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Guys! Why are you all streching this issue for long, I thought we solved the problem.

Mods are not rude or Bias. when they edit/delete any thread, they keep their own favs a side. If your posts moves back, its not the fault of Mods. Members don't reply to them.

Dido, I think you need some rest. coz if you keep thinking -ve about Mods and Viewbies of IF or FG, then you will never be able to see the +ve side.

35000+ members here work together and have made this forum a huge success, that Sony ppl are contacting Vijay themselves. A lot of Hardwork has been done by the Vijay and his Development Team. and I suggest you also start to look at the good things.

We are like a family, family main arguments hotye hain, but its always good to stop them, asap. lets just resolve the problem here. and take a new start. Watch the show and enjoy the new "twists" 😃

Hoping to see a positive reply from you.

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

I didn;t find it as if u wre advising...I perceived it as rude

I have read each & every single post. Maybe Minnie di wrote in red but its not in caps so I don't think its 'angry'. Personally speaking, I found the accusations pretty uncalled for & ridiculous. As if we care a damn if Arpita loses or wins...& certainly vijay doesn't. I doubt if he even visits any section

Thanx for appreciating, but looking at this particular topic, I have grave doubts whether u reallly appreciate it or not.

AND we are not doing any meherbaani...we do it bcoz we like it. BUT the way ppl have posted here, it seems you ppl are doing us & vijay a meherbaani by visiting IF

Yes offcourse its a meharbani from us (all If-members) and YOU GUYS should be thankful to us to make this IF very populr place for discussions!

BUT after such a bad response from moderators and Global moderators I dont think this IF is going to have any attraction in near future.

If moderators have more access than normal users that doesnt means they can do anything they wish to! They shouldn't be harsh towards any users whether user is complaining or whtsoever!

and I just dont want to comment on VIJAY's success or his effrots or his fate! He is not that ionnocent that he is simply wasting US$$ each months for webhosting and bandwith and etc..He have a very solid return just becuase of us(If-memebrs)

so intead of pointing your fingers towards us you guys should be more graceful to us!

Originally posted by: sam.bukshi

Yes offcourse its a meharbani from us (all If-members) and YOU GUYS should be thankful to us to make this IF very populr place for discussions!

BUT after such a bad response from moderators and Global moderators I dont think this IF is going to have any attraction in near future.

If moderators have more access than normal users that doesnt means they can do anything they wish to! They shouldn't be harsh towards any users whether user is complaining or whtsoever!

and I just dont want to comment on VIJAY's success or his effrots or his fate! He is not that ionnocent that he is simply wasting US$$ each months for webhosting and bandwith and etc..He have a very solid return just becuase of us(If-memebrs)

so intead of pointing your fingers towards us you guys should be more graceful to us!

No one is Earning anything from this forum, not even Vijay!

why are you all of a sudden so much against the Mods? eik choti si problem howi thi system main, as a result, you weren't able to see your threads, that problem was solved ages ago. and you are stil aruging on that point.

PLEASE!! Don't spoil the freindly envirnoment of the forum.

Ms.Bholi bhali, kudos to you that you give all memebrs a respect, but few other mods and glob mods are abusing their previlige and telling us that we are doing meharbani bu visiting IF!

I just would to let these ppl know that these 35000 memebrs are pillar of this India Forums and have made this forum a huge success! and they should respect each and every memebr for this!

I am totally disappointed after reading comments of anitha.b and manasi_16.

Originally posted by: sam.bukshi

Ms.Bholi bhali, kudos to you that you give all memebrs a respect, but few other mods and glob mods are abusing their previlige and telling us that we are doing meharbani bu visiting IF!

I just would to let these ppl know that these 35000 memebrs are pillar of this India Forums and have made this forum a huge success! and they should respect each and every memebr for this!

I am totally disappointed after reading comments of anitha.b and manasi_16.

Thanks Sam. but to tell you the truth, I learned that from my Senior Mods, which Include Anitha.b and Manasi_16.

you know, its really frustrating to repeat same thing again and again. and if you see in this post. all three four of us are repeating the samething again and again.

So don't worry, no one has any bad feeling for you guys.

and Yes each one of you. is a piller of India Forums, coz with out guys, hum udhar na hotye jidhar aaj hum hain.

But there are some rules which each one of has to follow, and being a mod/viewbie/GM/admin, we have to draw some limits, which we also cann't cross.

so Cheer up. anitha Di or Manasi Di didn't mean to hurt anyone. they are the best. thats why I said, put the -vity aside and talk to them, they are the sweetest ppl on the forum. Beleive me!

