A public showdown/insult or whatever

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello Guys, i am very active in this forum but generally do not make posts but today felt like making one.
Something happened today which is no doubt a debatable issue and everyone will have different opinion to it. Yes i am talking about Gayatri revealing Ranaji and her relation in front of everyone.

Before coming to points, i will say Gayatri was in a way forced to do that. She is perhaps not Swarna who will take all the shit in name of maintaining royalty and thats may be because she belongs to a normal family and she doesnt have it in her blood to fake around in front of everyone for the sake of "fake Shaan".

Coming to point.
So Gayatri tried to reason out with Ranaji in private but Ranaji believes what he believes without giving a single chance to her, without listening to her side of story. Leave aside as a husband that doesnt suit him as a king too.
Diverting a bit from the purpose of my post, didn't Ranaji just lie to Gayatri that Sulakshna has no role in why he hates her? Sulakshna might not be the only or first reason but she is surely his trigger point to burst on Gayatri. So did he just lie to gayatri in face? Now since he said that, will he accept Gayatri full heartedly after coming to know that Gayatri is innocent? Gayatri cleared she doesnt want Sulakshna's place but she deserves the love. Will Ranaji give her that or will come up with another excuse, once his misunderstanding gets cleared? That is something i m waiting to see.

Ok Coming back to my point.

Gayatri gave fore warning to RM but still instead of doing anything abt it, she went ahead with ceremony even called outsiders (if there were any). What does this mean? She expect Gayatri to behave like a doormat even after knowing everything?
So how is she different from BRM? She keep giving back to BRM that my saas is not good. Is RM herself any good?
(this was first reason for me to side with Gayatri)

Gayatri got a bit late for ceremony. No one bothered to inquire if everything is alright. BRM started with her taunts (anyways who cares 😆) But Ranaji was also not behind. He just accused his wife/Queen openly n that too in her absence. For once Ranaji can't u just stop assuming things on ur own? Why did i get the feel that Ranaji was just waiting to say that?
(So if Ranaji can be vocal abt alleging Rani openly, why can't Rani)

If no one cares abt Gayatri's feelings why shall she let herself being played at their hands? I for one dont want another Swarna in palace.
Ranaji did not listen to Gayatri in private when she was trying to put her point forth. But then he comes there in ceremony as a gentleman husband and also expect Gayatri to behave like one after insulting her in private. Are u serious Ranaji?

She already told RM that she is not going to lie in front of God as for her it is not just a Rasam but has deep meanings, which clearly RM ignored. (It might look a bit filmy but in reality too such ppl exist) So Royals do all the rasams perhaps just for show-off but Gayatri is different. And looks like for Ranaji only sindoor ceremony has significance as he refused to do it apart from that he is ready to perform any Rasam which a husband needs to do

After her refusing to give in for ceremony (which obviously makes no sense after getting insulted by Ranaji n when there is no husband-wife relation between them), when Gayatri passes the ball in Ranaji's court, what he just did; he dropped the ring in front of everyone. Cool Ranaji. Ranaji must have thought "Hissab Barabar Raniji" But Ranaji i dont think Rani gives a damn for now 😉 Also Ranaji she didn't do this with any wrong intention. So for Gayatri whats the point of faking around when she has no respect in her own husband's eyes. I feel for u Gayatri


So after all this, some of us (including me) might argue that Gayatri could have done all this discretely. But how? She informed RM beforehand but still Royals went ahead with ceremony. So if Gayatri would have given it just a pass, then also in eyes of praja Gayatri would have been wrong as Ranaji didn't waste an iota of time to put the blame on Gayatri in front of everyone.
If Gayatri had performed that Rasam of Bitchia as an obligation, leaving her objections aside then i would have been one of the front runner to call her doormat. Once the ceremony is done, who in palace would have cared for her objections later on.

So yeah all in all i side with Gayatri. Certain things may sound bit impractical but then IMO what RM n Ranaji did was also impractical.

Let me just mention the Hypocrite BRM, she is the same person who told Ranaji to not go for pagphere as rituals are not important for a King, the same lady is today giving lecture to Rani for not following rituals. BRM get it straight the girl whom u called "Cow" will now show she is a "Hurt Tigress" which is even more dangerous than normal Tigress.

"Ranaji rasme nibhana jaante hai, par rishte aur kasme nahi" Bang on Gayatri 👏 Now it is time for Ranaji to get the reality check. He needs to see he is not the only person who can have emotions and who gets hurt. How many more incidents Ranaji needs to realize that a girl whom he thinks tricked him into this marriage just to become Queen of Amerkot, will not behave like this?

