the Lionheart and strangely enough also because she set up something called courts of Love wherein lie the origins of the system of the modern day jury…beyond that, I must confess, I know little…in fact my knowledge of English history is reasonably suspect, lol! And I must say, I admire you immensely….the range of knowledge and the cross section of books that you read is amazing!

The Three Musketeers – I think I have read and seen it in every form by now! Be it books (both original and kid's versions), movie and animations! Just love the book. Wonder how come I never remembered the line and used it! It would have been pretty appropriate for the trio as well! Also loved The Man in the Iron Mask..actually all classics, must buy and keep for my future generations to read….sometimes I fear with so much television, the next generation kids are hardly going to be readers…

And I guess I completely agree with you about Anjali…which is why I don't see her as an out and out villain…I can empathise with her…it's tough to watch your heart's desire slip away, especially when you have patiently waited for it and someone from no where comes in and you're left out in the cold…

"A mighty pain to love it is,

And 'tis a pain that pain to miss;

But of all pains, the greatest pain

It is to love, but love in vain."

As to "Sorry Timothy" it's a by-line that's constantly repeated in a Brit series called Sorry where the main character is a grown up guy called Timothy, whose even older father keeps chastising him on his language even though the words are really not offensive!

Am sitting at the airport, waiting for my flight and browsing the net and trying hard not to read the book that I am carrying with me now, lol! Bad choice for the flight and an airport wait!

I like spending time (well some not too much) at airports and observing people…its amazing how interesting it can be and what a wonderful insight it can give you to the human mind esp. when they react to something like a delayed flight …

sweetaddiction thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: bernard shaw

I agree completely with you sweet sweetaddiction! I prefer reading something when I have the luxury of time otherwise it ruins the pleasure of reading...except when I am reading work memos...those the faster they're got rid of the better! 😆 Thanks so much for taking the time to comment!
I am travelling today but should have the evening free, so shall update the part if I have net access....and if the explorer does not decide to play hookey with me again!



lol k-- yea-- stupid computers-- soo frustrating wen they suddenly decide to do wat they feel like :S
hope it works and ur able to update tho :D
~Sweetoo
bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: missypatel

sam!!

awesome update....is all i can say..in a mood i am incapable of describin at d moment...maybe a bad time to read such a wonderful update..!!

d dealings were brilliantly described....emotionz..finally...honesty i carry wen i comment...one d things i koe nutterz luv abt me..wen it cumz to comments on ter ficz..and wit u i stick 2 d same...maybe couple comments bck i think i mentioned it to kratz..who so dearly luves yur update...much more than me...yahh and i said i luv her updates bt it misses one thin...i juss cant c throguh it...n its finally here...atleast for me to c and feel...."emotions"...
dt was really fab work frm you..:D

Love is blind, Love is blind
a fact such that only two can know
them in love or them blind..
Why i ask, is the need that occurs?
Love is...love. I quote thee for you to know.
Don't rub my wounds that love scratched in me
I am not blind..are you in love?

Maybe this would tell how your update was to me...yup m touched..maybe u mite hve noticed..i give tem a verse....them deservin updates.. :)

i wud hve told u much in detail..if it werent for ma fowl mood...!!

luv nijaL =)



Hi Nijal

Thanks so much girl, not just for the comment but more so for the verse….am honoured…another one with a penchant for verses? And a lovely one at that!

Hope your mood is a lot better now…..must admit I am in a foul one right now…one my explorer has been shutting on me the whole of yesterday and this morning, second I had to get up at 4 am to catch an early morning flight ( I am not an early morning person though my insomnia wakes me up early enough), and third my darned flight has got delayed which means that I will be late for my meeting and I hate the disadvantage that puts me at!

But loved the verse, and the comment…am so glad that you liked it girl! Hugs!

bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: angel1117

hey sam!! this part was absolutely amazing...i understand why you like it so much, its so....realistic i'll say. i loved the love conversation, it really helps to figure out the characters' personalities. oh and i absolutely loved riddhima's take on love....it was really very sweet, and meaningful.....but anjali's comment...ouch hahah, im surprised i dont hate her yet. but thats probly because i can see that your not portraying her as a bad person, just insecure i suppose. Anyways, im loving ar's relationship....and its perfect....dont rush anything! lol i find it totally awesome that your making their friendship develop, and its very important for them to be friends.....i doubt love just happens in a second...lol i guess thats my take on it, but yeah, i love how their becoming better friends and more fond of eachother.

awesome part!! really enjoyed reading it! and thanks for the pm as usual!
-chandni
(by the way, thanks for the comment about my name😳 😆)

Hey Chandni, you're welcome, for the PM and the comment on your name...it was meant in all sincereity...I love the sound of the name and the imagery that it evokes!
Am glad that you dont hate ANjali, you shouldn't...she may be an irritation yes, but she is struggling with dealing with her own emotions and her dreams slipping away from her as well..she is not a bad kid, she makes an effort to be nice but then circumstances take things out of her control or rather she looses control...
am glad you are liking the pace!
Edited by bernard shaw - 16 years ago
bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: zhasan2

great part! plz continue soon! i hope armaan realizes what anjali feels for him and sets things straight!

HEy, am glad you liked the part! Will try and post the part tonight cos my evening is relatively free! Yup Armaan need sto be a little more aware though many of us ignore the obvious when we want to....
Edited by bernard shaw - 16 years ago
bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: .xganga.x

Hey!