Originally posted by: Ms. Bholi Bhali

No one is Earning anything from this forum, not even Vijay!

why are you all of a sudden so much against the Mods? eik choti si problem howi thi system main, as a result, you weren't able to see your threads, that problem was solved ages ago. and you are stil aruging on that point.

PLEASE!! Don't spoil the freindly envirnoment of the forum.

We are NOT spoiling friendly environment, its few pople around here who are abusing thier previlige/power.

They have started to think that they are above all the things and normal users are just doing "MEHARBANI" by visiting IF and they have forgot that these people have made a HUGE SUCCESS for IF.

and again I am saying the same thing I dont want to comment on vijay's earning/retur from this forum! , but ms.bholi bhali you're really very bholi bhali. you should check webshoting rates and bandwith rates and then you'll get to know that Vijay is not wasting his money! He is investing huge money just beuase he has some return IF not in terms of money then in terms of "REPUTATION" which is nevertheless!

😃

ok, Ms. bholi bhali, I have to go, take care, will catch you laters. Bye.

Originally posted by: sam.bukshi

We are NOT spoiling friendly environment, its few pople around here who are abusing thier previlige/power.

They have started to think that they are above all the things and normal users are just doing "MEHARBANI" by visiting IF and they have forgot that these people have made a HUGE SUCCESS for IF.

and again I am saying the same thing I dont want to comment on vijay's earning/retur from this forum! , but ms.bholi bhali you're really very bholi bhali. you should check webshoting rates and bandwith rates and then you'll get to know that Vijay is not wasting his money! He is investing huge money just beuase he has some return IF not in terms of money then in terms of "REPUTATION" which is nevertheless!

😃

Whatever Vijay earns, it is used for the site, nothing goes in his pockets. and as far as Reputation is concerned, I think achi reputation jitni ho, utni hi achi hai.

and as for power and previlige is concerned. if they were really using the power, they might have closed this topic long ago. but as this forum gives freedom of speech. this topic is still a live.

How can u say, what they are thinking?

Originally posted by: Minnie

D) Who is Arpita? I am sorry, but I am lost here. I could understand if someone of Jassi's stature or Tulsi's stature could slow down a site 😆 but Arpita???

This is India-Forums, NOT Fame Gurukul Forums. Fame Gurukuls will come and go in dozens, but India Forums will stay. It's about all the serials that are discussed here, and all the characters in those serials are as hotly debated as you guys debate Arpita and Rex.So no one character is more important than the other.

I just have 1 point to make on Minnie's post. Minnie, no offence, but maybe u dont follow FG as much, so u r not aware of the popularity of the show and of all its contestants, but to say that Jassi (or Tulsi😕) is more popular and can slow down the system, I think just shows ur bias ...

We love the FG forums and are proud of it. I understand there are people who use bad words and all the moderators are doing a great job in doing their best to keep the forum clean and hats off to them 👏👏👏

But I felt real bad when a moderator tries to 'neecha dikhao' this forum over the other forums in the site 😭

Sorry if I have offended anyone..

Dear Sam,

Your comment "Everything is fine but I think the tone could be more polite as a GLOBAL MODERATOR. Anyways thanks for the info. 😃" and then you see an immediate response from Minnie apologising for what you felt. Tell me how many people have come back and felt sorry. Just because we are mods or GM's we have to know to be polite and you are absolutely RIGHT on that. But we are humans first and we too are members of IF. Just like rest of them, we love to come here because of the environment of this forum.

Originally posted by: Minnie

I apologise if my tone semed rude. It was not intentional. I stated the facts. I won't disagree that I felt extremely bad when I saw accusations being thrown at people who are working so hard day in and day out to keep this forum in the shape it is, that too at their own expense ( like Vijay) or free of cost ( like all the mods, viewbies and coolbies ). Hence it might have come out harsher than I meant. If so, then I am sorry for that.

I am glad if you found my info useful.

We are always there if any of you need to know anything.

Thanks Anitha and Manasi for the vote 😳,

Minnie.

And when I said, this forum has so many posts everyday and so many that are offensive, rude with degratory remarks I was true on that and I said, people find Minnie's post rude and I still say what I wrote their is right.

