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Posted: 9 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: -Amri-

Ah...mothers, Puba...mothers. 😎 You can't live without them...but they're the only ones who really know what makes you tick...and what makes you crazy as well😆



The aftermath of that story was that I protested about doing nothing and just chit-chatting...but I doubt whether she believes that story even today!


Ahh - you girls said the right word! Mother - they always pay attention, even when not needed. Coming back to the story - neither Shravan, nor Sumo - have that one person in their lives - the one who watches over you and watches out for you - no matter what 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
#62
@Fernweh - absolutely. More than anything else these two need happiness and no one will give them more of that than they themselves - when with each other. so yeah - its time I say 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
#63
nice post dear and agree..
bro nowhere in the scene till now, if u dont want then why to mention just for party track or for beginning of shraman scene but that can be done by alternative way also

then the money matter, thats too much there are 5 senior members and all responsibility on sumo and no discussion of money which is main concern for tiwari family and all duty on sumo from ring to hall booking why cant mausa ji or mami ji go and check..

preeti booking expensive lehnga and isnt she aware of financial condition of house. strange.

now comes to shraMan, they were talking and suddenly sumo not talking and he never think that, that she suddenly start ignoring him why , he is a lawyer na then why cant he think and i have heard lawyer can read lie easily..but till now no such thing be shown ..so shra as lawyer i am not convinced.
am expecting at the end of marriage track shraman gonna understand each other from each others pov,
the way shra is remembering his dad words with sumo's actions, hoping this in positive turn

pushkar character is ruined.
Edited by _Eternity_ - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: Nannamunna

How many of u think that they gonna get forcefully married by the end of this track.preekar track has been built up by cvs long back.and now sumo and sravan not in good terms with each other.but due to circumstances both will get married.sravan will feel guilty and sumo will feel sravan did ehsaan on her by marrying her.to understand her fully sravan has to see her day to day life,her love and sacrifices for the family and her vulnerability.these will come in front of him only if they are married as sumo usually doesnt share her sorrows with anybody.once they end up in same room howmuch ever she hides he will see it.


I had the same feeling, thats where the track is heading at least looks like it. Just replied to poppins thread where she has mentioned the same thing. I personally don't like the coerced/contract marriage tracks but CVs in this show usually surprise us, lets wait and watch.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: farial100

I agree guys and that's why it's losing it Charm and trp falling. All tracks are looking like they don't know what to do after they confess they don't get story moves so they should right something. Since they day I know international viewers doesn't matter for trp I have stopped watching on tv just scroll on Laptop and see Sharman scenes and if I know it will be Sharman epi or more scenes of them then I watch on tv. Hope cvs writers know what they doing.

Same here ! International TRP doesn't count, so I read the WU first and I skip all Preekar scenes and watch only Shraman and Dabbu scenes. I don't mind Kamini-Vandy scenes too, but the rest of them are getting on my nerves.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: Fernweh


Bang-on comments and looking at his behaviour very true.

Shravan has never had a bench-mark for relationships ever. he was always an introvert largely attributable to the fact that he was a nerd he was in school and an introvert. His mother and later Sumo were the only 2 people who were the brightness in his life- it seems that he was closer to his mother than ramnath. After his trust in women was broken as the 2 most important women in his life let him down, when he needed them the most, he became as cynical and bitter as they come. Probably continued to be the loner he was even in London with few friends. The only person who he trusted was Ramanth (the worst possible choice) who actually let him down as well by sending him of to London.

Whatever relationship/friendships he would have nurtured probably were at a superficial level and he never matured emotionally to invest in relationships/friendships completely. As he grew up and transformed from the geek into a handsome successful lawyer, he continued viewing women and their attitude towards him at the same level. Did respect come into it, probably not.

If Suman's and his relationship is to be of equals, he will first have to change his perception of women starting with that he has of his mother. And understand her and treat her as a person with her own mind and views to be respected for what they are..And along with the understanding will come the trust.

She has kept telling him that she will not let him down but i guess he never really listened to her each time she said that to him. So it kind of makes it a superficial love if his yardstick of falling in love again is that she will not leave him and go.

Hopefully in the next week, the CVs do show a progression of his thoughts and understanding as this track progresses else reconciling with this Shravan will be a tad bit difficult.

Too long a post but just had to write it all after i read your views!


Part of the problem is that Shravan has no monologues at all. 100% of the time we know what Suman is thinking but not even 50% of the time we know what Shravan is thinking. Character progression is a very important aspect in fiction, but we are just going around in circles. Trust her or don't trust her, period. How many times will he revisit that ? Its unbelievable that he thinks he is in love with her but he still doesn't trust her completely. What is love without trust, its just a farce, a name given for an infatuation. Shravan has to have the maturity to understand this, I am sure he will. He has to start thinking from her POV, till date has he thought why Sumo wanted him to meet Nirmala. That too after the fact that she told him in the coffee shop that she did it for his good. Why doesn't he ask that question ?

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Posted: 9 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: QUIRKY333


😆 True that and its a pity no one gossips about them - individually and together (more so) they truly are supremely gossip worthy - so enough with the world ignoring what is staring them in their face 😆 let the dance unleash all such forced!!



Yes please gossip ! And do it near Shravan's and Nanu's ears !
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Posted: 9 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: -Amri-

Quirky

I don't understand...at least in India people of the opposite sex who are friends don't get into each other's room so freely...especially when it's a relatively conservative family like Sumo's.

And Shravan always ghusaos into her room at will...sits on her bed...even closes the door sometimes...like when she was recovering and he made his promise about staying by her side forever. Even Sumo just barges into his room whenever she likes...


And yesterday toh she wore his dupatta...no one questions it? You've gotta be kidding me. I wonder what these people are smoking.

I don't think the Tiwari family cares at all. Look at how Ramnath was, he was so anxious, which is understandable. I don't justify his actions in anyway but thats what a parent will feel. He has a different agenda but thats the only time I felt he was a parent, otherwise I don't consider him to be a parent, just a lawyer who cares only about his opinions.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: QUIRKY333


Ahh - you girls said the right word! Mother - they always pay attention, even when not needed. Coming back to the story - neither Shravan, nor Sumo - have that one person in their lives - the one who watches over you and watches out for you - no matter what 😳


Word !
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Posted: 9 years ago
#70
@doublep I am so glad my post made you come out in the open and I was happy that so many others shared similar thoughts. I was hesitant to make this post but I appreciate that the every one has taken this positively 😛

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