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I know you all are really upset with how Shravan is behaving and how is thought processes are turning out to be and yes you all are justified but Shravan to in his place is justified. Here I will write a journey into Shravan's mind picking up few background points and highlighting today's thoughts and contrasting them.Hope they do some good to you all,put you in some piece.
A Ride into Shravan Malhotra's Mind
Shravan Malhotra a complicated creature a very difficult man to understand. But ever thought why?Well here is the answer.
A child aged just 16-17 left standing alone by the woman who mattered most in his life,the woman who he loved the most,the person who held the top position in his heart was left into the hands of such a person who blinded him away from the rest of the world showing what he wanted to show and that was what he believed about women.
Shravan had always been securely kept in such an environment where he had seen how a woman would work at home obey all the orders of her husband gave and keep the relationship and family connected and happy.
And in such an environment where he was made to see and believe how a self respect driven, an independent and an egoistic women had caused a wreck to a family ,relationships,life and emotions.
Isn't it a human tendency to believe and adopt what one sees that to on a daily basis and in his own family?
Shravan is a man in love,not just a beginner to this feeling but an oldie. He is someone who has been devoid of this feeling called love from the ones who he had once held huge expectations from and so when once again after all those years the history is repeated and when the words self respect,ego,independency enter their bond he is made to think back to the same extension of these words he had learnt from life and that is an end of a relationship.
Isn't it the case with you that few particular words hold on to some meaning throughout your life where however hard you try you just cannot reverse or alter its meaning?
He is a man who believes in a girl and is shown a clear confusion and introduction of the negative words of relationship to him by the same.So now when the girl who he considered his path deviates how is he supposed to keep going on the same all together?
For once leaving the past behind and coming to the present he sees how a relationship,his brother's even today stands complete and happy where one listens and the other orders or wishes,where both compromise leaving their ego's aside.That makes his belief on compromisation and a superiority in a relationship even stronger making his mind wander,deviate from the path of believe and trust.
(This part was highlighted today as to how Pushkar explained his and Preeti's relationship)
Considering today's episode: Shravan Malhotra saw how a ego had brought tussle and conflict between a relationship and this was nothing but just a tighter knot to a already confused and negative Shravan.
I do not blame Shravan for the way his thought processes are building,its his environment,his family history/background and lessons of life that have molded this particular Shravan and his thought processes.
Here I leave you with few questions:
Don't you all have some belief that is stuck on to you just because you have been taught or seen that in the family?
Don't you all deviate once seeing the other happy when you know his happiness is probably because of being in the wrong shoes?
For once put yourself in the Shravan and think...think hard!
One Problem I definitely have with Shravan here is that he needs to understand that he is equally as egoistic as Suman is and their relationship is way to different than what Preeti and Pushkar share.
Feel free to contradict and take your frustration out.Consider this as your own post.
Thank You.
-Mitali❤️
