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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

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@sp your idea is good. I am also thinking that Sharman marriage might happen. When nothing works in desperation to hit at Ramnath in the mandap Kamini can publicly put the proposal for Sharman marriage and Nanu will accept it. 😆😆. So their marriage will look forced as they have not confessed their feelings 😆😆 and maybe since Sumo is not talking to him Shravan might not be sure what she wants😆😆

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idonkno

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Posted: 9 years ago

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This is a wonderful post Shruthi!

Pushkar and Preeti's relationship is simply so superficial for me at the moment while on the other hand Shravan and Suman's relationship comes across as deeply aligned. Marriage is a shared journey and therefore both the partners need to be on the same road in order to reach their desired destination.

Pushkar and Preeti are a classic example of - two people who start out together and decide where they would both end up finally but are not on the same page - therefore it is no longer a shared journey for them. This would only result in additional problems, misunderstandings and confusions for them. Maybe one of them would be lost or one of them might be on the road with potholes, hills and unexpected diversions. There is also no guarantee that they would end up at the same place at the same times and even if they did, they would have a very different experience and views on what the ride was like. They also would not have enjoyed this journey as expected and might also face difficulty in explaining their individual experience to each other. So, depending on their individual (and different) journey, one or both of them might even become changed in some way as a person while the other is completely unaware of this development.

This is where the alignment that exists between Shravan and Suman comes to play. It makes them see the things largely in the same way - creating shared goals and supporting each other's individual goals. It ensures that they both will be on the same journey (and on the same road) - always, and at the same time and also prevents either of them from veering off the track. And this does not need them to be together 24x7. This is as much as mental and emotional journey as a physical one.

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spshastr

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@sp your idea is good. I am also thinking that Sharman marriage might happen. When nothing works in desperation to hit at Ramnath in the mandap Kamini can publicly put the proposal for Sharman marriage and Nanu will accept it. 😆😆. So their marriage will look forced as they have not confessed their feelings 😆😆 and maybe since Sumo is not talking to him Shravan might not be sure what she wants😆😆

I think she might do that and Ramu cant say no to Nanu so he will be ok. He might ask Sumo to say no who wont as Nanu has said yes..

We have Ramus truth and then Shraman marriage and parallel trracks.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

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@ido the basis of preekar relation is what. A kiss. A physical intimacy. It happens quickly, but evaporates even more quickly after the initial hullabulla. What is the foundation of Sharman relation. It is the emotional connect and understanding with each other. For them love is the natural progression. The intimacy they feel at the emotional level when love is confessed gets expressed at the physical level. So their relation will stand the strength of the time. As emotionally they cannot be apart.

@sp Ramu's truth I don't think will come out quickly. He has to be put in a spot, that is the best thing I want.

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sravanthi vangala

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Same here from the day one I always left that there will be lot of problems between preekar, there will definitely come a situation where they will not be able to manage their married life that is when Sharman will again come into picture to help them... this is where it will be clear that the problem is not love marriage or women's independence but it is the understanding between them and about them that matter for a marriage to sustain, infact not just marriage but any relation..

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sravanthi vangala

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: spshastr

I think she might do that and Ramu cant say no to Nanu so he will be ok. He might ask Sumo to say no who wont as Nanu has said yes..
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We have Ramus truth and then Shraman marriage and parallel trracks.

Kamini is the only hope...please kamini please do some thing can you see that your bhaisaab is using your son to protect his son, do something so that bhaisaab son will also face problem that is marry him to sumo😆

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Yes Sravas,a couple needs understanding whether love or arranged. And Kamini is our hope for Sharman😆😆

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sravanthi vangala

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@BLR Preekar is not strong. It is very clear. Once married Preeti will want all attention to herself. She lives in a lala land. Otherwise look at her. Least concerned about the financial trouble her family is falling into for her sake

You are so very right.. preeti is always living in a lala land, so looks to be least bothered how her family is dieing to arrange money and talking about pink lanega of hers and the worst thing is she is not even thinking "what about sumo 's marriage expenses if all the family's financial get exhausted with her marriage" ...anyways I would like to add some points here

1. Not the preeti is very demanding but yes she loves luxury which might create problems as pushkar mostly live on the salary he gets and is even afraid to ask that, but preeti would definitely want to get designer dresses, etc... and show off like Kamini... which will definitely create problems..

2 Preeti fails to have any individuality and just go the way flow goes and this will also create problems... Preeti is too childish for Pushkar to handle...

3 Pushkar has lot many expections for Preeti, he judged preeti complete nature with just few meetings of about an hour or so, but in reality you will never know a person even after spending ages with them, which means when expections don't match reality it is painful and people need courage to accept it and get along, so we have to see Pushkar's reactions at this stage... not just Pushkar's but even Preeti 's expections will be crashed in many terms have to wait and watch even her reaction.

Yes both Pushkar and Preeti are good individually but together????

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sravanthi vangala

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: anisha-anisha
Will Kamini let the marriage happen?. All her ideas result in failures like yesterday's panditji wala but I am sure she will do something to backstab Ramnath and then I want to see Preeti and Pushkar fight for their love.

Sorry but to be Frank fighting for love is not their cup.of tea, if anything of such sort happen and the marriage breaks then Sharman will have to fight for them and they will be crying in front of Sharman...

Sharman are not able to fight for their love itself why to burden them so I want Preekar marriage to happen