Tell me one thing, people posted about arpita comparing her to bar girl...not many raised the issue. How can we even think of comparing one decent lady who is trying hard to win. We really don't know the facts, we don't know what pressure they have been through. They are struggling upcomers and they are trying their best to give a performance. We have the right to comment and right to like or dislike, but don't we have some courteous way to express that.

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anitha.b wrote:

How can you even do that when you don't pay for what you are doing here

How can you even do that when you don't pay for what you are doing here????!!!

How can you even do that when you don't pay for what you are doing here????!!!
OMG, I was glad to be back and see this as a "raging" hot topic. Thanks to IF moderators for taking this seriously and responding fast. Also am happy that this page has not disappeared 😆

But I am sorry to say that the moderators have exhibited for the want of a better word, "naivette" and "rudeness" in their responses.

As moderators they are supposed to be cool headed. So why are their responses in ANGRY RED TEXT.

I take particular offense to the quote above. Hello Anitha, could you please send me the link to a "PAID DISCUSSION FORUM" on the internet???? I am sorry to say but your above remark shows either total IGNORANCE or INNOCENCE of how a discussion forum works, it's importance and meaning.
And sorry, but I don't even want to start giving you a lesson. You need to educate yourself.

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Thanks Dido, that was very cool headed reply. Regarding paid forums. At IF we will start one? Do you want to be the first member?

Neither am I Ignorant nor Innocent. If I was Innocent, I would have agreed to all you members and thought this is the way the world goes, using rude remarks (I am not mentioning you, their are many more posts like that and I request you to see them) and stayed out. Nor am I Ignorant, if I was I would have not cared to reply to any of the posts and stayed away from any response or any mod functioning. I would have just come to the forum like all you guys, posted comments and logged out. Well what is my gain here right?

What kind of education are you talking about? Well what I learnt is not just literature or science, I also learnt morals and how to be with people and expect back the same. I think you should know who has to learn. I don't have to explain you that. You seem to be a smart person and very educated.

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So please do not insult the FG forum members. Or just close this FG forum if it is such a pain for the moderators and IF website. Seriously.
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This forum was opened because of many members request..not one or two. We are not here to insult anyone nor do we like getting insulted and we don't feel any shame to say sorry if anyone is hurt. But at the same time, we expect the same back for anyone (Members/Viewbies/Mods/GM's/Admin's)

We also have many members from this forum who are happy about its functioning. We don't get PM's just with complains, we also get compliments. If you feel it is a pain, it is your view and I cannot comment on that.

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Manasi_16 wrote:

Dido wrote: And sorry, but I don't even want to start giving you a lesson. You need to educate yourself. And I suppose u think u are being very polite & 'educated'????? What u ppl don't realize is the hard work that goes in managing IF. If we were biased, we would have been thrown out long back...but members still trust us enough to come to us with thier probs. Anyway, I don't watch FG nor do i visit the section but I could bear to see bholi tackling all this alone & definately could't stand what u ppl wrote against minnie di & smisha di

Is that rude Manasi??? I don't think so. That's sound advise!!!

I suggest you read entire postings by the moderators. A posting by today by Minnie is again in ANGRY RED TEXT. Sorry this is not done.

I thought I will not return to comment on this posting.

We appreciate the hard work. But definitely in all the moderators postings they think they are all doing a BIG MEHERBAANI to all of us and we must pay obeisance to them.

I have very rarely seen offensive language in this forum. People try to be sensational and controversial to get attention to their postings but seldom get down and dirty.
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Once again Thanks for your advise. We will take any postive good advices. But people who like to give advice should also be open to take when they get. Minnie's text in red and bold was only to get attention from everyone.
Also, when any moderator or GM or admin posts a warning they usually post in RED and it could be a for a member or for the group. The announcements are also choosen with some colors at times.

We have listed rules and how many follow. Forget reading about the rules, Lakshmi has posted long back a warning to members, how many read. Minnie was trying to get people to understand the rules and it is very important. Even we moderators, GM's, Admin's, viewbie's, coolbies have to follow rules. That is because we want to create an atomosphere here for everyone to come and enjoy and it could be from any age group.

I am surprised that you have not seen any posts that are down and dirty. I can provide you the links for your reference, if you want to read them.

The only person who is doing a favor here are the coolbies, who take their time and post updates for all of us. It is because of their dedication and hard work we all have registered here. No one is doing any favor to anyone else. Ofcourse Vijay, because currently he is only paying and not gaining anything. Who knows, if he would gain tomorrow...who has seen that?

Finally, I would like apologize to people who felt I was rude.