No respect!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: merrydock

Parents or mostly mothers are suppose to be like god. But Pahki misfortune was to take brith in the house of the Kapoors. though her father loves her, her mother cares two hoots about her. so i dont blame Pakhi for not respecting her mother Neetu. Neetu only ambition is to get Pakhi divorced so the she can get her bangla and property back. she does not care what pakhi is feeling.

it would have been a totally different story if Pakhi had never been in love with raghav. and their relationship was only friendship. Pakhi knew that Raghav didnt love her even before marriage. but she too didnt know that he loved Kalpi. but Raghav knew Pakhi loved him but he used her to take revenge on her parents. its not wrong for a wife to want her husband's love. and it must hurt tirabely to know that her husband who she loves, is in love with another. it is but natural for Pakhi to hate Kalpi.

and in a way Pakhi is right, when Kalpi knew that rahgav was now married how could allow raghav to put sindoor in her mangh. Kalpi crossed the line of morality by accepting another womans husband as her husband. all kalpi does is moon and pine over raghav who is somebody else husband does she have no self respect?

love gives a person hope and strength. if Raghav love for kalpi was true he would have refused to marry Pakhi. that fact that he choose his vengeance over kalpi love, states exectly how strong his love for kalip is.

and what did Kalpi think Pakhi would do, quietly give raghav a divorce and crawl under a stone to die. pakhi is right in the eyes of society she is raghav wife. and when this society comes to know about kalpi, she would only be seen as the other woman. a southan, a mistress.

even if Pakhi and raghav married in court, that marriage too be blessed by god. as a court is a temple of justice. and even there couple stands in front of a magistrate and with god as their witness sign the marriage deed that proclaims them husband and wife.

this marriage is completely true and legal and is not any less then if the marriage took place in a temple with baapha looking over them

so kalpi cannot claim that her marriage is the true marriage and not Pakhi's

besides this sends a very negative message to the society. tommorow men who married their wifes in court will claim that the marriage is not blessed by god. and as he has fallen in love with another and married her in a temple in secret, gives his a ticket to leave his wife at his own convience.

Raghav and Kalpi have made marriage a joke. and are trying to proclaim to the world that only love is greater then society,law,moral values, that human lives can be played with for their own covience. people may think its cute and love conquers all. and it would have if Raghav has married Kalpi against his mothers wishes and her need for revenge. but then love failed and now Ragha and Kalpi relationship is simply shameful.

can Kalpi stand in front of the world and tell everybody that she is Raghav wife. can she with every right put sindoor in her mang and walk openly as a married woman. can she tell her chawl, and community that the man who is her milk sisters husband is also her husband. and how many people think the society and community will accept it and congratulate her.

infact all she and her family will have to face is shame.

i know a lot of ragna fans will hate me. but that fine. love conquers all only when one is completely right, and right decisions were taken at the right time. and when no one elses life or future is at stake.

On the first night of so called marriage! Because I still believe marriage is fake! Rags td Paaki that he married her only for revenge! What is a marriage when it's based on revenge? And you
Know that the one you love loves someone else?! And a temple of justice?! A temple is a place of god and worship! How can a courtroom compare to that?! A marriage is build on love trust and faith something Paaki and raghav doesn't have in common! How can their marriage be true when it's based on one side and revenge?! Paaki doesn't even know what true love really is! If she had know she wouldn't have left rags without giving him his meds yesterday! Nothing is more important than love and care for the person you claim to love when they are not well! What matters most is in true love is care first of all, something Paaki don't have!! When it comes to society all they can do is talk and for how long we don't know! We don't live to plz society! We love to plz ourselves! And society has to respect that! Matter not to me what society thinks!! And what matters most in a marriage? It's the love,trust, care and support given to one another envolved! Paaki will never get that because the feeling is not mutual!! Kalpi and raghav both have faith and trust in their god and that's stronger than any other bound! So no matter what happens true believers will always succeed in their efforts!! And we see that raghav and Kalpi are gonna face challenges in their life to prove that their marriage is genuine and I'm sure they both will succeed!!

Originally posted by: merrydock

Parents or mostly mothers are suppose to be like god. But Pahki misfortune was to take brith in the house of the Kapoors. though her father loves her, her mother cares two hoots about her. so i dont blame Pakhi for not respecting her mother Neetu. Neetu only ambition is to get Pakhi divorced so the she can get her bangla and property back. she does not care what pakhi is feeling.

it would have been a totally different story if Pakhi had never been in love with raghav. and their relationship was only friendship. Pakhi knew that Raghav didnt love her even before marriage. but she too didnt know that he loved Kalpi. but Raghav knew Pakhi loved him but he used her to take revenge on her parents. its not wrong for a wife to want her husband's love. and it must hurt tirabely to know that her husband who she loves, is in love with another. it is but natural for Pakhi to hate Kalpi.

and in a way Pakhi is right, when Kalpi knew that rahgav was now married how could allow raghav to put sindoor in her mangh. Kalpi crossed the line of morality by accepting another womans husband as her husband. all kalpi does is moon and pine over raghav who is somebody else husband does she have no self respect?

love gives a person hope and strength. if Raghav love for kalpi was true he would have refused to marry Pakhi. that fact that he choose his vengeance over kalpi love, states exectly how strong his love for kalip is.

and what did Kalpi think Pakhi would do, quietly give raghav a divorce and crawl under a stone to die. pakhi is right in the eyes of society she is raghav wife. and when this society comes to know about kalpi, she would only be seen as the other woman. a southan, a mistress.

even if Pakhi and raghav married in court, that marriage too be blessed by god. as a court is a temple of justice. and even there couple stands in front of a magistrate and with god as their witness sign the marriage deed that proclaims them husband and wife.

this marriage is completely true and legal and is not any less then if the marriage took place in a temple with baapha looking over them

so kalpi cannot claim that her marriage is the true marriage and not Pakhi's

besides this sends a very negative message to the society. tommorow men who married their wifes in court will claim that the marriage is not blessed by god. and as he has fallen in love with another and married her in a temple in secret, gives his a ticket to leave his wife at his own convience.

Raghav and Kalpi have made marriage a joke. and are trying to proclaim to the world that only love is greater then society,law,moral values, that human lives can be played with for their own covience. people may think its cute and love conquers all. and it would have if Raghav has married Kalpi against his mothers wishes and her need for revenge. but then love failed and now Ragha and Kalpi relationship is simply shameful.

can Kalpi stand in front of the world and tell everybody that she is Raghav wife. can she with every right put sindoor in her mang and walk openly as a married woman. can she tell her chawl, and community that the man who is her milk sisters husband is also her husband. and how many people think the society and community will accept it and congratulate her.

infact all she and her family will have to face is shame.

i know a lot of ragna fans will hate me. but that fine. love conquers all only when one is completely right, and right decisions were taken at the right time. and when no one elses life or future is at stake.

Look, I don't know the full extent of Pookie and Neetu's relationship because I didn't see it from the beginning. In regards to respect, I think both girls need to respect themselves and just forget and walk away from Raghav. They should want betterment for themselves, making and establishing something for themselves and leave Raghav alone. Both of them are looking like, the main squeeze and the side chick.

Pookie should have enough self-respect to walk away because no husband like that is worth being with who out rightly told you he married you for revenge, loves someone else and accepts that person as his wife. (I still think the marriage isn't real but for the moment they are showing it is, so I'm commenting base on that).

Kalpi should have enough self-respect to walk away because a man getting revenge and marrying someone else was more important than you and furthermore he made you look like the other woman, the mistress.

Just my humble opinion sorry if I offended anybody.