Wooow, another awesome update!
The "love" conversation was really interesting, i loved what Riddhima had to say about it...Anjali really can be harsh....teenage mills and boons???
Can't wait till the next update!
xXx
Sunayna
= ]

Hi Sunayna
Am glad you liked it so much! Yup, veryone has a diferent take on love, don't they? I think Anjali recated impulsively which is why it came out harsher thans he intended it to...but we all do that all the time, don't we?
Edited by bernard shaw - 16 years ago
bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: monadarling2628

fantastic update, sam! i loved the way you penned down armaan and ridhima's take on love. <3 i was actually not surprised that anjali made such a rude remark about ridhima's thoughts, afterall she was told to share her thoughts and when she did, she was shunned by anjali's words. anjali should follow herown advice and grow up. anyways, i'm glad that atul, rahul and muskaan are supporting AR but why is ankit trying to change himself to be like armaan? does he really think that ridhima will like him any more than a friend after that?

i'm looking forward to tommorrow's update.
thanks for the pm and do pm me when you update.
mona :]

Hi Mona!
Am glad you liked the update...I guess Ankit was not really trying to be like Armaan consiously, he was trying to be someone that he feels Ridhima likes and spends time with and the two obvious choices are Rahul and armaan...and he naturally chooses Armaan cos he identifies with Armaan and he sees Ridhima and Armaan as being close.....
Anjali I guess has to lean to deal with her emotions and figure a way of making Armaan understand what she feels....
shall PM whne I update which should hopefully be tonight!
Edited by bernard shaw - 16 years ago
Jodubai thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 16 years ago
Sam, Sam, Sam.....
What do you want me to say???? I am so speech bound......I have absolutely no words to say how much I liked this part, the exchange of emotions, words was just out of this world....
I am so scared to say anything, cos it will be an insult to your part, my mere words, but I would say one thing I just LOVED this part & love you for giving us such beautiful FF, its like reading a classic, am saving this FF on a word document, so I can relish on this at my heart's desire, I simply loved this line, used b you:
an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired
am very happy for your friends who finally got togather...so those endless chai's did return the favor....hahaha
Take care & love
bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: krati.mehra

The part was superb sam...one of the best in the fic i have to say...at least for me it is...them quoting on love and Riddzie's take on it....mirrors mine and even i wanted to throttle angie...meanie *****..... but i sooo loved it Sam...all the emotions so gripping and you brought them alive... it was awesome...mindblowingly awesome (this is my special term for the special parts) I loved the part completely. The biting remark form Anji pissed of everyone and armi too...i for once wanted him to snap and put some sense in her head...she is so irritating me now...u know i even felt that maybe riddz should have retorted back but than it wud go against her character...she not the kind to get in cat fights and than even the hero would not have jumped to her aid..hehe...had i been there i would have bloody put her in her place, maybe that's why everybody thinks me good enough to take care of myself...but its nice to have someone taking care of u and it was so touching to see how rahul, muski and armi felt for her....and ok Ankit irritating me a bit here now thats not me anymore...hmm

but amazing part sam...i so loved it....
and now looking forward to the next one...did u say somethign about leaving for somewhere...does that mean no updates for sometime...ouch!! that wud be bad for us...but do update when u can....
love ya
Kratz

Hey Krati, am so glad that you enjoyed the part and love the "Mindblowingly awesome" compliment...am honoured!
Yup, cant see Ridhima retorting, she not a push over and can be quite ballsy but she's not offensive plus Anjali caught her vulnerable..remember she's talking about something that she holds dear (as RAhul says she waxes eloquent and intense on thsi one subject) ..and its great to have friends who jump up to your defense or are there to comfort you when you are down...inthat sense I feel quite sorry for Anjali cos her friends seem to have desserted her!
Am traveling today locally, should have boarded the flight by now but its delayed...should be back late night and given the insomniac that I am, shall hopefully updatethe part tonight!🤗
Edited by bernard shaw - 16 years ago
bernard shaw thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Robin_M

wow sam that was wicked! the whole discussion on love was very moving! sooo glad you included this, got to see everyone's take on the much difficult emotion! i really admired what armaan said, i found it to be very true! but WOW ridz idea was sooo passionate and intense! the girl is a hardcore romantic! she possesses a very strong heart and mind! not sure i can agree with her completely on the matter, but her veiws are definaetly commendable!!!!
geeezzz angie is pissing me off now! that was sooo rude of her! cant believe her! seriosuly who does she think she is! she doesnt own armaan, he isnt even her boyfirend! she has no right to feel any animosity towards ridz! shes just a jelaous shrew! uff
but i loved how everyones first instinct was to comfort and defend ridz! armaan especially! hehe rahul and muskaan too, loved how mad she got at angie!
well i really enjoyed this part, and am really looking forward to seeing how armaan deals with riddhima, and her reaction!!!!

**************** reserved**************
Hey am glad that you liked the part....
I guess though she is not his girlfriend, Anjali is presuming on a friendship that is def older than Ridhima's interaction with Armaan.....Yup, she was alil rude but as she said herself, she was unable to control herself...to me she's allhuman and the fac that she recognises what she is doing is wrong redeems her to some extent!
Shall update this morning....
Edited by bernard shaw - 16 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".