You see what you choose to see

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Posted: 11 years ago
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"Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth"

Pakhi: Her reaction to the entire episode of Raghav ditching her and going after Kalpi was something I was waiting for. I have to say that she didn't surprise me. Pakhi is a curious character. She chooses to live in her own dream world which she has built for herself. In this world of her's everything goes according to how she likes and everyone behaves as she wishes.

Raghav left her in the middle of a 'date' all too abruptly without an explanation to go after Kalpi. If she was thinking straight, alarm bells would have started to ring. But no!

A phone call! That's all it took for Raghav to melt Pakhi! Is that normal? All he said was he had an important work! Now really? What kind of work is so important that you have to leave a date without an explanation? Pakhi did not question that. Why did Raghav not care how she reached home? Why did he not run after her? Did that not show absolute disinterest in her well-being/safety? But no! Pakhi did not ask a single one of these questions!

Pakhi easily brought up the fact that Raghav hates Kalpi because that's just so comforting for her to think. I can now foresee what will happen in upcoming episodes. Even with Raghav and Kalpi giving her several signs, she will simply ignore what is to be seen and interpret things in a way that befits her interests. Even in the face of reality she turns away and believes in some false theory that makes her happy.

Pakhi sees what she chooses to see. She is not at all ready to go beyond her comfort level and look into reality. She really needs to accept reality fast or else it will all come crashing down on her one day. That will be the day when her dream world will be shaken.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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she is way too delusional... i hope that somebody breaks the glass world she is living in and make her face the reality..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said my friend how self absorbed and I'm sorry to say selfish paakhi is, is very clear in today's episode she was already to blast off at kalpi today but in right time Sammy reached there and she came to know the truth and seriously where the hell is your self respect girl!!!! raghav left in the middle of their dinner (sorry I wont call it a date) gave a very lame excuse for it and she didn't minded that; parvarish kamla k hai par gene toh neetu k hi hai (not intended to hurt anyone sorry if I did though)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: gina24

well said my friend how self absorbed and I'm sorry to say selfish paakhi is, is very clear in today's episode she was already to blast off at kalpi today but in right time Sammy reached there and she came to know the truth and seriously where the hell is your self respect girl!!!! raghav left in the middle of their dinner (sorry I wont call it a date) gave a very lame excuse for it and she didn't minded that; parvarish kamla k hai par gene toh neetu k hi hai (not intended to hurt anyone sorry if I did though)


Very well said! Especially the last line..your blood is your own blood..no matter if it is someone else's parvarish those fickle like selfish qualities will sustain in your children as well, no matter how Pakhi thinks that she is not even 1% like her mother!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shreya!
Love your post- you always choose to write on something different (here we all are -ranting about Raghav's rudeness 😆)

You write so well !

Remember in yesterdays episode-the conversation between Raghav and Pakhi? -Where she is discussing a dress and a sarcastic Raghav says "you like all branded stuff" ...

She is frivolous and superficial. She is selfish too!
Not only did Raghav abandon her midway, but she also found Raghav and Kalpi together and close. Not only did she not question him, she didnt for a moment think about Kalpi and Raghav and thier being together. You are so right-she chooses to see only what she wants to see.

Her behaviour also comes from the confidence that one way or the other she will get what she wants- so she is reasonably sure, she will get Raghav for herself ! So she doesnt want to think beyond that to any possibility that may not work the way she wants it to!

But the character is very typical and also very real!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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absolutely rite pakhi only sees what she wanted to see😕, i m worrying dat she will b great trouble for Ragna and as every one knows here,, she didnot think that if raaghav really dislike kalpi then how could he manage a long hug with kalpi,, wth,, paakhi is such a despo but where i know that she is very nyc for the current going only,, not expecting the same in future from her🤢🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pieryrose

she is way too delusional... i hope that somebody breaks the glass world she is living in and make her face the reality..

n i m sure that she will never be able to except the reality in future,, she has made her princess dream land with her prince charming
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Pakhi darling come back to reality it's not good staying in dreamland for too long .. I know that reality is very harsh but you gotta accept it ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pieryrose

she is way too delusional... i hope that somebody breaks the glass world she is living in and make her face the reality..


She will not be the same when her glass world is broken. Her sweetness will turn to bitterness.
Delusional is a fitting word for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i feel bad for her...and can identify with her as well...u r like this when u really want to feel desperatly that one u have is really urs while it is not but u just dont want to see the truth.

Alas ! truth is truth and u have to accept it sooner or later.

I will say being level headed and logical really helps in such situations which i find lacking in paaki right now .she needs an elderly advice.hope Kamla maa can put some sense in her

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