The three faces of Suman Tiwari. - Page 2

Originally posted by: rcoza

Gosh u all so gosh i wanted to post but mine would have been only of 3to 4 lines all of u are really too good u take the story to new levels thanks

Originally posted by: sanfan

@A Hajnal makes a lovely point about how Shravan is not privy to the qualities you mention. In any analysis, one must never lose sight of what are the motivations of a character's behaviour...as seen from the character's perspective...not our own...becos what we have is a 360 degree view which is not available to the characters themselves...In this connection, i can't resist making one point, in the story, Sumo has a 180 degree view if not a 360 one...yet the story is stuck at a point...we know why she does not despite her view...

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Hey, I'm back after so many days

I don't think a person can be classified into some basic personality types as in you classified Sumo into three. I believe there's always something even we don't know about ourselves until and unless we face the most direst situation or a situation we haven't faced yet. When we really are unsure about ourselves how can we be so sure about another person. There's always a scope for a new characteristic trait to be born any day. The reason for two persons to live together shouldn't necessarily be because they understand each other but it can rather be because they love each other and are ready to face any situation together.

Zindagiyan beeth jaate hain ek doosre ko samajne mein

Par kabhi humi koyi ye samaj paye ki samajna hi kyun hain

Jab zindagi hain ini chhoti si tho kabhi nasamj itni badi guna nahi hain

Isse guzaarne keliye chahiye thodisi pyaar thodisi muskaan bas

Originally posted by: potterginny

Hey-O Soup!
I am trying to put my thoughts in here, they are all jumbled up, so don't know of they make sense.
As you said, all three avatars constitute Sumo as a whole.
Shravan has seen them all. He also understands them...most of the time but they way he responds to them depends on his state of circumstances. He hasn't seen her develop them, the growth of her personality in all these years, that's why gets confused while encountering them. He doesn't know how to face them, he gets scared. He told Ramnath that she not what you think, he was hellbent on proving her worth but Sumo shut him out. He did reach out to her, thinking where he went wrong, but never received any proper explanation. Had she even once tried to explain her POV, he would have accepted her. He always did. But she shut him out, that made him think that she is shutting me out so that I don't influence her.'
He admires her for being a fighter, the stronger one. On face value, he masks it off to not appear vulnerable, but that strong, secure pillar is what makes him believe in her.
He loves the loving Suman. The one who would go to any lengths for her family. But has a problem when he doesn't find himself in her inclusion of family. The Preekar wedding drama, the middle class faade taunt is all that makes up as an excuse to blame her as he can't find the fault in her love for her family. And he wants to become like her. At preekar wedding, at their wedding, his attitude that 'if her family if important, so is mine.' But when he doesn't yield the result he hopes for, he gets frustrated.
He has seen glimpses of the one who loves him back. And whenever he has, he has been at his happiest. What he really craves is to be noticed and accepted by her. A pint of acknowledgement from her and he goes really high. The thank you, the promise of waiting for him -post the dal conversation, crediting him for saving Varun, the coffee conversation...they have just strengthened his hope that he is important to her. He will accept her with each ounce of his being when he comes to know that he is as much important to her as much she is to him. Because he knows Sumo like no other. The only thing that's making him label her is lack of acknowledgment on her part. When she stops ignoring him, he will again warm up to her. He has starting hoping again since his marriage. Just like she thinks that he loves her due to his own willingness to marry, he thinks the same. But he is confused right now due to his unmanaged expectations and the resultant lukewarm response on her part. Now her becoming a total Mrs Malhotra and being around him under the same roof will provide him an reassurance of the fact that she is not going anywhere, he will open up to all the faces of Sumo presented before him.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Rekha,

I think you got me wrong here.

I was not asking WHY Shravan doesn't see her as we do. It is really quite irrelevant- To me, all that matters is he still loves her despite the flaws he sees in her..

I was asking, 'what does he know of her?'...because that is where the story seems headed now..At least that was why I had wanted this couple to get married from ever since Preekar shaadi was fixed.😉

Originally posted by: sanfan

No Chick...I did not get u wrong at all...my only comment and it was not directed at you but a general one that we always have to see the character's motivations of behaviour...in which one cannot lose sight of the fact that the character is living the experience and we are watching a 360 degree view..which is not available to either Sumo or Shravan...When I say Sumodoes not take the first step, i am convinced by the characterisation on why she does not take the first step...only thing is I don't justify that behaviour, which I think u do...becos u feel closer to Sumo than Shravan. for me both are equidistant at this point. I understand his behav (not that I like it) and I understand her behavior (again not necessary that I like it). I am like a voyeur...just watching the two...and trying to understand where they will go from here..

Originally posted by: chicksoup

@ Black- Could you elaborate on that? 😕

Originally posted by: chicksoup

I am not the one classifying her..and definitely there is a lot more to a person than just 3 attributes...

I was simply analysing her based on the promo and trying to highlight the fact that he has not seen even one of the three aspects...A vast expanse of discovery awaits him..😉