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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: BrainEaterOwl

Not only Damyanti but I'm also very disappointed in Govind Seth's character today. The guy didn't open his mouth till Gayatri begged to him to not marry her off the old man.

I've already released all my frustration on FB so I won't say much here. But Jules, very well written post. Specially the part that it was Damyanti who carried Gayatri in her womb for 9 months and today she was ready to marry her daughter off to a man whose age is not only similar to the age of Govind Seth but also who stammers, got a dowry of whopping 11 lacs and also wanted his bride to be very perfect and a Virgin.

#LMAO When he said he wanted a virgin wife, I could not stop laughing. The way he was behaving, anyone with an ounce of common sense would have refused him point blank for their daughter's hand! But I guess Govind Seth was under his wife's oath but still that does not excuse his behavior. He is one of the best characters in the show and yet the day of his butchering has began.

I hope this teaches Gayatri a lesson never to open up to her mother as she does not understand anything.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And ur post is really superb. A very heart touching song u chose to start with 👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Flawed-Beauty

Jules ! You have started this post with apt song for Gayatri. It really suits her situation.

Gayatri eyes were really seeking answers what gruesome mistake she has done ?? Why she is getting punish and sacrificed by her own mother ??
I agree with the point Girls used to get marry with older man if any bad omen was attached with her. But I really didn't understand logic behind Gayatri's wedding ? Gayatri belongs to affluent family where they can have young boy for Gayatri because any one agrees to marry with Gayatri after having huge dowry then why they are going with 56 yrs old damodar. Agar Gayatri gareeb hoti it would look logical but after getting birth in rich family she is treating like trash by her family.

It does indeed! Gayatri has always been there for her mother! Her mother mentioned her breaking someone's head because they had insulted her mother, this shows the amazing bond these two share but alas Damyanti is adamant in ruining that. I guess Gayatri was shown the mirror of, no matter how much love you were shown as a girl in that era, life still was no different. As a girl you were still curtailed to a simple yes or no and even the freedom to dream was considered a sin.

Indeed they could have married her to someone younger but I guess her mother wanted this 'burden' off of her hands ASAP!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

I understand mother worries about her daughter not getting married as in that era. woman were not independent at that time to take care of themselves and depend upon their parents or brothers here damanyati says what will happen to her daughter if anything happens to them (i mean gayatri parents) who will take care of her .But on one side she is ready to marry her daughter to old man of 56 who is father age lol whereas gayatri is only 21 does the woman hv any brains the old man is same age that of his father so anything can happen to old man as he is not going to be hetting younger after his marriage to gaytri if he will die who will take care gaytri.she wants gaytri to hv her own home where she has not to depend on her bhabis and bhais and for that she is ready to make her daughter mother of two adults who r even oldr than gayatri herself so before maariage gayu is working like mate for her sisterinlaws and after marriage she will babysit two baachas who r old enough ftom her .So what security this marriage will this marriage will going to bring for gayu yeh vahi baat hui aasman se tapke khajoor k pade pe aatke .Dayamati is really dumb mother she is just want to get her daughter married bus without thinking that this marriage will make her daughter life more worse And person is asking for dowry lol this show hw secure person is finacially too so no finicial security for gayu from this marriage

I dont think Damyanti is worried about what the future (security) holds for Gayatri post this marriage as she knows once this burden is taken off her hands, she will no longer be a worry for them and their family's reputation! She had the audacity to call her own daughter 'abhagan'! Saach mein yaar, my jaw dropped when that was said. Like if she her biological mother or step mother? She has punished her daughter, because her daughter felt confident enough to share her truest feelings with her. That is disturbing. Plus did she think, her daughter might want to experience motherhood? Sending her to a 56 year old whose stamina no longer exists (no wonder first biwi died)? How torturous😆!

Anyways, Gayatri should have been asked to jump off a well 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Damayanti what can i told about her wrost mother i have ever scene ...was this alliance is last and finally for young 21 gayatri ...she even made govind seth character assination for a moment till Gayatri spoke up and begged infront of her father ... i Liked gayatri felt bed for her situation and DD Was good ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

#LMAO When he said he wanted a virgin wife, I could not stop laughing. The way he was behaving, anyone with an ounce of common sense would have refused him point blank for their daughter's hand! But I guess Govind Seth was under his wife's oath but still that does not excuse his behavior. He is one of the best characters in the show and yet the day of his butchering has began.

I hope this teaches Gayatri a lesson never to open up to her mother as she does not understand anything.


He didn't exactly demanded he wanted a Virgin wife but yes he did ask if she has any 'flaws' or anything to which the pandit replies Gayatri is a "unchuva pushpa" as in untouched flower and that word and that buddha's lust filled eyes are something I'm not able to take out of my head try as much I may.

Anyway I'm glad Gayatri didn't take the injustice happening with her by her own family and pleaded her father to rethink over the alliance. At least she has the guts to speak for herself when she knows she is right.


And true, Damyanti is only a mother and she can never be a friend to Gayatri cos for me she failed to protect her own daughter today.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam_DDzfan

Gayatri's mother cares for her but then she is a typical mother of 1940s.
She cares for Gayu that she cant see her bhabhis taunting her or society mocking her.
But the question comes what kind of love is this when u cant see that u urself pushing ur daughter in hell.
This was bitter truth of our society back then & her mother is behaving typical way.

But CVs disappointing me more on GovindSeth's front, and that is bcoz his character was shown very progressive till now. But since this is a show, i guess they have to do such things to move story forward.

But does she care for her though? Marrying her to someone thrice her age who was clearly not worth her daughter in order to satisfy her own ego and to prove herself right to Gayatri ie a commoner especially a girl has no right to dream big. These appear to be the only reason she has forced this shaadi ka proposal upon Gayatri's throat.

I know Govind Seth wore his biwi's sari tonight!😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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honestly i was so repelled by start of epi that i just couldn't bring myself watch complete epi specially after watching so many heart warming scenes of Gayatri with her mother and father i found it too painful to watch.. iam oversensitive about all this topics... iam hating CV's for pulling out such horrendous stunt in the name of drama.. iam hating every ounce of it...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: BrainEaterOwl

Though I must applaud the makers of the show for showing the whole fixing of the alliance with such authenticity. Not only in 1945 but even today people fear what society might think and act according to it.

Precisely! And plus the age range they showed today was something that was happening in that era so that was a concept well explored, I felt!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam_DDzfan

And ur post is really superb. A very heart touching song u chose to start with 👏

Cheers!😳

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