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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: avni01

Wow!!!!nice post nith125 and eshaaax3 . This is exactly what I have been thinking too. But this track has been combined with too many other tracks and has been dragged endlessly that's what is causing this frustration. Otherwise this track by itself would have been very nice and pertinent.


Thank you :)

hmm, i think all the tracks, background tracks included, are paving way for a proper climax, and of the tracks that are going on, i think the ones in red are the most interesting ones, that will come together around PreeKar's shaadi date and move the story forward (so i think).


- PCT is back to square one; This will let Shravan see a glimpse of the sweat and efforts Sumo paid to build PCT on her own; he hasn't seen her struggle, so now when he will, he will maybe start to understand and differentiate ego and self-respect.

- Nanu's deteriorating health; This i feel like is the catalyst for ShraMan. Nanu and Shravan are Sumo's lifelines- she will do anything for these two, and just as SHE will break without Nanu, Shravan will too. When Nanu spoke to Suman about his health, Sumo broke down, and the instant she heard Shravan was missing, she thought of the worst possible scenarios and freaked out and set out to find him. These two are priceless in her life, and if something happens to one of them, she is going to need the other to hold her up. When Shravan was gone for ten years in her life, Nanu was her strength and all she needed to move forward. Shravan became Suman's strength that night when she was crying about Nanu. There's a picture frame in Nanu's room, where Teen ShraMan are kissing Nanu's cheeks, and I think it's highly symbolic of how if anything happens to Nanu, ShraMan will still have each other.

- Nirmala and Aditya; Slowly Aditya is being shown the door by Sumo. He was way ahead of himself, but he's being snubbed practically. Nirmala will come, soon, and that is when the raw truth is gonna hit Shravan. With Sumo building up PCT once again while taking care of PreeKar's shaadi, and then facing the actual truth ... everything is gonna be laid out for him, and that i feel is where Shravan himself will go to Sumo, instead of waiting for her to ask him what he wanted to talk about.

- Ramnath vs Sumo; I think at this point we all should know that Ramnath has NO game. He's fighting an already lost battle. Yes Sumo's behavior could be different with Shravan (but her being rude and cold with him is also the only way she can control herself in front of him, otherwise she will get lost in her feelings, kind of a lousy reason ... but... yeah).


- Preekar Shaadi; I don't have much to say about this except, Preekar's shaadi are paving way for ShraMan, i so believe a ShraMan shaadi WILL happen.



i agree there's a lot going on, and it's eating our brains, but i think i also trust CVS to tie everything together. They don't show things without reason, and this isn't a conventional Indian drama na, where one track takes two damn years😆, so i definitely think patience is key :D
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said Esha! It is easy to hate on Shravan but he is not wrong when things are viewed from his point of view. Shravan's wounds have yet to heal but still he is taking that risk in love only to be shot down each time. Anytime Shravan sees a glimmer of hope that he is coming closer to Suman, something or the other instills those fears in him again. Like today, what was he supposed to feel when he saw Suman with Adi after flatly refusing his help? He is entitled to be hurt, he is entitled to have those fears creep up whenever shades of the old Suman begin to show.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Mandy.

Well said Esha! It is easy to hate on Shravan but he is not wrong when things are viewed from his point of view. Shravan's wounds have yet to heal but still he is taking that risk in love only to be shot down each time. Anytime Shravan sees a glimmer of hope that he is coming closer to Suman, something or the other instills those fears in him again. Like today, what was he supposed to feel when he saw Suman with Adi after flatly refusing his help? He is entitled to be hurt, he is entitled to have those fears creep up whenever shades of the old Suman begin to show.


@ bold !!!! EXACTLY THAT!

We understand Sumo's side- her majboori, the reason behind her raw actions, that's the only way she will be able to avoid Shravan and take control of her emotions; it's the same thing she did 10 years ago. But we need to stop putting Shravan under the bus just because he isn't behaving like a savior angel sort of male lead. Shravan has his own perception and views, and that needs to be considered before blaming him, whether we agree with his actions/behavior or not.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is what I have been wanting to say for long but the jam packed schedule of mine is not letting me put things in my Psycho analysis.
I have always gone and looked up to Shravan not just from the outside but deep inside to.
I am not taking any sides. Neither Sumo's nor Shravan's I am just standing up for something which I believe is right and i.e. the way Shravan is behaving.
He has been brought up in an environment where he has lived and grown with such surroundings and the such mentality of people plus adding to it is his experience of the bitter life and the fear of people leaving which is haunting him and clinging by his side for long now since Sumo's behavior changed.
Yes,people feel that now Shravan is to get familiar with Sumo but what we don't see here is that he is someone who won't hold onto a tight belief until he has seen the changes happening.
For me both Sumo and Shravan are right at their places but it's just their time and conditions that are wrong.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nith125

You said everything I wanted to say and much more 👏. Loved what you said !

I am a Sumo person through and through and I don't see anything wrong in what you have said and I can relate to this Shravan. I was saving up my thoughts for my weekly analysis I post on Friday but here it is.
Ten years is a very very long time. Distance doesn't make the heart grow fonder always. When two people don't communicate it is very easy for them to assume the worst about each other how much ever you trust the person. So think about it, Shravan left not with his trust intact but he left when his trust was shattered.It is not easy for him, I don't think it will ever be, as difficult as it may be for us to accept this. We all have our personal demons, so does Shravan Malhotra. And he has always been in conflict with his demon called insecurity since he came back. He hides it well and he struggles, he almost cries but we hadn't seen him giving up. Why ?
His strength is Sumo. He derives his strength from her. Imagine being in a home of constant conflict. The two adults who are supposed to be your role models constants bickering, blaming each other, do we expect that child to grow up and be a man who will trust ? Back then and even now, Shravan got his strength from Sumo, while the younger Shravan wanted to do things for her, to make her happy, it was very important for him not to "share" her. He wasn't willing to even then, how would he be willing now ? This Shravan who hasn't seen Sumo grow up, who hasn't seen the caterpillar transform into the butterfly will struggle to believe it. Its a fact and we see it now.
How will he handle the fact that the one thing, in fact the only thing he ever wanted in his life is going away from him ? Try taking a candy away from a child after the child thinks that the candy is his. Nothing will make the child normal again, until you give the candy back. You can try anything, sing a song, dance make funny faces, give him ice-cream, you can pacify the child but not satisfy him. He will still in the back of his mind think about the candy you took away.
That miffed child as it was mentioned in a post yesterday is now our Shravan Malhotra.
Rational thinking fails him, he cannot see clearly or think clearly. If he had a chance and somewhere deep down he has given up after he saw Adithya and Sumo together. There is a quote I read somewhere about inner demons
"I have given up fighting my inner demons, we are on the same side now".
How true and how apt for Shravan !
However I don't think he has it in him to abandon Sumo. We will see him fight his demon and emerge stronger. That which doesn't kill you only makes you stronger right ?


Nith,
Beautifully written.. Yes, I agree absolutely.. And nothing more to add.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Esha
A much needed n brilliant post. You have said all so specifically n analysed so well that there's nothing more to add. Shravan is being bashed for his behavior but if we see from his perspective he isn't wrong.. I was explaining all this to a friend sometimes back..
Thanks for this post..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nith125

Missed this, I think the majority of us here are way too fond of Shravan that we tend to critique every small action or inaction of his, but we adore the Shravan Malhotra. If he as much as gives a loving glance towards Sumo, all our anger will vanish. There is no risk in posting it here!

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