So Royals take it as an insult or an eye opener or whatever but Gayatri showed she is not going to dance on their tunes all the time 👍🏼

Gayatri gave these Royals the taste of their medicine. And if it is about losing reputation in public then just watch out peeps Gayatri will show everyone how to win the hearts of people of Amerkot. She has no Royal blood and doesnt know yet to fake around to maintain "fake shaan" but my belief is she surely knows to win hearts with honesty and innocence.

I rest my case. My intension was not to prove anyone wrong but just to give some points which made me favour Gayatri today even if what she did was not upto mark from Royal POV or Queen POV. Yes today i am siding with Gayatri as human first than Gayatri as Queen.

P.S. Any kind of views are welcomed 😊




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sam good that you made this post. This point is discussed all over the forum,on many threads,we can probably have a focused discussion here.
What is good for the goose should be good for the gander. When spoilers about RNJ publicly humiliating Gaythri came,he got the flak, now when G has gone done that i won't support her act.


It's not becoming of a Queen or even a newly married woman,who hasn't given up on the relationship.
She could have either not turn up at the ceremony like she told, RM or refused to accept the ring discreetly.How?Like @SSS or is it @Jazzy, said she could have stomped on his hand& stopped him from doing. Or she could have pretended to help and return the ring,saying it doesn't fit or something.
She didn't act like a Queen or even a matured educated woman,she has been shown, she was tactless,let her emotions rule her.It seemed too childish too to me.Oh Ranaji,u wouldn't give me the sindhoor?Keep your damned toe-ring to yourself.

I won't blame RNJ,if he thinks she cunningly put him on the spot by bringing up the wife-husband relationship out in the open.
In a hurry, come back later😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Superb post dear Sam and i am happy to see your post..👏
ok i am giving my take about this all..and not defending any char. but i am writing what i feel like..so no offense..and also i am trying to figure out what makers want to show..😳

firstly Gayatri..i thought she did right..and ya agree she was somewhere forced to do that..
she already warned RM that she can't say lies ..and they can't listen the truth..
she didn't came for ritual at first..but when she came and when it looked like ok she will do the rasam..than also she was initially may be ready to do it coz of sake of doing it as RM also advised her to not do anything which will cause harm to her father's respect and Ameerkot's honour..and now she is queen but but she didn't do it and i feel that she finally come to conclusion that it will all be fake if she do it and she took decision when Rajpurohit ji explained the rasam and its importance..and also when ladies there saying that the heir must come now..so she knew that if not now after words these ppl might not start blaming her for not bringing heir as no body knows Ranaji's and her truth properly..so i guess she thought its better to told the truth than to hide it and do the rasam..may be it look like she did wrong as a queen but as a heart broken girl and wife she did right..and i don't think there were praja there..as didn't they said "ghar walo k saamne" i am not sure praja was there..and if so than also Ranaji also did many things in front of many ppl..so its fine with me..if she refused it..i loved it.brave girl..she is not the one who can dance to their tunes..👍🏼

Now coming to Ranaji; may be i sound different..but i am saying form the show POV.that aren't they trying to show that most of the kings were like that..they do what they want ..and make their own decisions every time..as they think they have the right to do this ..and to show Ranaji's transformation ..they have to show his wrong side also just like they have shown Gayatri when she was dreaming all the time..and took all wrong signals ..but now she changed ..but ya he must have logic behind saying that he don't hate her coz of Sona..as when he will know the truth..he will have to answer Gayatri now what?me too waiting to see that..and also redemption of Ranaji..😛


so i am certainly not supporting Ranaji but i am watching it as a girl's( who now is a queen) story who is capable of changing king and his thinking and infact all royals thinking..as well..so ya this time Ranaji is on wrong side but this is the concept of show to show her journey through all ups and downs..and this is not bad ..if she told truth ..and BRM thinks that she did wrong than she will show to all that she will win the hearts of praja too..praja also wants an honest Queen than fake ones.😃



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Posted: 10 years ago
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What's the point of having a Flawed Royalty Facade to pose "We are perfect dynasty of Ameerkot" when u r a bunch of hypocrites in debt to the richest money-lender🤔

Reputation !!! excuse me isn't under them peasants n farmers are still burdened under taxation all courtesy to the Royals in alliance with the Brits🤔

Exemplifying two stances of erred judgment of Royal Highness of Ameerkot sorry to say from BRM to Rana till now has done nothing to alleviate pain of the poor albeit one stray case where Ranaji visits that soldier's village to solve water issues n refusing Wilky to increase cess on farmers

These are so called " Royals"

