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Guys this is just my analysis of Pushkar as a woman. Why he is like that. If you ask me there are certain things a man loves. Whether your brother, son, husband , your male friend or male colleague. A little bit of massaging their ego, make them feel ( I am highlighting the word feel here) that they are decision makers in front of society. If you have your need, your point always put in front of them in private. Believe me a good number of men not only like you, but respect you and will give you due credit also for your contribution in front of everyone if you can manage this thin line( I am not talking about Ramnath kind of people, but a man like Sharavan can be handled very well the way I have mentioned)
If you see Kamini survives on Ramnath's good book with this pretense. But Suman need not do this pretense. She can simply manage relations the right way.
Problem with Pushkar is that he had an overbearing mother who insults him, who doesn't approve of his decisions, imposes her decision on him, berates him of his choices while his dad stands mute. Pushkar is very much an insecure man, who expects mollycoddling by a woman. Wants that blind acceptance. Ramnath says Shravan is like him, unfortunately no. Shravan is not like him. Shravan has brains, yes he looks at the situation, analyzes it and takes decision. Some might be wrong, but he is willing to walk the extra mile to correct it. Basically a guy who can accept mistakes and correct it. Suman is also like that. She can also accept mistakes and then take correction. Coffee shop scene. In a marriage when both partners can accept their mistakes and walk to correct it marriage will succeed.
Pushkar is going to be like Ramnath and sweet looking Preeti is going to be like Nirmala. Ramnath says he doesn't want to play with fire. But the problem is that he doesn't understand fire. This lovey dovey will end post marriage with Pushkar and Preeti ending up accusing each other. Kamini will put the blame on Ramnath for bringing Preeti as her bahu and ruining Pushkar's life.
CVs have placed the script very nicely to give Ramnath the tight slap
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