Originally posted by: poppinss
The problem is not as simple as it looks.
There is a big class difference between the families. This was felt even during the preeti bhoj. And there is also the matter of interest in the marriage!
Ram and kamini started the marriage talk by insulting the tiwaris about their status. For a person with not much money self respect matters a lot. They do unreasonable things to maintain their seeks respect. Don't think the tiwaris would be ok with Shravan giving money. If nite what stopped Shravan talking this out with nanu?
Having said that what asshole comes to q wedding and talks so rudely? Relatives do that in a subtle way but most marriage will have relatives finding fault with something or the other.
Sumo did make the hall and arrangements look stunning. There was serious efforts from her side. Shravan I think should have mentioned it to her. If you notice none apart from kamini was unhappy. Does the real unhappiness stem from the hall our the fact that she is getting her Son married to a family that she considers beneath her status. Is there any remedy to this problem?
Shravan is trying to satisfy someone who cannot be satisfied. Sumo could bend and I think she would have if Ramu had not interfered. As for the khosla track and arranging the other hall... in both the cases shra decides to do something without thinking of the consequences. Think about it in conservative terms and you might probably agree that Shravan is a little carried away. Especially cause he compares kameeneyr with Nirmala..
Shravan is not wrong in his approach. But he is also not fully thinking things thru