Why aren't Kapoor and Singhaniya not a perfect couple !!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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What makes Raghav angry??
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Anyone who touches his stuff or messes his house ...
If I am not wrong, even Kapoors are one of those rich tycoons, with things from all over the world...

Ok.. first thing to clear.. I am not against RagNa.. or this isn't about Raghav and Kalpana either.. it's the differences I am trying to figure out, between... Capabilities, and Lifestyles of two..!! Neither am I siding Paakhi..!!! Or claiming Paakhi to be better choice for Ragav..!! Mind it..!! I am RagNa and only RagNa.. but seeing some important practical aspects of the show..!!

I am wondering suppose if this responsibility would have been given to paakhi of decorating the housee,.. Could she have done better job??
Somewhere I feel yes, but on other side... DOes she have so much capabilities to plan and put down things like Kalpi..!! Kalpana.. (and even if it would have been Paakhi).. was a first timer at organizing Party at such place and that too expected to be rich and lavish...
Kalpi, while coming did borrow some tips from MIL.. and was going well, till Raghav came in blasted at her..
My point here is... . Mostly in any couple relationship.. it is expected that at least one of the two.. be cool and peaceful.. and other can be more *practical* no issues.. (I wouldn't call, Raghav's act of yesterday as practical either..) .. But now comparing both the girls..

So yesterday all those scenes of it which made Raghav angry about his things not being in place.. ... The moment Raghav realized his folly.. he tried to again go back to Kalpi, apologizing and grabbing her arms as usual..!! and Kalpi.. successfully made him feel guilty for his acts..👏👏👏👏

Now Paakhi... Equally Angry Young Women... with mask of Sweet Sugar... Or should I call her sweet sugar... I dunno.. she doesn't seem to be bad as of now...
I could typically see no difference in Raghav and paakhi.. when it comes to their anger..
Remember the scene, where she found out, that her parents were involved in stealing the project file..!! She was breaking vases and all those things in her house... The time, when she saw RagNa hugging each other... She was pissed off to make her room mess...
At the same time, Raghav has habit to drink and break glasses... He is the person.. who is like.. I am the boss.. from the way he sits, the way he things.. everything reflects that *I am the boss* (Putting his shoe on the table while thinking..., and etc..)..

Kalpana when angry .. starts to make doubh and cut vegetables..😆😆😆😆 ... Or may end up at putting flour on Manda taai.. with sooo many people around her trying to cheer her up..!! Ohh man.. is it just that girl is lucky to have Pakya and Vitthal around..!!
ANd Lately .. Gauri has started putting her suggestions to Kalpi..!! Kalpi.. mujhe walk par le jaogi na? Anyways... But.. She has seen through... how her family has handled every situations... So probably, knows how to deal with Raghav kindda ppl as well..!!

I believe so far, the person who could handle Raghav in best way, is Sammy.. Yesterday was the first time, I had ever seen him lose his calm...!!
But.. then I believe.. in order to stay with person like Raghav... (or even Gauri).. You need to be someone like Sammy.. not only in terms of understanding.. but also in terms of dealing with Raghav's anger and tantrum...Completely calm and cool... handling the whole situations with coolest mind...!!!!
Poor Sammy assumed that with Love in his life... Raghav would start appreciating eveything.. But he was wrong.. He still turned the same.. Just one assumption which went wrong.. made sammy also go angry...!!! Imagine how many unexpected things would Kalpi have to deal with, in order to stay with someone like Raghav...!!??

So..to conclude... Cutting Vegetables.. is much better option then... breaking glasses and crockery.. or flower cases in ur house..!!
No matter how rich u r..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said Sejal. You have explained everything clearly.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Pakhi isn't much better in these matters she has barged into raghavs house without informing aim his office without knocking several times, has had huge fights in a party with Neetu and family and taken off like a maniac . So not much better.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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And in accordance with my above post I agree with u
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with u ..your every word is right ..if we r in real life partner like this raghv I don't like ...this like ppl jab tak voh jeisa chahte he veisa ho raha he tab tak voh thick he ..jara sa agiant hua to loose the temper ..broke the stuff or harsh word to someone .
Edited by Jaymaa - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Though raghav is angry young man but he is good by heart. He was all alone from childhood and never went through caring and loving person. Kalpi has brought some changes in him. And I trust in future she will bring more stability to his behaviour. Kalpi has strength to fight with him and to realise him his mistakes at other hand I feel pakhi is still childish not yet matured. She can't handle raghav's anger.
I wonder many times how pakhi would have reacted if she have to go through the situations(9 insults) like kalpi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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u jst got me messed up...first i was thinkin "lo aagayi anothr Rakhi supporter, but lets hear wat she's gotto tell" 😆 & then u shifted ur points to anger reactions 😆 even bettr u concluded ur opinion applaudin Sammy 😆...yeah sammy is a real fren we see dat & i really luk forward to see how they became frens. suddenly Rammy's turnin out my fav couple to watch in the shw 😊
Ok to ur answers i knw for sure if the party managing thng was handed over to Pakhi bby for sure she'd too move thngs 😆 no doubt, she's utterly butterly sweety tweety for now bt lets wait & watch for her reaction aftr knowin abt ragna 😃
& Kalpi sure suits raghav perfect, they will further be the perfect match made in heaven ❤️ for sure...
& & & let me tell u cuttin vegetables whn in anger ain't a gud solution (or is it? i dnt knw for sure 😆) throwin stuffs cn easy u dwn (it does for me)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i too think pakhi and raghav cant be perfect couple?but reality strikes.
pakhi can break the things more than kalpi(because all the things where taken care by servents)
if raghav starts to scold pakhi.pakhi will bargain with raghav and this will lead to serious fights(in every realationship compromise is best medicine either any one should do to continue their realationship)
where as our kalpi only her silence for a sec made him realise what he has done to her.still kalpi gave a lecture but it ws not needed.only that silence made him realise the mistakes.
pakhi and kalpi has much diffrence where
kalpi is calm if anyone does bad with her also she will be calm where as pakhi is also calm if anyone does bad with her she will react to them

hats off to u. 👏
u explained every diffrence👏


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Posted: 11 years ago
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raghav pakhi like brother sister to bro sis ki habits bi to same hogi.. like todo glasses🤣
bt i thnk raghav breaks glasses coz they r the reasn jiske karan usne kalpi ko itna suna dia..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yaar Sejal the only reason I can think of Kapoor and Singhania not being together would be because Pakhi and Raghav = RaKhi which signifies a bond between and brother and sister and they are very similar together too as you so eloquently showed in your post. Besides, didn't Sahil want to adopt Raghav at one point? Yeah, practically speaking, that's all I see lol. In terms of what you said though, it would definitely be harder for Kalpi to fit in Raghav's world emotion-wise (dealing with his moodswings and anger issues) while it would be harder for Raghav in Kalpi's world in terms of resources available to the lesser well-off people. So they both have to overcome these differences in order to make their relationship successful. Either way, what would be a meaningful relationship if it didn't come with complications? ;)

PS: Alright, so my quota of commenting in a day is finished with your two wonderful posts! Be back for more later on (tomorrow possibly) =]
Edited by Shona_Mayur - 11 years ago

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