true that...both are bad with each other...but the point that invokes a little of my sympathy towards Baldev is the fact that he takes decision in his anger...anger towards the fact that his wife doesnt respect him...later when he realizes that he was wrong, he feels guilty, he tries to rectify the wrong done...and most of all, defends Veera in-front of all...but Veera never ever feels bad for insulting him left right n centre...its like a normal thing for her...hence i hate her more then him...