Pushkar's dialogue an analysis

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Guys this is just my analysis of Pushkar as a woman. Why he is like that. If you ask me there are certain things a man loves. Whether your brother, son, husband , your male friend or male colleague. A little bit of massaging their ego, make them feel ( I am highlighting the word feel here) that they are decision makers in front of society. If you have your need, your point always put in front of them in private. Believe me a good number of men not only like you, but respect you and will give you due credit also for your contribution in front of everyone if you can manage this thin line( I am not talking about Ramnath kind of people, but a man like Sharavan can be handled very well the way I have mentioned)

If you see Kamini survives on Ramnath's good book with this pretense. But Suman need not do this pretense. She can simply manage relations the right way.

Problem with Pushkar is that he had an overbearing mother who insults him, who doesn't approve of his decisions, imposes her decision on him, berates him of his choices while his dad stands mute. Pushkar is very much an insecure man, who expects mollycoddling by a woman. Wants that blind acceptance. Ramnath says Shravan is like him, unfortunately no. Shravan is not like him. Shravan has brains, yes he looks at the situation, analyzes it and takes decision. Some might be wrong, but he is willing to walk the extra mile to correct it. Basically a guy who can accept mistakes and correct it. Suman is also like that. She can also accept mistakes and then take correction. Coffee shop scene. In a marriage when both partners can accept their mistakes and walk to correct it marriage will succeed.

Pushkar is going to be like Ramnath and sweet looking Preeti is going to be like Nirmala. Ramnath says he doesn't want to play with fire. But the problem is that he doesn't understand fire. This lovey dovey will end post marriage with Pushkar and Preeti ending up accusing each other. Kamini will put the blame on Ramnath for bringing Preeti as her bahu and ruining Pushkar's life.

CVs have placed the script very nicely to give Ramnath the tight slap

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Kavila

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Posted: 9 years ago

Shruti di u dont know what u have done seriously thank is not enough for this post

Exactly. Prekar are i most love bubble at the moment but after the marraige when it will brust and the reality will hit them.

We will another ramnath and nirmala standing but i surely dont want another shravan to suffer..

Yes ramu has dig the biggedt grave once not even imagine.

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sriarshi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Ur correct.. Hopefully we can see this in serial.. But whatever they have to cut short the scenes of family and preekar.. Shraman needs screen space more from now onwards... Coming to pushkar all we have seen till pushkar is like understanding and cute guy who supports his brother.. But ya I understand he is in marriage mood so he is not seeing what going in shravan mind... I think shravan shares this with him..so he will support sharavan.. Otherwise again ramu involves and spoiles everything

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BLR_babe

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Posted: 9 years ago

what i got from his description was . preeti gives him importance .. he has been cuddled all his life so he found someone who does that too .. one who doesnt get angry at him , understands his POV , sweet and not much nakaras (ego in his words ) ..

pushkar hasnt been challenged in life so preeti is what he feels is right for him ..

once married he will be ping pong ball between his mom and preeti .. preeti would always want crutch of pushkar to deal with kamini ..

is preekar strong enough to handle the storm thats going to hit them ??

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malikakas

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Posted: 9 years ago

I definitely agree Pushkar and Preeti will have issues. Although I am not sue we can say Pushkar is like Ramnath, yet. It might happen in the future but I am not sure I'd base that on this conversation. I think there is a difference between appreciating qualities in Preeti and really who wouldn't love a partner that is accommodating vs expecting the other person to always be deferential. So far we haven't seen Pushkar expect that Preeti behave in a certain way. But like you said Pushkar has had an overbearing mother -- in that sense he might need to overcompensate by being more dominating.

I think you are spot on about Shravan. Shravan isn't ruled by his ego. He's confident so he doesn't need false pride to cling to. He can accept a mistake and learn from it and grow.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

@mannu these are certain things the feminist in me learned through experience. By falling and hurting but yes I would prefer to give this knowledge to educated, young independent woman on how you can amicably co-exist. Because this is the only way you can overcome leeches like Kamini.

@sri we all want Sharman. But yes we will have to tolerate Preekar for the time being😆😆

@BLR Preekar is not strong. It is very clear. Once married Preeti will want all attention to herself. She lives in a lala land. Otherwise look at her. Least concerned about the financial trouble her family is falling into for her sake

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anisha-anisha

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Posted: 9 years ago

Will Kamini let the marriage happen?. All her ideas result in failures like yesterday's panditji wala but I am sure she will do something to backstab Ramnath and then I want to see Preeti and Pushkar fight for their love.

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spshastr

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@mannu these are certain things the feminist in me learned through experience. By falling and hurting but yes I would prefer to give this knowledge to educated, young independent woman on how you can amicably co-exist. Because this is the only way you can overcome leeches like Kamini.
Shru hi 5 on that
@sri we all want Sharman. But yes we will have to tolerate Preekar for the time being😆😆

@BLR Preekar is not strong. It is very clear. Once married Preeti will want all attention to herself. She lives in a lala land. Otherwise look at her. Least concerned about the financial trouble her family is falling into for her sake

I think for the difference to come out Shraman have to get married. Maybe Shrav will come to know of Sumos love and do a force wala shaadi?

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

@malika yesterday's convo laid the foundation of Pushkar's expectations on Preeti. Preeti has been apologizing so post marriage also he will expect her to apologize. When that doesn't happen, the issues will come up. It was not the talk per se, but the hint it gave on the future, on expectations

@anisha marriage will have to happen or Ramnath will make that marriage happen. Kamini says it rightly to protect his son, he has made Pushkar bali ka bakra. Kamini will bite back Ramnath for this. We need to know both Ramnath and Kamini needs pretense. So whatever they do they have to keep pretense of good people. Like today's panditji. But after sometime the pretense will go away and they will stand at logger heads at each other. Basically if Sharman has to happen Ramnath has to be alone. 😆😆

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Kavila

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@mannu these are certain things the feminist in me learned through experience. By falling and hurting but yes I would prefer to give this knowledge to educated, young independent woman on how you can amicably co-exist. Because this is the only way you can overcome leeches like Kamini.
@sri we all want Sharman. But yes we will have to tolerate Preekar for the time being😆😆
@BLR Preekar is not strong. It is very clear. Once married Preeti will want all attention to herself. She lives in a lala land. Otherwise look at her. Least concerned about the financial trouble her family is falling into for her sake

Exactly shruti i am like shouting like hell that to stop like kamini it so important that a girl like preti enters thier lifr bec dil like vandy cant handle the superficial iaty of women like kamini malhotra.

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