#AndhereSeDartaHoonMainMaa- Gayatri&Damyanti - Page 3

Hey Jules!

That where Damini and Gayatri relationship stands. Damini wants the best for her daughter but her perception of what is right for her daughter is colored by the misogynistic times. There if you had a young unwed daughter it meant there was something wrong with her. Sitting at home in your parents house was looked down upon. There was no use of Gayatri's intelligence or talent as her father talked about. (Again her father just spoke of them. I would like this intellect or talents to be explored further) Even today if a girl isn't married she is of no good. Her primary job is to procreate or preferably produce a male heir. She serves no other purpose. Even today father's and mother's get their daughter's marriage without an effort to educate them. Because their perception of what is right, or wrong or what is even right for their child is colored by the society and the times.

To her Gayatri's image in society matters. Gayatri is nurturing dreams which to her seem impossible. Imagine if Gayatri had gone to pursue Ranaji that night in her drunken state and people had witnessed it. Gayatri would have been labeled as a "giri hui larki." Everyone in the kingdom would spit on her. Of course due to the double standards no one would have questions a 56 year old hag wanting a young virgin for his pleasure along with a dowry. Sad state of affairs.

Beautifully written ! Indeed!

Originally posted by: BrainEaterOwl

He didn't exactly demanded he wanted a Virgin wife but yes he did ask if she has any 'flaws' or anything to which the pandit replies Gayatri is a "unchuva pushpa" as in untouched flower and that word and that buddha's lust filled eyes are something I'm not able to take out of my head try as much I may.

Anyway I'm glad Gayatri didn't take the injustice happening with her by her own family and pleaded her father to rethink over the alliance. At least she has the guts to speak for herself when she knows she is right.

And true, Damyanti is only a mother and she can never be a friend to Gayatri cos for me she failed to protect her own daughter today.

Originally posted by: RisingPhoenix.

Damayanti what can i told about her wrost mother i have ever scene ...was this alliance is last and finally for young 21 gayatri ...she even made govind seth character assination for a moment till Gayatri spoke up and begged infront of her father ... i Liked gayatri felt bed for her situation and DD Was good ...

Originally posted by: ..neelanjana

Brilliant post ! 👍🏼
Superbly written !! 👏

Originally posted by: sadumaneet

honestly i was so repelled by start of epi that i just couldn't bring myself watch complete epi specially after watching so many heart warming scenes of Gayatri with her mother and father i found it too painful to watch.. iam oversensitive about all this topics... iam hating CV's for pulling out such horrendous stunt in the name of drama.. iam hating every ounce of it...

Originally posted by: grumpydwarf

Hey Jules!

Relationships in those times and these time aren't very simple and coherent. They are complex. I understand what her mother is doing is terribly wrong. In fact disgusting and in no way am I showing her any sympathy or condoning it. But sometimes our parents and us are confused on what is right for the children. For an example, I suffer form anxiety and ADHD. The less educated sectors of Indian society still view that as a serious mental disorder. It means their is something seriously wrong with you. They dont like me discussing what is wrong with me infront of their Indian friends. In fact they just want me to fight it on my own without paying much attention to it.

That where Damini and Gayatri relationship stands. Damini wants the best for her daughter but her perception of what is right for her daughter is colored by the misogynistic times. There if you had a young unwed daughter it meant there was something wrong with her. Sitting at home in your parents house was looked down upon. There was no use of Gayatri's intelligence or talent as her father talked about. (Again her father just spoke of them. I would like this intellect or talents to be explored further) Even today if a girl isn't married she is of no good. Her primary job is to procreate or preferably produce a male heir. She serves no other purpose. Even today father's and mother's get their daughter's marriage without an effort to educate them. Because their perception of what is right, or wrong or what is even right is colored by the society and the times.

To her Gayatri's image in society matters. Gayatri is nurturing dreams which to her seem impossible. Imagine if Gayatri had gone to pursue Ranaji that night in her drunken state and people had witnessed it. Gayatri would have been labeled as a "giri hui larki." Everyone in the kingdom would spit on her. Of course due to the double standards no one would have questions a 56 year old hag wanting a young virgin for his pleasure along with a dowry. Sad state of affairs.

Beautifully written ! Indeed!

Originally posted by: ManwaLaage

i was prepared for tonight episode ...wrost can expect from gayatri's mom but her dad dissapointed me first time and thank god gayu stand for herself small merci ...good analysis do make post here everyday

Originally posted by: _innocent_

Aree yaar these are needed to progress the story and acquire the all important TRPS! I know its annoying and regressive but at the same time it enables the actors to explore a different facet of their skills. I was disappointed with Gayatri's father tonight as I felt what was shown tonight was not in line with his character and that was saddening as he always stated he loved Gayatri and would do anything for her.

Gayatri's mother is a lady of regressive mindset predominately because of the way she was brought up. But its sad to see her behave the way she has been lately as it did appear to the audience that deep down she felt for her daughter.