Hello Guys, i am very active in this forum but generally do not make posts but today felt like making one.Something happened today which is no doubt a debatable issue and everyone will have different opinion to it. Yes i am talking about Gayatri revealing Ranaji and her relation in front of everyone.
Before coming to points, i will say Gayatri was in a way forced to do that. She is perhaps not Swarna who will take all the shit in name of maintaining royalty and thats may be because she belongs to a normal family and she doesnt have it in her blood to fake around in front of everyone for the sake of "fake Shaan".
Coming to point.
So Gayatri tried to reason out with Ranaji in private but Ranaji believes what he believes without giving a single chance to her, without listening to her side of story. Leave aside as a husband that doesnt suit him as a king too.
Diverting a bit from the purpose of my post, didn't Ranaji just lie to Gayatri that Sulakshna has no role in why he hates her? Sulakshna might not be the only or first reason but she is surely his trigger point to burst on Gayatri. So did he just lie to gayatri in face? Now since he said that, will he accept Gayatri full heartedly after coming to know that Gayatri is innocent? Gayatri cleared she doesnt want Sulakshna's place but she deserves the love. Will Ranaji give her that or will come up with another excuse, once his misunderstanding gets cleared? That is something i m waiting to see.
Ok Coming back to my point.
Gayatri gave fore warning to RM but still instead of doing anything abt it, she went ahead with ceremony even called outsiders (if there were any). What does this mean? She expect Gayatri to behave like a doormat even after knowing everything?
So how is she different from BRM? She keep giving back to BRM that my saas is not good. Is RM herself any good?
(this was first reason for me to side with Gayatri)
Gayatri got a bit late for ceremony. No one bothered to inquire if everything is alright. BRM started with her taunts (anyways who cares 😆) But Ranaji was also not behind. He just accused his wife/Queen openly n that too in her absence. For once Ranaji can't u just stop assuming things on ur own? Why did i get the feel that Ranaji was just waiting to say that?
(So if Ranaji can be vocal abt alleging Rani openly, why can't Rani)
If no one cares abt Gayatri's feelings why shall she let herself being played at their hands? I for one dont want another Swarna in palace.
Ranaji did not listen to Gayatri in private when she was trying to put her point forth. But then he comes there in ceremony as a gentleman husband and also expect Gayatri to behave like one after insulting her in private. Are u serious Ranaji?
She already told RM that she is not going to lie in front of God as for her it is not just a Rasam but has deep meanings, which clearly RM ignored. (It might look a bit filmy but in reality too such ppl exist) So Royals do all the rasams perhaps just for show-off but Gayatri is different. And looks like for Ranaji only sindoor ceremony has significance as he refused to do it apart from that he is ready to perform any Rasam which a husband needs to do
After her refusing to give in for ceremony (which obviously makes no sense after getting insulted by Ranaji n when there is no husband-wife relation between them), when Gayatri passes the ball in Ranaji's court, what he just did; he dropped the ring in front of everyone. Cool Ranaji. Ranaji must have thought "Hissab Barabar Raniji" But Ranaji i dont think Rani gives a damn for now 😉 Also Ranaji she didn't do this with any wrong intention. So for Gayatri whats the point of faking around when she has no respect in her own husband's eyes. I feel for u Gayatri
So after all this, some of us (including me) might argue that Gayatri could have done all this discretely. But how? She informed RM beforehand but still Royals went ahead with ceremony. So if Gayatri would have given it just a pass, then also in eyes of praja Gayatri would have been wrong as Ranaji didn't waste an iota of time to put the blame on Gayatri in front of everyone.
If Gayatri had performed that Rasam of Bitchia as an obligation, leaving her objections aside then i would have been one of the front runner to call her doormat. Once the ceremony is done, who in palace would have cared for her objections later on.
So yeah all in all i side with Gayatri. Certain things may sound bit impractical but then IMO what RM n Ranaji did was also impractical.
Let me just mention the Hypocrite BRM, she is the same person who told Ranaji to not go for pagphere as rituals are not important for a King, the same lady is today giving lecture to Rani for not following rituals. BRM get it straight the girl whom u called "Cow" will now show she is a "Hurt Tigress" which is even more dangerous than normal Tigress.
"Ranaji rasme nibhana jaante hai, par rishte aur kasme nahi" Bang on Gayatri 👏 Now it is time for Ranaji to get the reality check. He needs to see he is not the only person who can have emotions and who gets hurt. How many more incidents Ranaji needs to realize that a girl whom he thinks tricked him into this marriage just to become Queen of Amerkot, will not behave like this?
So Royals take it as an insult or an eye opener or whatever but Gayatri showed she is not going to dance on their tunes all the time 👍🏼
Gayatri gave these Royals the taste of their medicine. And if it is about losing reputation in public then just watch out peeps Gayatri will show everyone how to win the hearts of people of Amerkot. She has no Royal blood and doesnt know yet to fake around to maintain "fake shaan" but my belief is she surely knows to win hearts with honesty and innocence.
I rest my case. My intension was not to prove anyone wrong but just to give some points which made me favour Gayatri today even if what she did was not upto mark from Royal POV or Queen POV. Yes today i am siding with Gayatri as human first than Gayatri as Queen.
P.S. Any kind of views are welcomed 😊
Edited by sam_DDzfan - 10 years ago