You see what you choose to see - Page 3

Originally posted by: VincyAnne

Pakhi darling come back to reality it's not good staying in dreamland for too long .. I know that reality is very harsh but you gotta accept it ...

Yup! She will only end up hurting more this way!

very well said shreya! 👏

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

i feel bad for her...and can identify with her as well...u r like this when u really want to feel desperatly that one u have is really urs while it is not but u just dont want to see the truth.

Alas ! truth is truth and u have to accept it sooner or later.

I will say being level headed and logical really helps in such situations which i find lacking in paaki right now .she needs an elderly advice.hope Kamla maa can put some sense in her

I understand Pakhi's psyche. Sometimes lies may be happier to accept than truths but if we live a lie it will never last forever. Pakhi takes these lies farther than most people. Even with Kamla's great parvarish something went wrong somewhere to make Pakhi so insecure.
Unfortunately, more than Kamla, Neetu may end up influencing her I feel.

Originally posted by: veeranu

Jab Raghav uske saath break-up karega naa, tab usko pata chalega.. Aur vo din utna door nahi hai..

I am sure that this will all be revealed to her dramatically. She will not take it well if Raghav chooses Kalpi. And I want thisto happen soon or else it will complicate everything!
Raghav uske saath break up karne se pehle ussey girlfriend to banana hoga na? Maybe that will not happen! 😛

@Shreya

Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

I understand Pakhi's psyche. Sometimes lies may be happier to accept than truths but if we live a lie it will never last forever. Pakhi takes these lies farther than most people. Even with Kamla's great parvarish something went wrong somewhere to make Pakhi so insecure.
Unfortunately, more than Kamla, Neetu may end up influencing her I feel.

a good upbringing cannot change ur basic character which u inherit from ur parents...few things can be controlled but not changed ...so is with paaki

Originally posted by: kshows_fangirl

True that!

She was about to blast Kalpi today..Sammy saved her, don't know what demeaning things she would have said to Kalpi as well in the office!

you know I can see a big confrontation in the future between the two (kalpi and paakhi) because kalpi isn't a silent one she knows and she will answer paakhi back and this time she isn't a little child who kamla can hushed her down it would be a great scene and I will be waiting for that

Originally posted by: prc_fan1

Nice post, Shreya!

But doesn't that apply to all of us? Kalpi included. Even though Raghav is rude to her, her mind always thinks & wishes for Raghav to help her. She chooses to see the good side, even though he disappoints.

At least based on today's episode, I don't see Pakhi as being delusional because she clearly reasoned out that he might have something important to do. And when he repeated those same words, it was her trust that won. She is seeing what Raghav is showing her - the care, the date, the dance & then the phone call to make up.

Also, she likes Raghav so her melting at that call po makes sense. It is exactly what Neetu said. Khatti meethi nok jhok.

At the moment, Kalpi is appearing more delusional to me because he shows her that little bit of care & she smiles off to sleep, forgetting the other mean things he's said to her.

Samridhi, we all like to see what we want to see but we do not always ignore big signs that contradict our wishes.
I felt that a few calls and a short excuse should not have been enough for Pakhi to believe Raghav. In her place another person would have wondered why he left her to go home alone late at night. If I am not wrong this will go om.
Kalpi always did take thing at face value but I am guessing that seeing many loving gestures she was sufferring from complex, Raghav's gesture of care for her touched her. That will probably be short-lived with him again taunting her.

Originally posted by: gina24

you know I can see a big confrontation in the future between the two (kalpi and paakhi) because kalpi isn't a silent one she knows and she will answer paakhi back and this time she isn't a little child who kamla can hushed her down it would be a great scene and I will be waiting for that

Gina there are many confrontations I am waiting for in this show, this being one of them.
Kalpi will confront noth Pakhi and Kamla and it will be big.

Originally posted by: Saniqa

It's amusing how you guys always find reasons
to blame pakhi for everything.everyone knows pakhi is childish.

Raghav clearly thinks pakhi is dumb &
foolish & using that to his advantage!
What signals pakhi is missing?
he's giving mixed ones!!!Even kalpi
thinks he dislikes her!

I am not blaming Pakhi for everything. I blame Raghav the most.
If you read my post you will see that it is not anti-Pakhi rant. It is simply my opinion of Pakhi's thinkinh.
Everyone will not have same views. I understand if you don't agree with me.