Is the truth really worth it??? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ttt1

Totally agree

How to restore faith in relationship ,tell him that the one relationship he trusts the most is fake ...doesn't match

Also about nirmala ,as a woman she did the right thing to leave ...she's did the right thing to herself. But not staying in touch with Sravan is wrong. That cannot be attributed to ramnath

Sravan has a pathetic opinion of nirmala not because ramnath brain washed him...it's also becuase nirmala was never there to justify her stand

I made a post when nirmala entered the show

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4630447

Originally posted by: pearl.white

Word. 👏
Ramnath was never a bad parent..
I know that in the show, when he will learn of the truth, he will be busy in making amends to his mother and Sumo and start avoiding his father like a plague. But if we think realistically, can a person like Shravan survive this awith such high emotions flowing around?
I wish questions about Nirmala's absence are not buried post the revelation and she be given a clean chit.

Originally posted by: Deb_05

Yes. You're correct! Realistically a person wouldn't have been able to handle these emotions. I mean after all it's his father. A father who he is devoted to. So upon hearing the actual truth he will be shattered. And I feel they should keep this aspect in the show too. Like they should show the deep level of scarring in him. And then later he will obviously apologize to sumo and Nirmala. And yes! I want Nirmala's answers. Where was she all these years? Shravan is right! When he needed her the most, she left! If she had really cared about her son, she wouldn't have left him. So Shravan's anger is actually justifiable. And if Nirmala never married ahuja, why write ahuja as her last name? She also has a great number of faults as much as Ramnath. She wasn't a good mother at all. And that's what is irking me now. Like whyyy after 10 years come and ruin your son's life, when you didn't even think about him once before choosing to leave?

Originally posted by: -Amri-

I completely get what you're saying. I was actually hoping that they'd show something revolutionary for once and show Nirmala having married Ahuja. But I guess they weren't ready to tread a dangerous path😆It's the same reason why they have shown her not to have gotten a divorce, either. I am convinced that this leaves the door open for Ram and Nirmala to unite in the future

Nirmala is perhaps more to blame of the two- I've always maintained that she is the bigger failure as a parent among the two. Abandoning your child without an explanation is not done. But I am considering this from Shrav's perspective. To know that your mom had an affair- it must be heart-wrenching. It's one thing for your parent to remarry after getting a divorce, and another for them to have an affair while they were still married. That is a big betrayal!🥱

Originally posted by: -Amri-

Bang on post. I've always felt that the writers wanted the viewers' sympathy to be with Nirmala- but that didn't happen. We will always wonder at why she abandoned her son to his own ends and happily migrated with Ahuja and raised his children, on top of it! She is a bad parent, period!

Originally posted by: pearl.white

Thanks a lot dear.
"The truth is a beautiful and terrible thing, and should therefore be treated with caution."
Wow, you sutely gave me a new perspective. Until now, he did not have the right to make the choice but now all will be in his hands. He needs to know the truth, be it devastate him to smithers. Let a new Shravan rise from his ashes !

But I wish the blow had been softened. Sumo should not have foisted this meeting. She could have tried to make him familiar to the truth by conversing in a cool and composed manner.

Originally posted by: pearl.white

Sorry to butt into this discussion, but couldn't resist myself.

@Amri: Mom being an adultess, scarred him big time. To him, his mom came out as the worst person on the planet. She rejected him and his father for another man (and as supplied by his father later, is raising the other man's children.) Plus she never tried to contact him, was he a toy, jab man bhar gaya tab chod diya. Must be heartwrenching for him. Wish the CVs had undergone the path , would have made a wonderful arc.

@ttrocks: Nirmala has all the rights to divorce and remarry. And Shravan wont understand this and it will be his problem, not hers. Every word was brilliantly put forth!