Baldev - The Second Fiddle in Veera's Life and the Show!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: monumolu

Intentional or unintentional I felt the whole apology thing could have been bit more straight from her heart and genuine!!! Her words somehow implied she was doing a favorable deed by requesting an apology - "Tumhe pata hai tere ghar ke kitne chakkar kaate maine?" I would rather prefer someone to tell, "Main tere ghar ke hazaar chakkar kaatne ke liye tayaar hoon jab tak tu mainu maaf nahi karega!!!" I know there is only a wafer-thin line between words, but the little nuances like these tend to speak volumes about the bond two souls share!!!

Exactly 👏

No hard feelings to any one here okay 🤗

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

IKR..So much fun 😆 I have always felt Veera is insensitive when it comes to everyone apart from her Veerji but selfish she is not..When has Veera 'used' Baldev ? Yeah she was prejudiced and refused to see the goodness in him thanks to their history, was insensitive when she played with his feelings but i have never really felt she uses Baldev tbh..Its always Baldev who volunteers to help Veera..That shows how unconditional & selfless his love is but i have never seen any instance where Veera deliberately take advantage of the soft corner he has for her..Apart from the 'fake love track' of course where Veera was so focused on her object of making Baldev dump her that she just refused to see how much she was hurting him in the process..

Originally posted by: divyasn

I never said what all Gunjan did is right ... what all she has done is downright disgusting .

Veera becomes selfish - because she enjoys all selfless help which Baldev is offering to her and never ever returns anything .
Any non-selfish person will think of returning something to the person who has helped so much

Hope I am clear

Well, she did acknowledge that he goes out of the way for her..When Baldev thanked her post the Chanchli fiasco, she did mention that it'l take an entire lifetime if she starts thanking him for all that he has done for her( not sure about the exact dialogue😆 )..For a change, she has started acknowledging his goodness..Prior to the Poland track, she never really got the opportunity to see this side of Baldev..And things worsened post the Sarpanch fiasco..This is just a start..I hope Veera learnt her lesson yesterday..Now when Baldev needs Veera's support in future, am sure she'l stand by him..If she doesn't, i'l agree with you 😆 Am just saying its too early to judge her..She has just seen his other side & fallen in love..We need to wait for a while before we declare that Veera is only using him..Thats just my opinion though 😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Well, she did acknowledge that he goes out of the way for her..When Baldev thanked her post the Chanchli fiasco, she did mention that it'l take an entire lifetime if she starts thanking him for all that he has done for her( not sure about the exact dialogue😆 )..For a change, she has started acknowledging his goodness..Prior to the Poland track, she never really got the opportunity to see this side of Baldev..And things worsened post the Sarpanch fiasco..This is just a start..I hope Veera learnt her lesson yesterday..Now when Baldev needs Veera's support in future, am sure she'l stand by him..If she doesn't, i'l agree with you 😆 Am just saying its too early to judge her..She has just seen his other side & fallen in love..We need to wait for a while before we declare that Veera is only using him..Thats just my opinion though 😆

hmmm thanking is easy - but going out of the way to help someone is not that easy 😃

If she learns her lesson , then good for her ... 😃

Originally posted by: ST0207

Even I have never felt that Veera 'uses' Baldev ! Baldev khud hi saamne se aata hai to help her. And as you rightly said its his selflessness and not her selfishness ! She can never be compared to Gunjan. Gunjan's acts were just plain terrible and cannot be justified !
Veera was defn wrong in that fake love track but then her motive was not to hurt him .. she just wanted him to back off. This incident proved how her character also was a flawed one.

The problem with Veera is that she goes overboard with everything..There is no moderation..And she just refuses to see the consequences of her action 😆 Its fine to fake your love to make sure the guy dumps you but it can come back to bite you in your ass if you fall for the same guy in real 😆 She is lucky Baldev trusts her cos in reality, when something like this happens, you tend to look at every action of that person with suspicion once the truth comes out..Its really really tough to place your unwavering trust on the same person once something like this happens..Veera is really lucky that Baldev doesn't mind & readily believes that she is in love 😆

That said, Gunjan belongs to a different league..Veera hasn't done anything half as nasty as Gunjan till date 😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

The problem with Veera is that she goes overboard with everything..There is no moderation..And she just refuses to see the consequences of her action 😆 Its fine to fake your love to make sure the guy dumps you but it can come back to bite you in your ass if you fall for the same guy in real 😆 She is lucky Baldev trusts her cos in reality, when something like this happens, you tend to look at every action of that person with suspicion once the truth comes out..Its really really tough to place your unwavering trust on the same person once something like this happens..Veera is really lucky that Baldev doesn't mind & readily believes that she is in love 😆

That said, Gunjan belongs to a different league..Veera hasn't done anything half as nasty as Gunjan till date 😆

@Bold : Can't agree more ! 😆 Veera is very very lucky !

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

IKR..So much fun 😆 I have always felt Veera is insensitive when it comes to everyone apart from her Veerji but selfish she is not..When has Veera 'used' Baldev ? Yeah she was prejudiced and refused to see the goodness in him thanks to their history, was insensitive when she played with his feelings but i have never really felt she uses Baldev tbh..Its always Baldev who volunteers to help Veera..That shows how unconditional & selfless his love is but i have never seen any instance where Veera deliberately takes advantage of the soft corner he has for her..Apart from the 'fake love track' of course where Veera was so focused on her object of making Baldev dump her that she just refused to see how much she was hurting him in the process..

Originally posted by: ST0207

@Bold : Can't agree more ! 😆 Veera is very very lucky !

And its unfair😆 As a kid, she had the best Veerji ever..Protective, loving & badass..And once she grows up, the same Veerji turns into a doormat who lets her do whatever she wants and she also gets this guy with utterly gorgeous eyes, who lets her get away with literally everything, goes out of the way to help her & expects nothing in return & will probably pamper her like hell once they get into a relationship 😭😆 Veera is probably the luckiest fictional character on Telly 😆

Originally posted by: monumolu

Veera is insensitive to the magnanimity of Baldev that's all. Yes I agree she cannot be termed as selfish for that!!! But being insensitive to your enemy and to the love of your life cannot be measured with the same yard stick!! That was my only worry in this call fiasco. Blame it all on the creatives they really do not have a single iota of experience in tackling human relationships and emotions!!! I see a sea of difference between the way emotions were handled in this show pre-leap and post-leap!!!

Monumolu --- accepting someone's help for herself and her family again and again and again ... and being terribly insensitive to that same person - isn't that selfishness .. According to me it is