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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hinz


I'm probably going to be the only one to disagree but i see where Ratan's coming from...Her world was shattered when she came to know of her husband's deceit and it can't be the same anymore, no matter what Sampooran tries...as for her neglecting the kids, I somehow see a sense of reality in it unlike what is usually shown on telly where the woman is so strong that she puts aside her grief and moves on in life for her childrens sake...that to me would be a tad unrealistic...its just how I feel, you are more than welcome to disagree :)



Hey Heenaben, How can attending to the basic needs like food and protection of your own child, for a woman, no matter what she is going through with, whether emotional trauma or any tragedy, be "tad unrealistic". Here we are not talking about a pot smoking hoochie mama, but of docile Ratan who has been shown to be a compassionate wife and mother. In future, she could be strong or not, but it is the immediate moment that her son and the poor infant who needs her is more critical than anything.

I love this show but I have to blame the writers for some ridiculous things being show. An eight year old child is roaming all over the village with a new born baby in his hand!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zaina5

since this ratan drama have started i was thinking to say somthing but i stayed quiet becaus most of the oeople on the forum are young chilldren who are still in school or collegde. they cant understand what the women go through in life. butnow somone had started the topic thank GOD. i always say the things first i put my self in that possision. ratan can be as angry as she can i understand it but should not neglect hwr son and the baby. she is a mom why cant she think if any thing happens to her what about her so n a baby s mother died infront of her she has no sympathy. she should not have to let the chaiji or any other person to say anything .no wife can stand her husband s disrespect from any one eles . she she should have kept it inthe house. i am not saying to forgive her husband .yes sampoorum was very immotional some men are like that . but beeing a mother she is just self cnterd and attantion seeker. sons are mostly atached towords their moms and girls with father but ravijay was more close to his dad why ? i am sory but the baby she lost was her own stipidty. only poor me me.she is a vllage lady at least they have shown some valiues and moralls in her .



Zaina5 you pointed out so accurately "she is a village lady at least they have shown some values and moralls in her" The saying goes...it takes a village to bring up a child. Why its not... it takes a city to bring up a child. Because we accept people from villages to be down to earth and compassionate.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: zeezee09



Hey Heenaben, How can attending to the basic needs like food and protection of your own child, for a woman, no matter what she is going through with, whether emotional trauma or any tragedy, be "tad unrealistic". Here we are not talking about a pot smoking hoochie mama, but of docile Ratan who has been shown to be a compassionate wife and mother. In future, she could be strong or not, but it is the immediate moment that her son and the poor infant who needs her is more critical than anything.

I love this show but I have to blame the writers for some ridiculous things being show. An eight year old child is roaming all over the village with a new born baby in his hand!



yes, we are talking of the doting wife Ratan whose life revolved around her husband and son...She is in denial obviously and at this moment nothing matters more to her than her husband's infidelity...I'd say they dragged it a bit for telly standards, though I've seen and known women who have slipped into long term depression after the initial phase of denial in similar cases...What makes it worse in Ratan's case is Sampooran's incessant attempts to share his side of the story and to top that Ranvi's attachment to the child that according to Ratan is the root cause of her broken world...

I agree on the part about them showing an 8 year old carrying that little baby around the village but perhaps thats essential to the story of the unique bond the brother shares with his sister...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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zeezee09 sory did not wan to offend anyone .i am talking about todays generation never mind india or pakistan here in uk icant see a single house where they have not expieriaced a divorse in every familly there is one divorce . because of lake of tollaarece no patience att all.thats why i siad at least they could have shown sum positive points of ratan .towards her house and kids responsibilities.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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LOL it seems like your post compelled the writers to clarify their stance in the latest TB article as well😆

I understand their INTENTION in showing Ratan so shattered that she is not able to rise above that...she is but human, I get it...but they freakin DRAG things so much that I start to lose sympathy.

You can't make the argument that this is "reality"...do we SERIOUSLY want to sit here and watch MONTHS of Ratan sitting in her room in those same clothes and crying? There is a reason this is fiction...if this was a reality show then sure by all means go ahead and show "1 day" in real time...but here "1 day" is stretched out to TEN days worth of epis...and that's ridiculous.


They are basically taking creative liberties...but this is quite far-fetched...to show a father literally ABANDONING his little son and his shattered/out of her mind wife...can parents really walk away from their children so easily no matter what their personal pain? That's a stretch.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Im not a mother yet but as a wife i love my husband more than anything. And i can forgive his each n every mistake. His mistakes are not bigger my love. In serial, that woman is gone whats the point of behaving like this. Sampoorna is sorry for everything but Ratan is behaving like child now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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CV's wanted to show the point that RV will take complete care of Veera alone ... but in order to achieve this ... they are showing the parents to be totally irresponcible ... which is irritating

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ranvi's father and mother annoyed me a lot. How could they do this to ranvi ? Putting all the responsibilities on his shoulders - my ___ ! 😡
Edited by marylin - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree. i can't relate to her pain n i dun know how any woman will react in this situation but yes, any mother will at least take care of her child and her unborn...what's the fault of that little girl ? at least ppl. should be sympathetic towards her instead of calling her "paap" ..how can anyone be so heartless towards her?

secondly Ratan should have at least "listen" to Sampooran...he's a human being too and he can make mistakes..she acted very harsh..Ratan treated her husband like God..i agree, so many years of trust and love was shattered, but for the sake of that love, at least hear his side of the story...if she took some time and took charge of the situation, think about it, her family life wouldn't have got ruined...if , after years of painful life, she gets to know that her husband was innocent then? will those years come back which she spoiled by herself?

Sampooran shouldn't have left his family like this either...at least think about his children and wife...that's highly irresponsible behavior...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't know how many of you are married,a mother.i am.i've been married for 11 years,have 3 beautiful children.
If tomorrow I was in Ratans shoes(god forbid!),I don't know,maybe I would react the same way.
When you have been married for so long,had the perfect love & suddenly your life is shattered this way,it's only normal to feel what ratan is feeling.its such a big betrayal.the hurt,pain,betrayal,& humiliation she feels is normal.and I think many of you forget that shes pregnant therefor hormonal.i know what that's like!
There are some boundaries in a relationship that one just cannot cross against the other.this is the ultimate betrayal a husband can commit.not only does ratan know that her husband has been with another women,he has a child with that women,a child she so badly wanted after her son.That has to hurt.
Coming to her being irresponsible towards her son,well in time her maternal instinct will kick in,just right now she's wounded.
She knows that the child is there in her home so she's finding it hard to come out of her room,to face that child who reminds her of her pain.
It's a good story and I'm enjoying it.im looking forward to seeing the story unfold on a beautiful relationship of a brother and sister.
Sorry for going on and on,just giving my point of view.

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