Coming back to Ranaji lying 😆 I expected that I'll still wait for a dozen of lame excuses coming from him😉

As for Gayatri like u m on her side ; to begin with she refused to lie in front of God to keep up with a ritual that starting from Rajmata to Badi Rani Maa knows is futile ; we all know that Ranaji will accept NO ONE as his wife other than su so y all this farce ? y the make-belief charade of all is hunky dory??

maybe the Royals are used to such hypocrisy where doing something even if they don't believe in is normal well not in case of Gayatri n lastly if acting like how Ranaji did on his wedding night makes him " human" ; then stating the REALITY of their relation out in front of family makes Gayatri a "Heart Broken human" also

I rest my case.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Sam good that you made this post. This point is discussed all over the forum,on many threads,we can probably have a focused discussion here.

What is good for the goose should be good for the gander. When spoilers about RNJ publicly humiliating Gaythri came,he got the flak, now when G has gone done that i won't support her act.


It's not becoming of a Queen or even a newly married woman,who hasn't given up on the relationship.
She could have either not turn up at the ceremony like she told, RM or refused to accept the ring discreetly.How?Like @SSS or is it @Jazzy, said she could have stomped on his hand& stopped him from doing. Or she could have pretended to help and return the ring,saying it doesn't fit or something.
She didn't act like a Queen or even a matured educated woman,she has been shown, she was tactless,let her emotions rule her.It seemed too childish too to me.Oh Ranaji,u wouldn't give me the sindhoor?Keep your damned toe-ring to yourself.

I won't blame RNJ,if he thinks she cunningly put him on the spot by bringing up the wife-husband relationship out in the open.
In a hurry, come back later😆


Abt spoiler yes many were not happy abt it. Honestly i was also not much happy the way things were mentioned in spoiler but still i refrained from commenting on it bcoz for me what matters more is how the things panned out. Had it been Ranaji who disclosed this in front of everyone but with a proper reason n not just to show the world, i would not have said anything abt it.

So for me Gayatri's behaviour made sense bcoz of what all happened as i have already mentioned in post.

Had she stopped Ranaji from doing it by holding his hand that would have also been visible to all.
And Pretending to wear the ring means in front of GOD and everyone she accepts to whatever that Rasam means which was already denied by her as she said i m not going to lie in front of God which clearly RM ignored. ( Yeah it looks bit filmy but Gayatri is like that only n u will find such ppl in reality too)

I already said i m favoring Gayatri as human more than Gayatri as Queen. She is honest in what she is doing unlike Ranaji who is faking around.
Ranaji didn't put the sindoor n said i will never put it. So can Ranaji explain me why he is doing other rasams? According to him only putting sindoor in maang has significance/meaning, all other rasams are useless? Isn't he playing with emotions of a girl? Ok he thinks Gayatri is the culprit but then where is Ranaji's chivalry?
Sorry but Ranaji's activities comes across as more childish to me.

I would say if this incident has started making Ranaji think, then good, he needs to start thinking (rationally). I know since every serial loves to spice up things, so Ranaji will surely take it as negative instead of thinking that a girl whom he thinks married just to get title of Queen will not behave like this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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..I I don't want Gaythri to dance for the tunes of so called Royals either. I loved it how Gaythri demanded answers about their marriage from RM and RNG.I loved it how she confronted RNJ and asked him why he hates her. I loved it how maturely she behaved for saying that she respects RNJ's love for his late wife.. May be I was loving her too much and expecting her to be mature and dignified so how she revealed their private matter in public, made me upset. I don't know about others but it definitely made me felt that it was not really needed to reveal it like that..

I really don't think if G hadn't revealed her private life it would have made her any hypocrite..

PS: I'm not taking Royal's side, what I'm feeling for them is entirely another story!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have unres my post Sam.😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24



Oh Ranaji,u wouldn't give me the sindhoor?Keep your damned toe-ring to yourself.
^^ This cracked me up😆 Are you making fun out of them.. ? I read somewhere that you're saying about RNJ too about Suhagrat.. " Mum.. my new queen is wearing my ex's lehanang , I'll go to dad" ..something like this😆.. I've to agree with you on this, sometimes they're behaving like kids..😛


I won't blame RNJ,if he thinks she cunningly put him on the spot by bringing up the wife-husband relationship out in the open. Of course that's what he thinks.. Ever since he came to know that G lied him about her father, he was thinking that she is a liar and a manipulator so he just made up his mind and conceiving worst assumptions out of things related to her.. But this man really needs to stop assuming and jumping into conclusions...

Edited by .SSSS. - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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First post... Bang on post... Awesome Sam!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great post. I completely agree with you.

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